What are the causes of people "falling out of love" especially since they are already married?

Question

I AM NOT MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THIS IS JUST A QUESTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Some reasons could be that one grows mentally and the other does not. They both develop interests that take different directions and lose interest in one another, or it wasn't really love in the first place.

Answer 2

When you start to let little things get to you like leaving the toilet seat up or throwing wet towels on the floor or leaving hair in the bathroom sink,farting,belching,i could go on and on.That's when your spouse isn't looking as good as you once thought they did and this is when outside interference comes in to play. Co-workers are the biggest threat to any marriage when the spouse is having problems dealing with his or her feelings. An affair is about to happen and the other spouse hasn't a clue that there is even a problem until it's to late. All that could have been avoided if only they both learned to communicate with each other.
The answer to your question is lack of communication makes couples fall out of love.

Answer 3

Dear Sufferer,

there are N number of reasons.........

1. Distance/Opportunity
2. Too much Space
3. Human nature
4. Destiny
5. Cruelty of partner
6. Lack of passion or time or both
7. Depression

the list is endless..............

Human beings are destined to fall in and out of love. We are selfish ppl and respond to daily stimuli. Reasons are basic : sex and hunger. Men want sex (with women other than wifey dear.) and women want a listener, a shoulder to cry on , blah blah ... (other than the husband mind u becoz husbands are bozos !!!). It is all about sex but perceived and projected differently. How else do all extra marital affairs end up in bed. Being married is no longer a guarantee that ur partner will not take notice of the world outside marriage. As regards falling out of love without external reasons is concerned...the answer is simple ...one of u is thinking about his or her own interest. Stop doing that and the love will resurface. If ur partner is drifting away...talk to them. Before its too late ....
All the best. And yes both of u get examined for depression. Seriously !

Answer 4

You have to work at it in order to stay "in love". Sometimes you have to stand back and take a look at things and see what you can do to "fall in love all over again". In a relationship, people are always changing. They'll either change together or change separately. People who are unselfish and committed to each other rarely "fall out of love" permanently.

Answer 5

"Falling out of love" only happens to people who are so stupid that they think that love is something you feel, they confuse love with infatuation, romance and sexual appeal. You either love a person or you don't. You don't 'fall in love' and you certainly don't 'fall out of love'. It's just a dumb person's excuse for what happens when the sparks wear off and they've got another crush.

Answer 6

well money, children, and boredom! and dont forget the internet! LOL! people dont work hard i find at making relationships work these days. people also move to quick, you really need to respect and love the person your with in order to make the commitment of getting married. i think people take marriage to lightly!!! good luck, i hope your not in a situation like that. take care now!

Answer 7

The second you both say "I do" you fall out of love it just takes some people longer to realize it. Other just lie to themselves. Deep down you know if you are still in love. Stop lying!!!

Answer 8

It starts with getting tired of routine, no intimacy, and no communication...There's no spark anymore, but then again if your love is strong you'll be able to work through it, at least I'd hope so.

Answer 9

Well, I fell out of love with my husband because he lied, cheated and stole from me and our son. Yeah, that'll do it.

Answer 10

You need compatability. If the spark is no longer there, you cannot force it. It is done, over.