I am currently in a relationship and recently she went on my myspace as she thought something was wrong and found a message from my ex in regards to my current girlfriend being upset with my ex posting a picture of her toes, and said something about "other" pictures. I talk to my ex and have no interest in getting back together with her. Anywho, my girlfriend asked if I had dirty pictures and I said yes, as I just... never deleted them. She was extremely upset with that fact.
Am I in the wrong, it is not like I look at them, just have them on my computer.
2007-12-19 20:24:06 · 11 answers · asked by Andrew B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She plans on leaving me because of it in conjunction with my other question... http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071220013049AAAZFbV&pa=FYd1D2bwHTHwLbJnEOk7RWUHas4R7mSyrhQoiaDPfjQajA--&paid=asked&msgr_status=
After a 10 month relationship, should it mean her leaving?
2007-12-19 20:34:25 · update #1
Sorry to say, but if you actually have to ask this question, you are an idiot. Prepare to be dumped soon.
2007-12-19 20:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-25 03:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeously is an evil emotion. Help her deal with it and understand it. Some people just can't stand any pics of x's around while others have no problem. She is insecure with you probably for many other things between you. Sounds like you may not be sensitive to some of her insecurities. Make her feel special always. The number one and she will never question this. If its to late for this relationship learn from this. Some people just need to know they are special all the time. Its just some little things to do that can make a huge difference. I love you's, hugs, noticing the good things they do etc.. Good luck
2007-12-19 21:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Dude it's not wrong at all just think back to when you took those photos and the good times that followed.
Some day you will be able to look back at them without the feeling of loss or the break up and just enjoy them for what they are Nudes of a Hottie you got to hang with for a while.
2007-12-19 20:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Upper Crust nite owl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong. As long as you're not drooling over them all the time. Those pictures were taken at a time when your current gf was nonexistent so why get rid of them. That's like her demanding you get rid of your jacket because your ex bought it for you or wore it. It's stupid and trivial. She needs to grow up. But then, I don't quite see things like other people.
2007-12-19 20:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by Adrianna Scar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know there's nothing wrong in what you did because you really don't have any interest in your ex at all or intentions of getting back with her. But, when your gf sees or knows you have dirty pictures of your ex, she'll start assuming that you might be cheating on her or worse. Having porn on your computer is one thing that she won't mind, but having pictures of your ex will make her mad. When girls hear you talk about their ex, she'll generally not like you talking about her because she's worried about you getting back with her. She's just scared that she'll lose you, so maybe you should explain to her and do her a favor and delete those pics.
If I found out my bf having dirty pics of his ex, i'll start to question about our relationship and be thinking about dumping him.
2007-12-19 20:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not wrong,But this is human nature to feel jealous and specially with your love life or your sex life.I ask you if you have seen a mail of your partner's ex and specially some sexy pictures what you have felt.... only i suggest you for future keep it safe,its only for your self not for your partner.wish you good luck,soon storm will be over but careful for future.
2007-12-19 20:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by lucky s 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should delete them in front of her and tell her that you didnt look at them, try to understand from her point of view, what if she had dirty pics of her ex, how would you feel?
2007-12-19 20:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of them, tell her you forgot about them and now that they're gone, you both can forget about them cause they dont matter.
2007-12-19 20:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by mistista07 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong at all.....as long as you share them with us!!
2007-12-19 21:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋