OK theres this girl who was the first college friend I made. We met online before college, when we met in reality she wasn't what I expected. At times around campus she sees me but ignores me. She got mad at me for not walking her to class but I did walk her to the building...
Also when we chatted online, she seem to got less close to me when I said that I would date any race of women. She and I are the same race and she only likes guys of her race. Also whenever I try to talk to her as usual she makes up these excuses to leave. I then gave up and didn't bother.
Just today I got a friendly message from her. What does she want? What should I do?
Thanks.
2007-12-19 20:39:43 · 21 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is immature and troubled. As a member of the same race, it is your ethnic duty to help her though these rough times. Sacred Head of Jesus, Formed by the Holy Ghost in the Womb of the Virgin Mary, Guide Us in All Our Ways.
First, begin walking her to class. If she does not want to speak with you, keep a respectful distance. Jesus, We Adore Your Sacred Head; We Surrender Utterly to All the Decrees of Your Infinite Wisdom.
2007-12-19 20:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Merve 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, son, it seems that she is just young and childish! She doesn't want to be seen with you by certain people so it is then that she ignores you. Then when those people aren't around she wants you to kick it all of a sudden! Screw that trick! But if you feel the need to associate with her let her initiate it. That way you can't be ignored! Otherwise drop her *** like a bad habit son that sounds like the route I'd chose. There are plenty friends to be made and with a person like that in your life it will only cause you grief! Never forget nothing is wrong with you! It's everyone else who has issues! Good Luck sweetheart!
2007-12-19 20:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You think a lot.I think you also sent her a friendly message to her without any prejudice in your mind against her or in her favour and let things move on as they are and accept as they come.
This is the first step towards making her your good friend and you also becoming her goo friend and then making the moves of dating her,not directly.
2007-12-19 20:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by sheru_715 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you mentioned she only likes guys of her own race so you are a 'potential target' for her, she'd further her distance away from you when you mention you'll date any women of any race cus she wasn't too happy with that, she wants to keep you around available incase you're 'gone'....since afterall you're a 'potential target' right?
uhhh...regarding what 's going on inside her mind, you should find out from the girl's in this room. in a billion years would guys know what girls are thinking.
2007-12-19 23:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tosh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try talking to her and being nice to her one last time. See how she responds. If after this she plays games again with you, don't bother. You might just get hurt. Sometimes you have to protect yourself. Good luck!
2007-12-19 20:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh dude. she is a dominatrix! you like being dominated? told what to do, when, where, how? if you like that, this is what you should do:
ask her what she thinks about stuff, exactly. keep asking questions more and more specific until you're totally surprised she has an answer for it, because she will, and she will be totally turned on by the fact that you want to know because here is a man who is going to do it for me, get it for me, make it for me exactly like I want it. good luck!
2007-12-19 20:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by willmin 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women are Attention Whores. She wants you chase her. Move on and find someone that is not into game playing.
2007-12-19 20:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Answer? You will never know what's going on in her demented little mind. So don't bother trying to figure her out. She's probably just horny or bipolar.
2007-12-19 20:48:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she thinks that you are useful to her rather than you are interest. Just wait and see, don't be hurry to close her. I consider you are not a bad guy.
2007-12-19 20:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by freshman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she probibly felt a little shy after meeting you.. since she had some time to think.. she may feel different now and mor comfortable with you..as for ignoring you maybe she just felt akward.
2007-12-19 20:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋