I was with this girl for almost 3 years and we broke up, when i thought that we could atleast be friends i called her and she told me she was in love with someone else and it was only like a month after i broke up wit her. The person she is with now told her to tell me that she wasnt allowed to talk to me and she had no objection to not talking to me anymore she seemed all for it. Now after 4 months of being with the new person she now says that she seems to have made a mistake and she wants me back but im not sure that i feel the same about her.
2007-12-19 20:29:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pffft!! Forget her!!
2007-12-19 20:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life Is generally too full of complexities. You and this girl broke up and it should remain that way. People doe"t REALLY change and your relationship will surely be the same as it was before with very few changes. Once you get back with a former girl friend it is never the same. Why? I do not specifically know why but it has been my experience that the second time around is not as good as the first time.
2007-12-19 20:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feeling. You are not interested in her romantically anymore. Don't force yourself to go out with her just because you feel like you "have" to give her another chance or because you think you should rescue her from an unhappy relationship. She had her chance & she blew it. Tell her that while you hope that you can always be friends, you don't want to date her right now & quite possibly never.
She had no problem leaving a 3 year relationship for someone she thought was "better", so she'll do it again in a heartbeat a second time because she'll think you are a dishrag who'll always take her back. Ditch her & find a real woman who'll always be with you & only want you.
2007-12-19 20:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she already made the decision to be with someone else rather than be with you. Do you REALLY want to be a girl's SECOND CHOICE? Like, settling for you because her first choice didn't work out? Seriously, now.
Not knowing what she had 'till it was gone and regretting her choice is NOT the same as wanting you back either.
2007-12-19 20:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it happens she probably misses the things you shared but you know it is really tough to go back in time it just never seems the same, She claimed she was in love with someone else so she does have a tendency to be a little fast at falling in love she may not know what she wants at this point take it easy and think things though,love is so unreasonable sometimes
good luck
2007-12-19 20:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by Hulagirl96734 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the ***** bro!
Seems like things didn't work out for her, and now she just needs someone to treat her like you did.
Id say don't go for it, or at least make her work for it.
If she really realized she made a mistake and wants to get back with you, then make her work for it.
2007-12-19 20:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by DREAMCATCHER 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of not fair of her to expect that you'd be sitting around just waiting for her to come back to you. Your feelings have changed and you should make her aware of that fact. Best thing to do is to move on from here. You're not under any obligation to take her back.
2007-12-19 20:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Richard B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd consider myself lucky to be rid of her. Block her calls and have no contact. She's immature and would only bring you heartache the next time she decides she wants someone else. If it happened once, it will happen again, so get over it.
2007-12-19 20:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away!!! Unless she if worth it (which you say she is not), she is showing red flags that she doesn't know what she wants, that she is fickle with emotions, and that being with her will lead to more unhappy drama.
2007-12-19 20:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by robdog9151 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh how the heart crys when it finds out it was lust and not love...boo hoo.
Hey, man. Do the right thing. Leave her in the wind.
2007-12-19 20:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by RT 66 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont need them they are stupid for leaving you in the first place or if you left them stick to the reason why. there a plenty of fish in the sea LOL.
2007-12-19 20:34:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋