Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

Okay for guys its pretty obvious that we check out your breats and butts. But what about you what do you check out when you look at a guy?

2007-12-19 19:29:17 · 24 answers · asked by Adeptus Astartes 5 in Singles & Dating

Hey there,
This guy I have been dating for 6months( only 1 exclusive) cheated on me with his ex he claims he has no feelings for and I found out. He says he was going to tell me and that he felt like crap &realized after he did it how much he liked me (this is weird;don't get it but both girls & guys have said this happened to them before) and that he wants to be with me and thinks we can get through this. I asked him why he did it and he said he thinks because it was his way of rebeling against the things about him I was asking him to improve on, but takes responsibility and said it was bad judgement.
I told him I am going to need him to give me time to trust him again and be super-accountable for a while(phone-calls, telling me where he's at, etc) until I can trust him again.
I want to know if its possible or if any guys out there have gone through a similiar situation where they cheated once and never did it again and it made them realize how much they liked there gf?

2007-12-19 19:27:26 · 24 answers · asked by Allison J 1 in Singles & Dating

So there is this guy I like. I know he is going to ask me out today, he as good as told me he was going to. I don’t wanna just say “yeah” or something lame. What is a good way to say yes? What should I wear and do my hair? Should I be aware of anything? Do anything?

THANKS IN ADVANCE

just so you know,... today we have finals and it is the last day of school before winter break. idk if that matters.

2007-12-19 19:27:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well.. .they are just childlish crushes, one is in my school, same class, the other is in a secondery school that i'll be going next year. I like the guy in the secondery school more (just call him guy 1). but i rarely see him, so i kinda like the guy in my school... (guy 2)
but i told my big mouth friends i like guy2's other friend, because i used to like him and he knows that. but i think it's wrong for me to like another guy at the same time, (GOD THIS IS GETTING CONFUSING RIGHT?)



oK.. just get this staight...

GUY 1 is the guy I like the most, yet I used to like GUY 2, but i feel guilty about it, even though i was never like, commited to either of them. (lol) some GUY 2 found out (but i stopped liking him 1 yr ago so i am still WAY ahead of him) anyway, i now like him again, but i know that this is stupid, because i have A LITTLE feelings for his always funny friend.



TY, ALL I NEED IS SOME TIP[SOF WHAT IS SHOULD DO...

2007-12-19 19:25:37 · 4 answers · asked by Amy 6 in Singles & Dating

This is based off our first encounter only, i have met her once as she is the new girl at our shop, so this is why i ask...

She will look deep into my eyes when we talk. She will not move away or budge when i got really close to her (like into her personal space). I complemented her quite lamely on her nametag in which she responded way too nicely to. She constantly said sorry for things that did not require her to do so (such as opening a draw near me). When she was told to tell me something she seemed overly nice to me and kind. A few subtle stares and smiles.

Btw she is not sucking up to me because i am neither her manager or superior, i am 18 and a new worker also, we work in retail :)

I went in again that same afternoon with my friend to buy a present for sum1, and i did myself up nicely so i looked good. I caught her staring at me from the corner of my eye for long periods when she thought i was busy rummaging through gifts.

Can a girl be attracted from only 1 session?

2007-12-19 19:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my 6 month anniversary is coming up....
ladies and gentleman.... what should i do ?
whats proper for 6 months ?
seems specail to me.
Id like to do something for her.
any suggestions?

2007-12-19 19:15:59 · 15 answers · asked by rufstuff 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 7 bridesmaids and all of them will need alterations to their dresses. The smallest girls are a size 0 but David's bridal dresses start at size 2 so those have to be taken in. I also have some shorter bridesmaids who will definitely have to have their gowns shortened. I don't remember exactly what the posted alteration fees were but I think they were pretty expensive. I don't want the girls to have to pay more for the alterations than the dress itself. Can anyone share their BM alteration experience at David's Bridal with me? How much did it cost? How good was the work? Please share any experience, good or bad!

2007-12-19 19:15:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

On meeting somebody from the opposite sex for the first time as if you have known him/her for ages and strange chemistry working out between you both?

2007-12-19 19:03:36 · 4 answers · asked by Franc 3 in Singles & Dating

Im an 19 yr old male, and (for lack of a better term) im "depressed". I got a great job, and but i almost hate going to it. Im not stupid, but i just failed most of my college classes, and i just cant seem to date anyone. The only thing i care about is dating someone it seems. its all i think about and no matter what i do it seems that everything is futile. I havent had any positive things happen to me as far as dating and i just want to date someoen to have a good time. I tell myself that if i was dating someone i would be having a better time or id enjoy wokring or going to class, becasue id have a reason to go. I think i just want someone to care for and care for me other than my family, but most of my friends think im depressed. I dont think i am because i def. am not suicidal or anti social . I will say that it causes me to say things that i normally wouldnt. Am I just stuck in a rut or am i depressed?

2007-12-19 18:52:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl who I really, really like. A lot. But she would call me 'buddy' all the time and I wasn't sure what meant. Well I asked a question here and most people said to ask her. So I did. I said "Is there any particular reason you call me buddy?" and she said "lol well you're my buddy is that bad?" and then I said "no I just thought maybe that means you think I'm just friends-only material or maybe it's just a fun nickname..." and she hasn't said anything for 2 days. What does it mean? And what do I say to get her to talk to me? I just want the honest truth about what she thinks of me. I tried just saying hey yesteday but I didn't get a reply.

Help, I want to know if she likes me back or not. I can't stand to just be her friend.

2007-12-19 18:50:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 19yrs old, 5' 5'' 130lbs. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v39/kittykatchops/newpic.jpg this is what i look like.

first off im not writing this for sympathy or to be called stupid. trust me i know.
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I've had enough. Ive said this time and time again, but now I really mean it. I've been with Justin for a year and a half. Hes cheated on me Twice(that i know of) and last weekend he beat me for the first time. I know that Im not a bad gf. Yeah Im jealous because hes cheated on me and but look at how pathetic I am for taking him back twice! And HE still calls ME names! Like I've done something wrong.

He got kicked out of the AirForce and I've let him stay with me for the past few weeks. Letting him eat my food, sleep in my bed, get on my computer, watch my TV, wash in my shower all for FREE.

I left to work today around 2pm. while on break i called justin around 6pm. he said he was at a friends house playing video games. I later called him at 10:30pm

2007-12-19 18:47:05 · 5 answers · asked by nicoℓe 4 in Singles & Dating

help,m i have a driend in hawai and her dad keeps beating her, shes just 12 and he beats her, shes tried the police but it ddnt work and got him more angry with her, she tried social services but it was a repet ending, she lives in lanai and we just need help so what should we do to take this guy down?

2007-12-19 18:39:55 · 13 answers · asked by ohmygodtheykilldkenny 2 in Family

2007-12-19 18:39:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 and i have a boyfriend. we like eachother alot, and he has brought up the next subject...but i dont know if im ready, and i dont know if im not ready....

2007-12-19 18:36:20 · 13 answers · asked by california_gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 18:31:56 · 19 answers · asked by shygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright here it goes. Shy, quiet guy. Loud mouth girl with a shy side. All boy would do is shyly smile at her and turn away and/or put his head down. Both play the staring and quickly turn away game. Girl finally sits down and chats with him recently, he quotes everything off her facebook profile. Boy finally comes out of his shell with girl and begins to goof around and laugh with her, gabs with her every chance he gets. Questions her about everything about herself..Boy acts totally different with her than others..yadda yadda...

Girl is highly attracted to boy and wants to make a move, but doesn't know how, doesn't want to scare him off, doesn't know how he feels. Doesn't want to fudge it up....

Some say snatch him. Others are saying give it some time, it's new, learn more about each other, he may be in the same boat.

So, girl comes to strangers looking for advice on the situation, what she should do and how...

thanx.

2007-12-19 18:28:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that i really like but him and this girl just broke up after a on and off again relationship of two years. he always flirts with me i think he does anyways and i have liked him for about a year now, i dont know if i should just tell him how i feel or just wait for a month or two.

2007-12-19 18:28:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are bound by a child together and even though I believe it's not right, they play like they love each other.

Now the problem, I stay over sometimes and her bf likes to play w/my hair, harass me while I walk and attempts to cuddle with me when we go to bed. He likes me, he always has, as much as I don't want to, I've developed a crush on him for all the things she doesn't see, I really do. Before they had their kid, she cheated on him, which I believe, created this child out of his desperation to keep her. Now, he just looks fed up and she seems sad over what her life has become.

I've decided to not act upon what I feel but what if they break up? The kid being involved makes everything seem pathetic, like I'm tearing apart a family that I was like an aunt to.

Any helpful words? ANY one?

2007-12-19 18:27:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So theres this girl, not like any other girl, but a very beautiful girl and very polite so it seems from the outside. Anyways, we both went to school together and I graduated a year earlier then she did, well one day I had to go in to get my graduation stuff and find out what was what, and on the way out the girl I like was sitting on the bench and I was getting ready to head out the door she ran in front of it and stopped me and asked where I was going I said home she said I dont want you to go or I will miss you I said please move without thinking so she did. Ok so we talked online for awhile, I told her she could come to my graduation so she did,Now fast forward 2 year later she has a boyfriend, Everytime I go into the store she works at she always looks at me and smiles, but this time I was looking at magizines and she came to the aile and acted like she was messing with a rack, so I moved to next aile and she came to the next aile and smiled at me, I said hi to her but no response

2007-12-19 18:26:23 · 3 answers · asked by ssss 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 18:26:11 · 5 answers · asked by Ashwani B 1 in Friends

get back together w/ your ex?
heres the story:
about a year ago me n my exbroke up
we went out for 6 months
i have not been able to get over it and i dont know if he has either
there are many signs that he still likes me but i dont know
do you think i should start talking to him more?
try and show him i like him?
cause a while ago there was a rumor startedabout me that i was gonna sk him out just to be mean to play arounf but didnt really like him
so even if he liked me before
i just dont know
advice?

2007-12-19 18:26:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 15, and my ex has asked me to love him again, but i can't trust him as i found my friend and him snoggong in my room as i left them to get some popcorn....and he says that if i dont become his gf again he would commit suicide and blame it all on me.. what should i do?

2007-12-19 18:25:55 · 15 answers · asked by cutebabe 1 in Singles & Dating

people go on asking - why do u luv me?what do u like in me?is luv dependant on these questions?does these questions really need to b answered?

2007-12-19 18:23:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me if it happened to you

2007-12-19 18:23:16 · 10 answers · asked by baby O 3 in Singles & Dating

He grabbed around my waist he would make kissy faces and all that he would always make me blush he would tickle me jump out at me on my midnight walks and one night I was hanging out with my horse sitting on the fence petting him and he came up behind me picked me up and brought me in the house he sat me on the couch and watched king kong he whispered to me cause another one of our frineds was at the comp and is a blabber mouth he asked if I wanted to holdhis hands we held hands then he layed down still holding my hand on his chest and he kissed my hand

Now he is dating someone else but he still looks at me and all that trying to hug me and all but thats not the point I wasnt physically ready for him

Did he like me?

2007-12-19 18:21:20 · 4 answers · asked by Tennessee GUrl 2 in Singles & Dating

its my birthday tomorrow and i havent made any plans but i have mentioned that its coming to my boyfriend and was hoping i could at least just spend the day with him. i guess im a hopeless romantic but i was hoping he could plan something.. but.. i guess he didnt even plan on spending the day with me because he just told me that he has to study to a final he has the next day... and thats understandable but he had the choice of taking the final one day later... meaning he wouldnt have to study on my birthday... i didnt act like i cared or that it mattered.. but im kinda disappointed.. i guess birthdays are usually disappointing .. i probably shouldnt have expected anything cause we didnt talk about it?...

2007-12-19 18:16:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's my only girlfriend and we've been together for 5 years but last christmas she left me but we still have communication. then a month later she told me she slept with a guy (she lost her virginity to a different guy she hardly knew!) and the guy never talked to her again. then i took her back but i've been pretty mad about it and i still hate her but i also know that i love her. i can't stop thinking about it even though she says she'l be loyal and all that. i still can't get over what she did eve though we're back together for 7 months now. should i give her a second chance? should i trust her? she did it only once. we've been in long distance relationship for 3 years. she's going to take me away after i graduate from college ( i have 2 more months of college to go) and i really want to get out of here. we've been together since we were 16.

2007-12-19 18:16:33 · 11 answers · asked by King Kong Jr. 3 in Singles & Dating

A Feist song was on and I was singing. My friend said "oh I didnt know there were words". and I meant to playflully hit her with a rag, like, hey, dont say that she cant sing well! but I accidentally hit her really hard in the eyes! and she started crying. and there was a room full of people. I look like a crazy person.

2007-12-19 18:16:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really want to have a breast reduction but my husband is totally against it. His ex-girlfriend had one and he said "they" were never the same again. I have always had larger breasts. Not the largest out there by any means, but way too much for my short body. I have to be careful about what kind of shirt I wear because that can REALLY affect how they look. I have to buy sturdy bras because the cheaper ones don't last long. I have to buy button-down shirts a size bigger so there aren't any gaps. Sometimes they do make my back hurt and they feel like they're pulling me down.

He swears that if I lose weight "they" will shrink. I don't believe it. In highschool I was about 130 lbs. and was in a 36C or D. Now, 12 years later, I am a 44DD. I am 5'2" and about 200 lbs. I don't look like I weigh that much because all of my weight is in my stomach and my breasts.

He said he isn't going to have any input on this topic, but I want to look into it. What should I do?

2007-12-19 18:14:52 · 9 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy I've liked for awhile, and I really think he liked me back. He changed schools and now I never see him, and I never got the chance to tell him how I felt. Do you think I should try to see him again and tell him I feel about him, or just forget and move on?

2007-12-19 18:14:38 · 1 answers · asked by Pansy 2 in Singles & Dating