help,m i have a driend in hawai and her dad keeps beating her, shes just 12 and he beats her, shes tried the police but it ddnt work and got him more angry with her, she tried social services but it was a repet ending, she lives in lanai and we just need help so what should we do to take this guy down?
2007-12-19 18:39:55 · 13 answers · asked by ohmygodtheykilldkenny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
bogus?
Tape the incidents, proof plus maybe the dad's needing therapy or something.
2007-12-19 18:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, try to find out the reason why is he beating her daughter. Then get some proof against him like a video. Then show it to the police and he'll be punished.
2007-12-20 02:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kaushal D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try going to their house and breaking his legs with a bat. I would tell him to inform the folks at the er that he "fell down the stairs," and if he says anything to the cops or if he touches that girl again he wont get up the next time he falls down the stairs.
2007-12-20 04:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously reconsider what you "think" is abuse. Social services is usually very good at investigating these allegations, as well as the Police. A kid getting spanked is not abuse, make sure you know what you are on about and you know the facts before you do anything at all.
2007-12-20 02:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go to this website. Call the three phone numbers there and report the abuse.
http://www.oprah.com/tows/pastshows/tows_2000/tows_past_20000504_k.jhtml
If you don't get outside help, it could be very bad. DO NOT try to "take this guy down" by yourself or without help from a child abuse agency!!
Keep trying for help until your friend gets help.
You are kind to care.
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2007-12-20 02:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She needs to speak with her teacher. By law, the teacher must report it. Then, ANYTIME he hurts her, she must call the police. She may be scared but it must be done. When the police see that she is truly being hurt then she will receive the help she needs.
2007-12-20 02:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by 1M9 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should try calling the police and social services.
2007-12-20 02:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Bear 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YOU should try calling the police instead of her...?
maybe then it will be realised as more of a problem
2007-12-20 02:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Where is her mom? Maybe other family members? They might have grounds to sue for her custody.
2007-12-20 02:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by lisa b 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u call the cops and tell them everything try some thing
2007-12-20 02:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋