i am 15, and my ex has asked me to love him again, but i can't trust him as i found my friend and him snoggong in my room as i left them to get some popcorn....and he says that if i dont become his gf again he would commit suicide and blame it all on me.. what should i do?
2007-12-19 18:25:55 · 15 answers · asked by cutebabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really hate it when people say this, to me it so selfish as there are truly desperate people out there contemplating this action and here he is the big joke pretending.
You are dealing with a spoilt boy that will use every trick in the book to get what he wants.
He has shown totally no regard for your feelings, so I think if you were to get back with him you will have to continually put up with him having all his own way, and he will tread over you and hurt you in his quest to satisfy his own wants and needs.
I think you should do yourself a favour and wait for someone that treats you nicer.
2007-12-19 20:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about your own emotions and well-being, not his. If you REALLY think he's going to commit suicide if you don't get back together with him, tell someone (school counselor, suicide hotline, even the Police is need be).
If you can't trust him, you shouldn't be with him. If he's threatening to kill himself, there's no reason for anyone to be putting you through that kind of emotional terror. Let him know how you feel, and do what you feel is right. Just know that there's no reason for you to be put through that.
Good luck, I hope everything works out alright.
2007-12-19 18:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Patriot011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he said that? he's scaring you then, but you know what? he's not really gonna commit suicide. he's giving you the "reverse psychology" effect. he'll try to make you say yes by making you feel guilty. so its quite like blackmailing. if i were you id say NO coz just look, he's flirting with your friend when you weren't looking, what more if you weren't in the house? you said it your self, "You cant trust him" so just say no, coz theres a big possibility that he has a personal interest and not actually love itself. dont be fooled by his sweet words, coz he would say anything just to convince you.
2007-12-19 18:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by heiven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he REALLY wanted you he'd keep trying and not commit suicide, either way if he loved you he wouldn't be snogging off yer best mate.... so id say OUT OF THE QUESTION don't go crawling back to him he'll end up doing it again anyway!!
2007-12-19 19:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by Flick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to his threats of suicide for a start. you don't say how old he is, but he's very immature. did you fall out with your friend as well? don't be his girlfriend again, you'd be giving in to emotional blackmail & that's not a good start to a relationship. diane.
2007-12-19 20:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by diquarry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life girl without him in it,,, do not allow him to emotionally blackmail you,,,if he truly wanted you has his girlfriend he would not have snogged your friend,,,he sounds like a typical man who wants his bread buttered both sides,,walk away girl he not worth it you are still very young one day in the future you will meet someone new who is worthy of you,,,, good luck in everything you do ,,, and heres wishing you a very merry christmas n a happy new year xx
2007-12-19 19:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fall for it,thats emotional blackmail,and very childish and even if he did it there is no way he could blame you,that is one of the worse things that could be said to anyone.just ignore him and get on with your life he dosent deserve you.tell him his dirty tactics wont work cos your going to tell everyone what he did and about this latest dirty blackmail trick.good luck luv.
2007-12-19 18:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by fozz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this guy is threatening you just to get attention. he thinks if he says he will take his own life then you will get back with him. don't fall for it, he wouldn't do it. he has probably become bored without a irl in his life and is resulting to desparate measures. you can do better
2007-12-20 00:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to F**K off and procreate with your 'friend'. He's playing with your mind. What a CHILD.
2007-12-19 19:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's how boys are they use emotional balckmail to try and get u back just forget. have self dignity
2007-12-19 20:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by 100% husaina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋