Harrison,
Give me 24 hours knowing that this is in your hands,and Ill regret this. I already feel sick to my stomach. =/
I want you to know that I think your amazing,and that out of all the guys in band,that your my favorite.Your my favorite for many different reasons,and the list could go on and on,but I wont do that.
Yea,today was a year since your car wreck =/ And Im really thankful to God that your still here.
2008's coming up soon.Really soon actually.And my 2008 resolution was to tell the guy who Ive liked since 6th grade that I like him.So,I like you.
Your graduating soon,and I dont want you to leave without knowing how I feel.Im guessing its pretty useless to tell you,but I had to let you know.
Now since you know how I feel,I hope you fail.Haha,no,but I hope you come back in July and help out with the marching band.I had trouble dealing with you leaving Middle School to go to High School,so I know Im not going to take it well once your off to college,so... =[
Well,you know I like you.And I hope you dont tell all your friends about the loser whos liked you since 6th grade.
But please Harrison,once May comes,and your no longer considered a Senior,come back. =[ I dont want you to leave.
-Me.
Does it sound alright?
Should I make any changes?
[Im having his little sister give it to him by the way.This makes it a bad idea huh?]
2007-12-19 14:46:37 · 34 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its cute but i wished you would of told him every year you spent together since middle school cause maybe he might feel the same way too and yall could of built a relationship and so forth but your efforts now are creditable .... at times its hard to let some one know that we feel affection towards them especially when we view ourselves as out of the other persons league or not beautifull enough.....but let me tell you ...beauty has alot of definitions each one is different from person to person.... soo give yourself more credit .... and say.... Im beautifull , im worth it, and im a Golden opportunity ...... then let the guy know not to miss out on this Golden Opportunity!!
take care and i hope ive been some help...Love....Jj
2007-12-20 04:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by King J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kudos for finding a way to tell this guy how you feel. However, I am torn between telling you NOT to give him this letter or telling you to just reword it. The tone of the letter is one full of nerves. You sound like you are scared sh*tless. lol If you are giving him a letter, I recommend that YOU give it to him NOT his little sister. An even better idea is to try to tell him face to face. That way you can see his TRUE reaction. I know that is easier said than done. If you are really going to take the letter road then I recommend you get rid of the first sentence about feeling sick to you stomach...it's really unnecessary. Also, it's okay to say you have liked him since 6th grade but leave out the whole "I had trouble dealing with you going to high school part."...once again, it's too much. You want this guy to be flattered that you have liked him for so long, not freaked out that you've liked him so long. A few other things could be changed but other than that...go for it. Good luck and I hope it turns out well for you.
2007-12-20 04:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by ALeoStar 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Be there for her and try and get her to talk to her parents... By her talking to them gives her more options on wether or not she wants to keep it or even adoption she has more options now than she will later. Her parents will find out eventually just make sure it's not to late. And be a good friend and try and help/guide her to make the choices she wants and not what anyone "wants" her to do because she am has to deal with it later on in life no matter what she decides... And like the girl before said her parents will grow to the idea and yes there's a chance they'll loose it but the won't hurt her or the baby. So encourage her to make her decisions that will benefit her in the end.
2016-05-25 03:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sweet, and clearly heartfelt. But let's talk "practical" (as practical as emotions ever are!). Are you friends at all? Friendly? Or is he just some cute guy you've not really talked to since 6th grade? If the first, then it might have an effect--it will at least make him feel good. If you don't really know the guy, though, honestly, I would recommend against sending it. He might think "eek--how random" and think you're a bit desperate, and if he doesn't actively make fun of you, he may just avoid you.
Giving it to his little sister ensures that he won't do anything about it and will only increase the embarrassment factor, actually. If you're too shy to give it to him yourself, you're too shy to give it to him at all. Think about it: if some guy (NOT Harrison, but some other guy in your school) gave you a note like this via your sister, wouldn't you be a little freaked out? Would you be able to look him in the face? Now, if he gave it to you himself, wouldn't you find him just a little more approachable? And be a little impressed?
Finally, maybe you should, if you want an outcome from this, give him a next step. Summer band is a long way away. Is there something he could do to show any interest before then? This letter reads like a last ditch effort of someone who doesn't believe that she'll ever get to go out with this guy, but hey, maybe there's a chance! Maybe mention someplace you're going to be--someplace casual, so it doesn't have to be a big deal if he shows up--to give you guys a chance to hang out.
Just remember, once you give this to him, this letter will be hanging in the air between you. It sort of requires him already to like you for the outcome to work. But if he hasn't thought of you that way YET, it might just ensure he won't, because it's a big hurdle to jump over (i.e., "this girl is in love with me but I just like her.... if I go out with her she'll expect me to be in love with her, too!"). Personally, I might consider bracing yourself to just ask him out--again, for something casual. The outcome might be much more to your liking!!
Whatever you decide, good luck!
(PS: Just to clean it up a bit a create a better impression: "your" in most places throughout should be "you're." :) )
2007-12-20 00:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Patty Lee 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
uhhh if you want his sister to find out u like him go for it. To tell you the truth your gunna get made fun of. I'm not even joking. wow. I'm literally speechless i see you like this guy but umm i probably wouldn't tell him in this note you should like your 12 and have a huge crush on some guy and from reading this im gunna take it that your in high school or something and hes older then you. its gunna be really awkward if u give it to him. Good Luck.
2007-12-20 07:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ivy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yeah it sounds good...as long as its all true...you dont want to say something that is false..thats not good...so as long as its truly how you feel then yes...also you need to sign your name...or leave it w/ -me p.s. and then some joke that only you two get so he'll know its you...and dont give it to his little sister thats fricking gay im sorry but it is...you need to have confidence...confidence is attractive...you need to walk right up to him and be like harrison...i have something for you and i want to talk to you when you're done...or call me after you're done with this...or to have even more confidence walk up to him have him read it right in front of you and risk it all w/ a kiss ...the confidence will really turn him on if he likes you...but its totally up to you this is just my opinion..
i wish you the best of luck...
happy holidays:]]
2007-12-21 06:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by morgan massacre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very good
just a couple thoughts
1) not big deal, but might make it a tad better to add the spaces after sentences
2) when you say "Now since you know how I feel,I hope you fail." that *might* send a wrong message anyway, but I think the rest of the paragraph is good.
other than that good. feel confident & good luck!
2007-12-19 16:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
AWW, that is so sweet. You should definately keep it this way. It comes from the heart and who are we to judge you on what you should keep or rewrite. I like it. Great I dea with the sister being involved. You're very brave and thats great. Good luck!
2007-12-21 05:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds great, as long as it came from the heart you shouldn't worry about it. You did an excellent job not sounding all pyscho but I think you should give it to him, who knows he might like you too. And then if something happens it would be worth giving it to him personally.
2007-12-20 04:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by dala_o_2003 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
okay here's away to see if it's an okay letter
think abou tif somebody gave it to you..what would you think about it...well if somebody gave me a note like that i would be so ahppy but i would kinda be mad because im getting ready to leave..and now i find out..you know maybe me and that person could've had a relatioship or something but yeah that's jsut me...an dif's he's awesome like me he will love it
are you gonna tell him who it's from? or is it just anonymous?
2007-12-19 16:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by luckycena54 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋