ok me & my ex broke up a week ago & i rele miss him & his friends say that he says he misses me & i rele want him back & i went over to his house yesterday & talked to him about it & he said he wanted to get back together but he just needs a little time to get his life in perspective & thne today on the bus he started saying all this stuff about how 3 of my best friends were the hottest girls in school & i think he just did it to make me mad because yesterday he told me i was the hottest girl in school & i rele dont know what to do now so plzzzzzz help!!!!!!!!i rele do love him & i miss him & need him back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-19 14:29:29 · 29 answers · asked by cheer_chic_12_22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
5 years from now you will look back on this moment and realize how silly you sound.....
2007-12-19 14:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by LoNdYn'S mOmMy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Firsty of all listen to jim, he KNOWS what he is talking about. But if he is not that type of guy then, shoot, don't let him get away. If he is, Screw EM! Anyways here is a plan, He is just saying this to make you jealous. In the mean time, fight fire with fire! Make yourself as hot, and as gorgeous as you can every day. Do so that all of his friends stair at you. (And most likely his friends will comment him, " dang your ex is looking fine, or somehow the news will get back to him) And if you are able to, just to get his attention and make him really want you back, flirt with other guys while he is watching, and be sure to pretend not to even notice him. Maybe if you have to, date someone for atleast a week. Then you can Call him and say something like, i broke up with that jerk i was going out with. I know someone who is way better, he'll ask who, and you'll say, you. If you don't date someone for a week, then just keep playing his game for about that ammount of time. If he calls ignore it a couple of times. Two or Three. Then he will quickly realize what he is missing out on and he'll approach you in some way, or you might have to approach him. And then bring up the subject to him again. Say did you notice i was trying to make you jealous. Then tell him you miss him, and ask him if he wants to try again. I hope this plan works for you. Good luck, and if you guys had a strong relationship, even if it doesn't happen as quickly as you want it to, it will happen, he'll always be interested in you, even if he deosn't show it or admitt it. But like another person who replied to you question mentioned. If he wants you for the wrong reasons, then he was never good for you anyway. If he wants you for the wrong reasons and is treating you like shi*, then don't you think in the end it won't work out anyways?
Plus, you could probably find someone way better. Hotter, and more respectful, and won't try to hook up with your friends if you ever broke up.
2007-12-19 22:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Love Learning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and talk to him and let him understand how you feel about him.
Mens always talk about girls - as he was talking about those three girls - thats quite in the nature of a man.
If speaking doesnt help, try to make him jealous by roaming with some other friend(male) of yours and let him atleast have a idea about the same.
I'm sure that will work out.
Send him a few love notes on his phone.
Send him a few voicemail which shall provoke curiosity in himself.
such as
"you know what, i wanted to tell you something,
but, you know what it doesn't really matter.
forget it, you don't care about it.
Look for his reactions in the eyes, act accordingly.
think yourself as julia roberts, when doing so.
if that doesn't work call him sometimes alone, and give him a good kiss on his face and runaway.
you'll have emotions, feelings.
all would start coming in automatically.
2007-12-19 22:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just enjoying being single for a moment, talkin guy talk helps him relate to the times being single and lets him say the things he normally wouldn't around you trying to be respectful. He'll enjoy it for a while but if he really loves/ misses you he'll eventually make a move to get things going again! Best of Luck
Krym
2007-12-19 22:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by Krym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont really need anyone, ur young, love is pain and without the pain we dont know what love feels like. You're the hottest chick in school, go out there and make it known that u are and watch him come back... otherwise just say "NEXT PLS.."
2007-12-19 22:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Antoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jim is right!
Real relationships take time to build and tear down! People may walk away but if it is true they return.
This really isn't something you need to be rapped up in at your age. You need to spend more time loving family and friends and leave boys to be boys... life is short do not try to be too mature. Relax in the days or years ahead you will wish this was your worst problem.
2007-12-19 22:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by HooYaDaddy? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK heres the deal ... if you truley love him you have to talk to him tell him that this isnt working for you and tell him if he doesnt shape up he will lose you that you will not wait around unless he stops being such a jerk, honestly though guys who are jreks liek that and try to make you jealous are not mature enough for a real realtionship i would re think your feelings for him, what ever you decide be careful
2007-12-19 22:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by allib24x7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see... heres the problem, and Im sure Im going to get tons of thumbs up from the responsible parents reading my answer....
there is no answer... I stopped reading as soon as I hit
& thne today on the bus
your having these emotional problems, because your a child...
2007-12-19 22:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Achilles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG you know whats rele annoying, people who spell "really" like rele. LIKE RELE RELE YOU KNOW.
Anywayz he sounds immature calling all girls hot.
&& I agree with Jim =]
2007-12-19 22:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by ▀▄▀▄▀ кαяίs ▄▀▄▀▄ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, first off don't get too desperate. It'll make him think HE rules the situation, and can manipulate you. I think the only thing you can do now is wait. I think he does need time to himself if he told you that yesterday and said that your friends were the hottest girls in school.
just wait and see what happens, there's nothing more you need to do.
2007-12-19 22:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by Noelle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, I don't think that he particularly loves you. To be quite honest, if you're still at school then - forgive me for syaing this - it's too early to take a relationship so seriously.
Relax. If there is a relationship it won't be over in a matter of days! Let him have his time, there's really no hurry.
2007-12-19 22:33:33 · answer #11 · answered by Jim 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋