My girlfriend is a 10th grader. Im a 9th grader. I play varsity football and run track. She plays all sports and is a varsity cheerleader. She is talking to somebody from another school. She says she is just texting him and they are friends but about 4 months ago they broke up because he could not drive to come see her. Well, a few weeks ago they started talking and he just got his license. Im really worried because she almost left me for him and now she is still talking to him. I told him off but he still texts her and she texts him. He constantly hits on her over texts. I cant tell her to stop talking to him but it hurts me to know that she COULD be "talking" to him.
2007-12-19 14:46:56 · 45 answers · asked by ashtondude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is coming from a guy,
This doesn't sound really that good, In fact i think you have just passed the dead end sign on the raod as far as this relationship goes.
Don't hold your breath cause your about to be dumped,
I'd find a chick that cares about you.
2007-12-19 14:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by the d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly what you are a back up plan if she had any respect for you she wouldn't do that. Besides your in the ninth grade move on to someone else and leave her, who cares if she's Ms. Varsity this and that high school is suppose to be the best time of your life live it up to the fullest now is not the time to worry yourself over one girl.
2007-12-19 14:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kristina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she cared about you she should respect your feelings and put an end to the flirty texts. You have to remember she is being flirtatious too otherwise this would not continue. No gut is going to keep sending flirty texts unless he is getting a positive response from the recipient. I think she sounds a little inconsiderate of your feelings and is possibly still interested in the other Guy.
2007-12-19 14:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kels_Bells 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate, when i say dont take it personally, I mean that who we are, and what we need from another person, sometimes just isnt what and who someone else needs. It really isnt you, its jsut that she needs something wlse at this point in her life. It will hurt for a while, believe me i've been there, but I have also been the other person too. One day you will find out about all the people who liked you who you never gave a second glance to.
2007-12-19 14:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal by the way. The way I see it I think guys are really as sensitive as girls are. Maybe worse. They tend to be over protective of their mates, comes all the way back from evolution. The way I see it, if she keeps on talking to that dude, just start talking to other girls, or just texting and see what she does. Good luck
2007-12-19 14:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are normal, it's very normal to be jealous. Teenage love is very precarious.
Teens fall in and out of love as often as they change their shoes.
You have no control over who this girl texts or talks to and wants to be firends with.
My suggestion would be for you to drop her before she drops you and go find someone who will be a bit easier to get along with. If your so called girl friend is interested in another boy then let her go.
2007-12-19 14:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh...This is hard. She probably think that because your younger than her, she could play you. Well, like you said, she broke up with that guy because he can't drive her around, she didn't say she loss feelings with this guy. It's not your fault. So (sorry to say this) she might break up with you since he got his license. But they could just be friends, but as what you said, they text a lot, so...... good luck!
2007-12-19 14:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um sorry but I'd get rid of her and fast. She needs too much attention! And you're just kids, you shouldn't worry so much about who's texting who and stuff... Now she must see him as a "ride" and that he is higher on the pedestal than you since you don't drive. Unless you want her to dump you... I'd say you've had enough with her crap and say bu bye and that you don't need that kind of stuff in your life!
2007-12-19 14:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by Linzy Rae 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you can't prohibit her from having friends. tell her how you feel uneasy and hurt by the situation, and hope that she'll rectify it. if not, then it's time to end the relationship and find somebody who will be more considerate with your feelings. also, don't take it out on or "tell off" the other dude. he's not the one in a committed relationship, so his actions are inconsequential. she's the one who needs to be trustworthy.
2007-12-19 14:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude find out if her friends are dating and ask each and everyone of them out and then after you date her friends go ask her out right now your like the trapped animal and the other dude is the flavor of the month and when shes got him she might come back to you or someone else shes a player diude so tell her going steady isnt cool for someone young and you ant to date your track coaches daughter see what she says
2007-12-19 14:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋