we married one year, before that we dated one year. some times i felt love her but now i don't. during that time, i said "I love you" few times but She never said anything. I just confronted her, i asked "do you love me?" after few seconds she said "yes, don't you see that!". she didn't say directly she loved me.
I doubt she doesn't love me. but beside that, she's so jealous, she's so selfish, she just want me around her all the time.
i really want to know she love me or not?
2007-12-19
12:57:19
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➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think u need to tell the person. Even if u show it, it's still nice to hear.
2007-12-19 13:16:48
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answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6
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Many people both male and female have a hard time saying "I love you". A lot of times it's because as they were growing up they never heard the words and love wasn't expressed in their family, so they believe that it is normal and natural to act that way. They have a hard time expressing their true feelings.
Jealousy does not equate to love. Trust equates more to love. Wanting to be with you all the time can be either good or bad. Does she want to be with you because she loves you, likes your company or does she want to be with you because she doesn't trust you? You have to decide. Either way you need to figure it out.
The best way to keep a marriage going is through communication. Have you told her how you feel about her inability to say I love you. If you do not communicate this to her then she may not know how you feel. Remember communication is one of the keys to keep two people together. Open and honest communication without it getting into a fight or hurting feelings can usually clear the air and then things will get better. But if we just shut down and hold those feelings in they will fester and eventually lead to anger and depression which will result in divorce.
2007-12-19 13:33:12
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answered by Cliff R 4
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This is a question that we can't answer. Only she knows what's in her heart. I tell you this, if she is jealous and wants your attention all the time, that is a good indication that she feels something for you. Love? I don't know,,,But if I didn't love my wife the last thing I would be is jealous or around her. There's other problems here that yo wll need to figure out. Communication is everything,,,,,good luck to you!
2007-12-19 13:03:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self seeking,
it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. And now these three remain:
faith,hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
1Corinthians 13: 4-8,13
2007-12-19 14:06:46
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answered by setfree 3
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My mother has never in her life said I love you to me, my brother or father. I am sure she loves us but she is such a type A personality she refuses to say it. Now that she has grand kids, she says it to them all the time cause I had a long talk how that hurt me when growing up. She still doesn't say it to us.
2007-12-19 13:05:26
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answered by Lucci 6
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She probably loves you. I do find this to be an odd trait in a woman though, I tell my husband I love him so much it annoys him...lol
2007-12-19 13:02:43
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answered by DeAnna 5
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she may have a hard time putting it into words.. and she may be thinking that by showing you jealousy that it is the same as showing you love.. but sad thing is it is not showing you that..just the opposite..try to talk to her and tell her what your needs are
2007-12-19 13:01:10
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answered by vis 7
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She probably don't, if she did you wouldn't have to ask her you would already know. Remindes me of my first marriage. Good Luck with that.
2007-12-19 13:04:20
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answered by Abit1 2
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