I dnt no wht to do!!!!! im in love with my ex and he is in love with me. we are really good friends with benifts... but we just dont date because when we are together all we do is argue. me and him broke up in april and im still not completly over him. but over the summer i met this one boy an we have been talkin 4 a while. im starting to like him a lot but im still in love with my ex.. I dnt no wht to do.he really likes me an we are always together!!! i love him but im not in love with him!! he knows that im still in love with my ex...but doesnt care!! im really confused because my heart is telling me to be with him but my fait is still with my ex!! wht should i do?? i mean he really treats me right...he's sexy as HELL... my mom likes him..i like him lol!!! its just my ex holding me back 4rm fallin in love with him!!! so i need some advise on wht i should do thanks!!!
2007-12-19 12:48:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you really need to rethink your definition of 'love'. boyfriend #1 needs to go - a relationship full of arguing is no fun. boyfriend #2 shows potential but don't saddle him with relationship #1' baggage. maybe you should simply step away from any relationship until you can sort 'you' out.
2007-12-19 13:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's you holding you back. You'll never have a good relationship with this new guy until you are finished with your ex. If all you do is argue, and then all you have is sex with your ex - what is your future going to be? I predict little sex, arguements that get worse and worse, and somewhere along you'll have children that will grow up in this terrible environment.
Either find common ground and stop arguing with the ex, or stop having sex with him and say no more benefits.
2007-12-19 12:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lady; Now is the time to reason what you must do and it is also time to grow up. Your ex has nothing to do with you maturing. You are making all kinds of excuses which shows immaturity > time to leave that little girl behind.
2007-12-19 12:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by googie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋