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i met this guy about 2 months ago we only hang out on weekends but talk on the phone often he is 22 and im 26 , he also he has a 2 year old son from a previous realtionship i didnt want to catch feeling but i did, the problem is when i tell him i wanna be wit him he ignores me and back off tellin me he wants to take things slow, when i show i dont care he calls and text more im lookin for a serious realtionship i dont know know what to do coz i have feelings for him ..last sat was the first time we had sex and i asked him wat he want from me, his response was ' i have potential to be wit him in the future but he wants to take things slow' wat shoud i do?? im sure he's gonna wanna see me this wekend..

2007-12-19 10:52:24 · 14 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

when hes so in the wrong its scary and he makes u hate him even more by speaking to you disrespectfully and saying stuff he thinks is clever but in fact is very stupid?

2007-12-19 10:48:57 · 19 answers · asked by Janeywaney 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I married in Pennsylvania 3 years ago. We moved to Utah where I still live, he moved back to Pennsylvania 2 weeks ago. We were planning on getting back together, but he has another girlfriend already and I am planning on getting a divorce. I am young, 24, and have been a student for the past 3 years and don't have a lot of money. What are the first steps when getting a divorce, and how do you research good lawyers.

I am not looking to be malicious and have a long drawn out battle, we don't have children and we never bought a home together so there is not much to fight over. But I also want to protect myself and the small inheritance I received from my grandma. Anyone have any good advice on what to do next???

2007-12-19 10:47:34 · 12 answers · asked by ginnyp82 2 in Marriage & Divorce

An old flame is trying hard to get back into my life after 5 months of deception and a lil emotional/mental abuse (yeah all in 5 months) I stopped all contact. He saw me around after 8 months of no contact and he is texting me non stop. I refuse to respond, he wants an explanation as to why I stopped the "relationship”. Do I owe him an explanation?

2007-12-19 10:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by Indgrid 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so Im dating this guy named Sam and he has never had a girlfriend before so I think hes kinda lost... Ok so we are going to winter formal to together and he hasn't told anybody and when we are walking home with a bunch of my and his friends he was totally ignoring me and would look at me and smile but that was it.. but when we are alone he hugs me and flirts with me... WHAT THE HELL?!? When I went to my car i didn't even want to say good bye to him because i was so pissed off!! Then he was like ,"BYE!!" AHH what should i do or say to thus guy to tell him how im feeling?

2007-12-19 10:39:26 · 1 answers · asked by Pam 2 in Singles & Dating

WELL THERE IS THIS REALLY NICE, SWEET, AND NOT TO FORGET HOT GUY HE IS ONE OF MY BROTHER'S FRIENDS AND HE LIKES ME...I LIKE HIM TOO....BUT WOULD IT BE WEARD IF I DATED HIM???
AND IS THAT KIND OF AGAINST THE LAW??

2007-12-19 10:39:04 · 49 answers · asked by jessica g 1 in Singles & Dating

Some guy posted on a question that I asked that all guys cheat no matter what. I don't think they do. I know my guy is not perfect but he would never ever cheat on me. Whats your thoughts?

2007-12-19 10:38:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you still watch porn even when your in a relationship?

2007-12-19 10:37:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing and having sex with someone for the past month or so. I have fallen for him, but he is not interested in a long-term commitment. I know that he likes me, and I have a feeling that he could change his mind over time, but I can't stand the thought of not having a relationship with this man. We have amazing sex, which is very hard to walk away from, but I need more. As I'm writing this, I think I know what I need to do, but I would be curious to hear what you think. Please help!

2007-12-19 10:37:13 · 7 answers · asked by Rainbrain 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are in the U.S.He's the elder of two sons. We got married few months back, love each other a lot but some of his actions annoy me.He calls his parents twice everyday and update them on what we do and where we go. Its very irritating.On top of it, he expects me to talk with them once in two days.Although we discuss about what we want to do, they seem to have a big influence on him. They really put emotional stress on him. For eg,we want to buy a house in U.S but they always create a scene that we won't come back and we'll settle there. They seem to be considered and consulted with all we do.I also have brother and feel nice when my brother calls home and spends time with us but my parents always gave the lead role to the individual while standing by us. But my in-laws demand to know everything from us and they sometimes draw the bottom line also which my husband has no other go but accept at the end or else they create a big drama. This is making my anger grow inside

2007-12-19 10:34:24 · 5 answers · asked by Another H4 cribber 1 in Family

My boyfriend of 3 months keeps telling me that i am his bi***, his cu***, his who***, his sl**, etc........ out of the blue, for no reason, when we are watching television. As our relationship goes on, he calls me degrading names like this more and more often, and for no reason, even though he is not even angry.

He also told me that his mother is a f**** bi*****, what is going on with this man ?

I am 35 years old and he is 43.

please help me, i need answers from both men and women

2007-12-19 10:30:44 · 49 answers · asked by psychic clara 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands parents have 3 children.

My husband and I have supported ourselves through study and working to buy a house, which we are very proud of as neither of us had help from our parents.
Now I am a nurse and he is a tradesman.

His younger sister, who we are very close with, her and her partner chose to have a baby when she was 20, he is now 2 and just beautiful.

Here is my problem. And before I start its not so much about the money, its that my husband notices that his parents do these things and he is upset, and he normally is very laid back.

his paernts buy his sister all things, an oven, a freezer, a microwave, they have helped them do their back yard landscaping, they are always giving them money to pay bills/ mortgage as they fall behind.

My husband and I get none of this support. We both work very hard to make sure our mortgage gets paid, but it means we don't have any spare money left, we just scrape by.

I think it is so wrong that his parents do this.

2007-12-19 10:30:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=At43HaG_vzas8EJiIvw35gPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071215200728AAtPS68


Link explains situation. After all that and really trying to just be over it i cant seem to stop thinking about it. Is it normal to still want to run back and be with her even after what she did. I know i should just be over it because its completly wrong what she did to me and i understand that, it really hurt.. its just i still dont understand why she would do that to me and i feel maybe, just maybe she will change and not hurt me again. despite that at the same time i feel if she really loved me she wouldnt have done that to me.. especially after the past few years we have been together we havnt had many problems. I miss her but think maybe its just going to take time and i will realize eventually that it is not in my best interest to be with her..I guess my question is, is it normal to want to run back and try again?

2007-12-19 10:29:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Need to know right away, i'm about to cook for the children.

2007-12-19 10:28:55 · 10 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Family

I do believe in love, and marrige.. its beautiful

but i am scared to give my life to someone.. most guys are just creeps, i will get married if i find a good man.. but i'm not settleing for less, is that bad?

2007-12-19 10:27:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1. Past addiction to Cocaine (23 years ago) but still has an addictive personality.
2. Recently (within the past 9 mo) addicted to frequenting Karaoke Bars. He loves to sing & drink.
3.He is still communicating with a woman he did booty calls with even when I asked him to stop.She lives hundreds of miles away right now.
4. Previously addicted to pornography(within the last year)
5. I found an email where he had been pimping himself on Craig's List to have sex with stange women before we met (a married one) & he did not tell me about it once we started our relationship.
6. Does NOT want to attend church AT ALL. I am thinking when I have a child I would like to attend church for the child.
7. He can't have sex with me & get satisfied unless he has constant serious sexual visual stimulation (i.e all the lights on & mirrors). I am sure this has to do with his past porn addiction. He can't just feel it. He has to see EVERYTHING. Sometimes I feel like he wants the porn shot & not me.

2007-12-19 10:26:54 · 20 answers · asked by VintagePort 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In Wisconsin you have to wait six months to get a marriage lisence from the date that the divorce is final. Now lets say I get divorced and that weekend I go to Nevada to get married and obtain a marriage license from Nevada and get married in Nevada then come home to Wi is the marriage still legal. In Nevada the divorce has to be completely final to obtain a marriage license.

2007-12-19 10:24:44 · 2 answers · asked by hleichtnam 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They is this guy at my school, he likes me and I think I'm starting to have feelings for him, but only one big promble he is not all that popular and people just keep telling me that if I go out with him I will be unhappy caus he don't know how to treat a girl and I will be his frist girlfriend. They all think he the ugliest bot in the whole school, but I still like him and I don't know what to do... HELP ME PLEASE

2007-12-19 10:23:12 · 8 answers · asked by hottie-girl 2 in Singles & Dating

She would not be happy with atheist children; however I would. What is the way forward?

2007-12-19 10:22:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats so sexy about man?

I ve cute face, lean musclar body, tall, usually get along with every1, super confident.

I like girl, she doesnt show any interest in me. I tried to talk to her, but she said, u r not my type.. ha..

I dont get.

What does girls really look for, in a guy?

please help me out

Thnx

2007-12-19 10:21:23 · 32 answers · asked by ACID 5 in Singles & Dating

Somtimes she is shy and i would ask her myself but i dont want to offend her. please help me out guys, i realy need to know!

2007-12-19 10:19:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I may not spend 2 hours at the grocery store, but I will occasionally catch myself reading a can of beans for too long.
It takes me a very long time to pick out a birthday (or other occasion) card. I shake my head at someone who gets my carpet wet with snow on their shoes. Stupid things like that.

2007-12-19 10:18:46 · 2 answers · asked by Lil Greek Girl 3 in Family

2007-12-19 10:18:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My daughter is going through a hard time recently - she found out her boyfriend of 2 years and Father to her baby was cheating on her with 3 different women!

At first she decided to get him out of her life and she seemed ok...then he did an emotional blackmail suicide attempt and it looks like she has taken him back

Thing is I recently met a really nice guy after being single for a while ( and picky! lol )

But instead of being happy for me my daughter has been ringing me every day and having a go at me - calling my new boyfriend names and saying that I have ruined Christmas!!!

I am due to go to hers for the Christmas period but she now says she doesn't want me too......and the way she has been having a go at me lately I'm not sure if it will be a good time either!!!

I want to show her that I am there for her but I have my own life too...and that not all men are b*stards!.....but it does not seem to be working

I don't want to be her emotional punchbag either.. it hurts

2007-12-19 10:18:17 · 6 answers · asked by chandra 6 in Family

My mother remarried a man who at the time of their courtship, was working full time & contributing 50/50 to the bills.

She worked as well full time.

They have no kids & no mutual financial accounts/purchases.

I think it's fraud because he finished his degree 2 months after they married, and has NEVER looked for a job to use it for OVER A YEAR.
He's not even a good stay at home house husband!
MOM has to do ALL the cleaning & cooking, etc...Totally NOT FAIR!

She's building resentment day by day, and I keep warning him to shape up, but apparently it's not changing his freeloading ways.

Stepdad just moans about how "There are no jobs, I can't use my degree, All I do is get picked on, etc" Bla Bla Bla!

BTW this is in FL.... What should she do?
PS- He would never consider marriage therapy.

2007-12-19 10:17:57 · 6 answers · asked by beanieelizabeth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife told me she would "make herself available to me" everyday single day if I stopped smoking cigarettes and drinking alcohol. She said the deal is off the second I smoke or take a drink, do you think this is fair? What do you think of this? Would you do it? Could you do it?

FYI: part of new years resolution is to get healthier and she knows this will highly motivate me!

2007-12-19 10:17:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Every so often I ask my boyfriend if we can just stay home that night and he always promises me we can. Then he decides he had a bad day and wants go out for a drink. Or he worked at least 2 hours of over time that day so he announces we're going out to dinner. Because of his work schedule he's usually home by 2 or 3 in the afternoon so every time I mention I'm going to do laundry he says not to bother, promises to do it when he gets home the next day, and then ends up either taking a nap or messing around on the computer and loosing track of time. There's other house stuff he always promises he's wants to get done and I always end up doing it myself. Which is if, I just wish he'd stop promising things he has no intention of making an effort to follow through on.

It would be one thing if this stuff only happened every so often, but it's constant. It isn't even a more often than not thing. It's always. As in every time. It's aggravating. Am I over reacting to this?

2007-12-19 10:17:19 · 10 answers · asked by QT_Pie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

she is incredibly rich and if i married her i could get that money.

2007-12-19 10:17:00 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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