I do believe in love, and marrige.. its beautiful
but i am scared to give my life to someone.. most guys are just creeps, i will get married if i find a good man.. but i'm not settleing for less, is that bad?
2007-12-19 10:27:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not all guys are creeps and believe me sweety you will know when you find the right man. you will know when you fall in love and hey if you get married and it doesn't work out please don't give up hope. you will find the right man when the time is right. I spend 10 years with a no good.......###### but wouldn't trade those years for a million dollars because I have 3 beautiful children from that marriage but I found out he was not the man for me and 2 years after my divorce I met the man of my dreams and we have been together ever since. your prince will come just don't rush it
2007-12-19 10:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by mama bear 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you should never marry just anyone. It is best to date the person for along time, and I don't mean 3- 6 months, you cant really get to know someone in that short period of time. Good luck on your search for the love of your life, make sure he is the right person.
2007-12-19 10:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never bad to want to be independent. You will find that special man. To be honest, I don`t want to get married either, this is due to personal experience, but independent for me is the way to go!
And ur basically answering ur own question urself, you don`t want to get married as most of them are jerks and creeps but you will get married if you find that Mr Right.
2007-12-19 11:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give your life to anyone when you get married... Your life remains yours, your choices remain yours. Yes, marriage is about sharing, but sharing is not the same as giving it all away. When you find the "right person", you will want to share your life with them. But there's no obligation for you to get married - take your time and have fun.
2007-12-19 11:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage isn't about "giving your life to someone." It's about finding a partner who complements you, makes you happy, and you do the same for him. You want to raise a family together, etc. You are still you, just better.
2007-12-19 10:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by monicanena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. That's great. You should NEVER feel you NEED a man, or NEED to be married, or NEED to have kids to feel adequate, or complete.
Concentrate on yourself first.... then, you'll know when you've found someone who is genuine!
Good luck!
2007-12-19 10:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Impavidsoul 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, absolutely not bad!!! That is as good as it gets!!!! Don't marry anyone you aren't absolutely convinced beyond a shadow of a doubt that you can't (don't want to) live without.
2007-12-19 10:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by transplanted_fireweed 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good for you sweetie! Too many people "settle" and rush into marriages with people that they are not compatible with.
Don't lower your standards for anyone!!
I did, and I will regret it forever.
2007-12-19 10:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never settle for less that what you want!
2007-12-19 10:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by erin A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way not bad at all
Plus not all of us are creeps
2007-12-19 10:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by receiver1701 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋