Every so often I ask my boyfriend if we can just stay home that night and he always promises me we can. Then he decides he had a bad day and wants go out for a drink. Or he worked at least 2 hours of over time that day so he announces we're going out to dinner. Because of his work schedule he's usually home by 2 or 3 in the afternoon so every time I mention I'm going to do laundry he says not to bother, promises to do it when he gets home the next day, and then ends up either taking a nap or messing around on the computer and loosing track of time. There's other house stuff he always promises he's wants to get done and I always end up doing it myself. Which is if, I just wish he'd stop promising things he has no intention of making an effort to follow through on.
It would be one thing if this stuff only happened every so often, but it's constant. It isn't even a more often than not thing. It's always. As in every time. It's aggravating. Am I over reacting to this?
2007-12-19 10:17:19 · 10 answers · asked by QT_Pie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No....as long as you realize you're dating an immature BOY and not a responsible MAN.
Good luck playing Mommy with this one.
2007-12-19 10:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by kiki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because I went threw the same thing myself the only solution I can tell you that I did myself was put my foot down and let him know what h was doing and how much it pissed me off and bothered me on so many levels and he needed to change it because it throws you off when you have house duties to do and have a certain way or routine of doing them.
2007-12-19 13:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by michelle b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to be upset. You should tell him how you feel about the situation, but without starting an argument. Be considerate with your words. And if that doesn't work then you better take a woman's advice.
2007-12-19 10:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too hate to be made a promise that isnt kept-sit down with him and tell him this is not acceptable -he must follow through and he must keep his promises -its just as bad as lying!
2007-12-19 10:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 22:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is crazy for not staying home with you,jsut to spend time alone would be so great with the woman of your dreams,and by all means you are not over reacting,he should help out if he said he would
2007-12-19 10:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by phil 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't overreacting to this. He needs to stop making excuses or tell you the truth from the start.
2007-12-19 10:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by metallikitty00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really. If he cant keep his word for little things then it makes you wonder wat wouldhe lie about since its obvious his word means nothing to him? Maybe its time to move on and find someone more compatable to your ideas. Good luck and Happy Holidays
2007-12-19 10:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
you need to talk to him
he sounds bossy, you be bossy for a change
although maybe sometimes its better for you to have fun and drop the work, but thats for you to measure
2007-12-19 10:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Rg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you need to let him know that he is full of crap !
2007-12-19 10:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋