when hes so in the wrong its scary and he makes u hate him even more by speaking to you disrespectfully and saying stuff he thinks is clever but in fact is very stupid?
2007-12-19 10:48:57 · 19 answers · asked by Janeywaney 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jack O, how on earth are you a top contributer? get your head out of your a*s
2007-12-19 10:53:37 · update #1
It takes a bigger man to admit he's wrong..
2007-12-19 10:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't have a man, I in fact have a woman. But when we argue, I end it before it really gets started. I think it's lame to argue and even though I act like a 12 year old most of the time, I'm too mature to argue over something stupid.
2007-12-19 17:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by Shredsledder1389 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorry stupid azz.
I can't say I've ever been in a relationship where the guy has spoken to me in a disrespectfull way, if he did I would speak to him the same way he spoke to me, you gotta put a bully back in their little corner then you leave and never come back, don't let him speak to you like that if he can never admit he's wrong god I would hate to think what would happen if you were wrong he would be jumping up and down telling you how right he is and putting yoy down even more. Don't ever show him your intimidated by him.
2007-12-19 10:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if it gets to serious then leave. But what i do when my man id being dumb i leave and go hang out with friends and go shopping and stuff like that. I also go to the club with my friends to met new people to hang out with but just girls so that he doesn't get mad. If you need to then go to a really good friend and ask them to help you talk about it so you can get it off your chest. Go do some thing you really in joy doing to keep your mind off him. Maybe just leave for a couple of days so you both can think about stuff. BUT U KNO WHAT IT TAKES A REAL MAN TO ADMIT HIS WRONG AND TO APOLOGIZE
2007-12-19 10:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i just don't talk and relax try not to think of it had a huge row a few weeks ago with my fella on email as i can't talk to him much while he is in iraq but he reallly hurt me and was nasty so told him to p off and was fuming i did not say night to him or even the next day i did not email him i let him say he was sorry men are so stupid some times.
2007-12-19 11:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh wow...classic dilemma.
Well, the best thing that works for me is to go for a little drive or walk to clear my head. The last thing I want to do is say something back to him that makes me sounds just as immature as him. It also gives him a little time to rethink his actions as well.
The last thing you want to do is give in to the "you think you're so smart" game...because not giving in is playing it smart.
2007-12-19 10:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by celticstar84 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is whats known in the trade as,finding out that nearly all us blokes,myself excluded of course,are nothing but self centered,imature,loud mouthed know it all b@stards.
2007-12-19 17:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by fozz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol well the thing is on the phone it takes ages to sort out but gets sorted as one of us hangs up and lets one calm down then the sorry begins...but wen we together and he upsets me i do get angry but after wen we makeup he says i look sexy wen am angry lol....but he does hug me and says sorry and then we just carry on...no1 is perfect,i also can upset him but if we can sort it out then thats all that matters,some times we dont mean things we say.
2007-12-19 11:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by london-fem 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
And he's your man because.......?
My man would never disrespect me like that. We don't "fight", we discuss things, and if one of us is frustrated, we walk away, calm down and recollect our thoughts to continue the situation.
You teach people how to treat you honey. Your man should be your best friend. If you wouldn't say or do it to your best friend, you shouldn't say or do it to each other.
2007-12-19 10:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly B 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I know that when my bf gets upset it is because of his insecurities, so I just feed his ego and make him feel better about himself. The name calling stops and he calms down. I don't know if that helps you but it always helps me.
2007-12-19 10:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i can argue and argue till the next damn dayyy...which is exactly why my man hates to get on my bad side haha. but when he does..well..he apologizes before i can get out the hockey stick. kidding!
2007-12-19 10:52:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋