I've been seeing and having sex with someone for the past month or so. I have fallen for him, but he is not interested in a long-term commitment. I know that he likes me, and I have a feeling that he could change his mind over time, but I can't stand the thought of not having a relationship with this man. We have amazing sex, which is very hard to walk away from, but I need more. As I'm writing this, I think I know what I need to do, but I would be curious to hear what you think. Please help!
2007-12-19 10:37:13 · 7 answers · asked by Rainbrain 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, you need to do what you're thinking. Otherwise you will lose self respect and be more and more miserable. There are other men out there just as good as him, who will be nicer.
2007-12-19 10:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Marina 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your just seeing him for the "amazing sex" that you had, break-up with him. He's obviously not into long-term commitments, as you said, but i can give you one word of advice from experience: Guys don't change, and never will.
But if there is something more than sex, give him a week or two to change, and if he doesnt, bye,bye!
PS: dont let him know about the 2 week thing, or he'll purposely buy you flowers, chocolates etc etc to shoe that he's worthy.
hope this helped,
oliv3r4eva
2007-12-19 10:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you have heard the old saying," Why buy the milk when the cow is free". That is so true. So many men want to have sex, but they don't want to settle down. When they do settle down, they don't want someone that slept around, you know used stuff, although they used alot of stuff. If girls and woman would hold off having sex, more people would be married, and less kids out of wedlock, being raised without a Dad. So stay with him, and when he gets tired of you, he'll find someone new.
2007-12-19 10:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heres what I read:
He's having sex with me
and
He has no interest in a long term commitment with me
So hes in it for the sex, and thats it.
You seem to really like him, but he will only end up hurting you, get outta there girl, and find a worthy man!
XOXOXO
2007-12-19 10:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Carly M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if yu know what the answer is.... then y ask?
play hard to get. having sex within a month of meeting him isnt helping him feel like your worht it. men love a challenge- so be a challenge. read the book "the rules" and see what you have been doing wrong.
2007-12-19 10:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by Genova Gelatto 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
break it off because...he sees u as a friend with benefits...it will only hurt u in the long run
2007-12-19 10:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by tropical_nature 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not happy, then walk away
2007-12-19 10:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by dominia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋