she think i am a stalker when i am not...wat should i do?
i don't follow her anywhere, all i wrote was one poem that said the following:
hair of gold, eyes of blue
please forgive me, cuz i love you
i know this gurl from school and i directly gave it to her and asked "wat do you think" and now she calls me a stalker
2007-12-19 12:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww just forget about her you sound way too sweet for her. She's prolly just trying to look good around her friends or other ppl. Move on.
2007-12-19 12:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she has told you to stay away from her and you haven't or did not, she could get you for stalking her.
The poem is lovely but can you see now that it is not appreciated from her and she is in no way attracted to you?
You said, "I don't follow her anywhere", you don't have to only do this to be considered a stalker.
Do you call her?
Email her?
Are you anywhere near her like all the time?
you have to realize she wants nothing to do with you and you shouldn't now even give her the time of day sorry to say, but true.
I will tell you one thing and you should be feeling the same way. I don't go near anyone who doesn't like me or where I don't feel welcomed.
If she's already told you "to get lost" or anything like that, from now on, yes she could go and get you for stalking.
Now that she has this "written poem" in her hot little hands she now has more proff against you whether you're a stalker or not.
I think there is just a tad bit more to your story. No one really calls a person a stalker ONLY because of a love poem.
I have had ex boy friends drive by my house and I hate it. They have denied it until I got 2 different guys of course at 2 different times.
I told them both, if I ever saw them in my neighbor hood again I was going to get them on stalking. (They actually were)
I don't know about you incidents with her, but you already know you either leave her alone and move on or if you do continue to "bother her" with anymore notes, or anything you have done and been caught yet, you can bet she is now looking for you and so are her friends....Just to go and now finalize that Stalking Order.
If you have done zip, zero, null to her and ONLY gave her a little poem then she's being a little harsh to say the least, but what she is MOST certainly telling you is to leave her alone.
Sorry, Stalking is not anything to fool around with and you need to just move on ~
2007-12-19 13:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You love her?
She might think you are a stalker because you are writing poems professing your love for her but if she doesn't really know you, how can you really love her?
2007-12-19 12:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just looking for attention. Just leave her alone COMPLETELY and she'll be sorry she opened her big mouth. You don't want her if she's being this way from the beginning.
2007-12-19 12:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't know you then it probably just freaked her out, but if you really like her confront her, and try to get to know her but don't just go up to her and ask her out.
Hope I helped Good Luck
2007-12-19 12:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u didn't mean to offend her and that it took a lot of courage to say who you felt and when shes actually mature enough she'll realize your not a stalker
2007-12-19 12:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by jonasbros11 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's just immature and looking for attention and drama. move on. the is probably a girl out there who will LOVE getting poems about her!
2007-12-19 12:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to her leave her alone etc and it is stalkerish
2007-12-19 12:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by CupCake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such is life, but cute poem.
2007-12-19 12:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋