Are my feelings normal?

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Link explains situation. After all that and really trying to just be over it i cant seem to stop thinking about it. Is it normal to still want to run back and be with her even after what she did. I know i should just be over it because its completly wrong what she did to me and i understand that, it really hurt.. its just i still dont understand why she would do that to me and i feel maybe, just maybe she will change and not hurt me again. despite that at the same time i feel if she really loved me she wouldnt have done that to me.. especially after the past few years we have been together we havnt had many problems. I miss her but think maybe its just going to take time and i will realize eventually that it is not in my best interest to be with her..I guess my question is, is it normal to want to run back and try again?

Answer 1

my boyfriend try to leave me without giving me a reason. I sweetly confronted him about his feelings of leaving me and he fessed up out of guilt and we worked things out. Try it.

Answer 2

Yes it is normal to want to do it, if perhaps not very wise. If you can forgive her, you could try talking to her seriously and giving it another go, but you'd have to be prepared for it all to go wrong again. How much do you want to be with her?
Hope this helps.

Answer 3

i say you sit her down and say that both of you are going to take a little break, and jusst date around, if a relationship gets serious, tell the otherone and you guys will both move on, if neither of youfind anything and just miss eachother too much, then your set.

Answer 4

yes and i know how you feel. my x actuly lied about so many things, like that she was going to camp and their wasnt any service there. but any just get over it

Answer 5

it's normal.
but she's playing head games, move on.