Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

His ex has issuses. She demands things one and and then backs out on them the next. His mom and her decided since the youngest child is sick that she(the grandma, his mother) would staya t home today and watch him. This is fine but there was no phone call to let us know that these were being planned on. Now the ex is saying he can't have the boys on CHristmas eve, even though this is what was arragned prior to the divorce.

2007-12-19 08:27:00 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 08:26:56 · 8 answers · asked by bria422000 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-19 08:26:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do older men chase after girls young enough to be their daughters or granddaughters?

When I was 16, a man that was 60 wanted me to marry him. He helped me out financially because I left a bad home. He was a friend of the family.

While in that situation he would drop me off at school and want me to think of him as my dad. It was getting strange so I left. Once I did leave he accused me of being a nutjob and selfish and using him and playing with his heart.

And why is it older men chase young girls and then turn everything around? They make you feel like the bad one.

I would like to hear some opinions

2007-12-19 08:23:57 · 13 answers · asked by CaliGirl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

If you receive a postcard from the couple letting you know the date of their wedding, are you supposed to reply to it? Or is it really just a way for the couple to inform their friends of the date? Obviously I would reply to a wedding invitation, but if I receive a Save-the-Date postcard, is it necessary for me to tell the couple whether or not I'll be attending their wedding? Or is waiting for the invitation and replying then good enough?

2007-12-19 08:23:43 · 10 answers · asked by kaire 6 in Weddings

iam an Indian girl married a few months back to an NRI guy living in US.My husband comes from a huge joint family comprising of his parents, uncle and his brother's family.They run a family business which is self sufficient if they budget it well .The problem is that there is constant pressure on my husband to send thousands of dollars every few months to cater to the lifestyle of all the members.The money my husband sends gets deposited in a joint account with his brother in India who spends its exclusively for his spendthrift wife and daughters. Before my marriage my husband was not able to save a dime because of his mom's pressure to send money. I started convincing him and advicing him a lot on the proper management of money and so we have started saving a bit. Yet constantly my husband feels the guilt of not satisfying his family's needs and wants to satisfy them. Pls advice me on how to tackle this situation because our financial situation is becoming a constant worry in my life.

2007-12-19 08:22:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mom gave birth .. .. .. to my baby brother ..

and she called him .. SULTAN ..

what do u think we should call him ?? for short ..

TAN ,, OR TONY .. and why ?? plz answer ..

2007-12-19 08:21:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm happily married, and have a lovely daughter.
I do go in to chat rooms, but runaway from guys that want to cyber or even ask me what i'm wearing.
I let everyone know that I am married (guy or girl). but lately. I've been talking to a guy that not only knows about my family but asks how they're doing.
I'm not falling for him, but I do find myself flirting with him a lot!
I enjoy talking to him and do consider him a friend, so I don't want to just cut him off.
any real advice would be a great help.
thanks

2007-12-19 08:20:11 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm only 16, but I think I'm in love with a guy I liked 2 years ago and haven't seen since. When we were 14, we liked eachother for a summer. We weren't "going out" but we both knew we liked eachother and we held hands and kissed eachother (not making out, though). The best memories of my life are from that summer. We ended it at the end of the summer. I go to another school now. I can't stop thinking about him now.....he shows up in my dreams and there is always something in the back of my mind that says we are supposed to be together. All the other guys I've dated don't compare at all. Every so often he shows up in my dreams, and in them I either have him or want him. I have one memory of when we kissed eachother on lips, and both of us felt everything you're supposed to feel....it felt like electricity...i haven't felt it since. I literally haven't seen him in 2 years. Apparently hes the most popular guy in his school. I want to see him again...I don't know how.

2007-12-19 08:19:32 · 6 answers · asked by bria422000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband left to work at 9 am he said he got 24 hours duty in base so he left wearing his uniform so i woke up and i couldnt find his new sneakers or his good jeans he took em why in the world would he take them and last night he was playing with his phone and hiding it from me i dont know what to do now he should be here tomorrow morning i dont know what to do should i call him and ask him or text him ? p/s he did cheat on my before what do u think i should do?

2007-12-19 08:19:27 · 20 answers · asked by baby #2 due Jan 17th 3 in Marriage & Divorce

forexample, her ex has been looking into a couple of vacation packages and if the husband cant go, she sounds like she might go anyway, she also left an opening by saying her parents asked if she wanted to travel wih them. all opinions will help. thanks!
P.S.
she doesnt know her husband knows about the ex planning trips.

2007-12-19 08:17:22 · 14 answers · asked by LittleConfused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Feel free to share your story. Serious answers only, thx in advance!!!!

2007-12-19 08:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by AWomanScorned 5 in Singles & Dating

My sister(Alexa) is pregnant at thirteen and my parents didn't get mad, yell, rant, they basically took it like she was twenty or something. Only my older sister (Ember) and I aren't being all nice and treating her like a queen. I just can't get over how much like child she is acting. She is going to be a mom and she sits there soaking up all the attention. Does she care that people are basically now saying our whole family (females) is a bunch of sluts? Does she care that everyday I have to tell people that YES she is pregnant. I'm just tired of her, we have never really liked each other and now I am totally getting too much of her for my tastes. I am tired of always being the one to pick up after her so how do i just stop having to deal with her? ( short of moving out in six days)

2007-12-19 08:16:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it ok to just have the other person say grace while you quietly continue phone conversation?

2007-12-19 08:15:43 · 22 answers · asked by Dirt E. Deeds 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-12-19 08:14:56 · 44 answers · asked by Warren Ferguson 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been looking for my day for a very long time and ive been to a few websites and can't find anything.. Here's what i know about him Name: Clarence T. Osner. Location: Either in Cincinnati Or Akron Oh. And He's 38. So If Anyone Can Help Me Plz Let Me Know

2007-12-19 08:12:46 · 3 answers · asked by c_pgurl 2 in Family

I'd always been taught to listen to myself before i listen to anyone else. My partner and I have been together for nearly a year and from the early stages we knew it was love at first site. However, I don't know if it makes a difference but usually when we are at home he is all over me and usually tells me he loves me at least twice a day, I actually can't recall the last time he said it to me without me saying it first (apart from when he says it if we are texting each other). Also, we have had a couple of arguments lately, over crappy things that dont mean anything. ALSO, he arcs up at me a little bit but often, for example last night we were laying on his bed late at night on the laptop trying to put songs on his new mp3 player i bought him and the laptop kept playing up and i was tired and getting so cranky coz the computer kept playing up and i ended up getting frustrating and going ARGHH do it another day i wanna go to bed n hes like ""ohhh f*ckin hell" he does that all the time.

2007-12-19 08:12:12 · 13 answers · asked by **Jemma** 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 08:10:06 · 3 answers · asked by ruby r 1 in Family

i dont feel he should as im at home all day with our son who is a right handful & i dont get to go out. what do you think, should i stay quite & let him go or should i tell him im not happy with him going.

2007-12-19 08:09:44 · 18 answers · asked by Tracy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, this is a bit hard to explain, but I'll try my hardest.
Bare with me, I'm really confused.
So, there's a guy in the picture, we've been flirting with eachother for the past month or so.
I've developed feelings for him, and I've told him straight up, that I like him. He hasn't given me a straight answer saying, I like you too, but we've been texting like crazy, we flirt every chance we have together, and he's spoken to his friends about me.
The problem is, a lot of my friends dislike him, he's a really two-sided person, not two-faced, he's just like, a "bully" to a lot of the people at our school, and let's just say people either hate him, or love him.
He's really sweet to me, and he knows I like him, but I'm not 100% sure if he feels the same, I mean yeh we flirt a lot, but still, he's known I've liked him for awhile now, and he's hardly made any moves.
Last night, we were talking, and he put my name in his msn name. And he's been acting more cute lately, does he like me?

2007-12-19 08:09:10 · 2 answers · asked by kills 1 in Singles & Dating

I told my dad yesterday i need gifts to give my teachers. I come home today and he 6 flowers. He tells me give them to my teacher. I was like Wat the?. I have 4 guy teachers, so thats kinda weird don't you think. His like why. I'm like its weird because either your feminine or your gay giving a guy flowers. What do you think?? Wont Kids make fun??

2007-12-19 08:08:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We want to do a candy favor wrapped in tulle. But the colors are not any where near what are wedding colors are. I need to find out how to dye whitw tulle black. Any help would be great

2007-12-19 08:07:29 · 4 answers · asked by movievixin 4 in Weddings

I have been dating the love of my life for over 2 years now. He wants me to move in with him but I want him to pop the question first! How long must I wait? We have talked about it many times before and we both want to get married but he tends to procrastinate. How do I give him that push that he needs?

2007-12-19 08:07:23 · 21 answers · asked by Heart Broken 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found this site, and am wondering if red flags should be going up. Here is the package I'm looking at:

http://milespendletonimages.com/JustShoot.aspx

I'm finding that other rates for having 2 photogs for 5 hours with an album and cd/dvd are over $1000 easily. Did I just find a good deal, or do I have good reason to be skeptical? I emailed them, and the 150 proofs are the pics that they take that they consider to be the best ones. Is 150 too few for a ceremony and reception?

2007-12-19 08:07:08 · 9 answers · asked by Galaxie Girl 6 in Weddings

So I just got out of a relationship and just moved
to nyc, the other day I ran into an ex-boyfriend on
the train (you know one of those ex's you could always
see trying it again) and decided to go out on a date
on Saturday. The date went well and i ended up staying
the night.

So this feels silly for my 25 yr old mind to ponder
but how long should one wait for a guy to call her
back? Ive been out of the dating since so long that, I
dont know anymore.

He texted me the next day and I responded back but
I've yet to hear back from him. Should i be worried?

2007-12-19 08:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by lizbethjean 1 in Singles & Dating

In a previous question I explained that the mother of my 2yr old and fiancé of 5 years said our relationship was over. She said it's possible to get back together someday, but that she mite date others in the meantime. It devastated me.

I've taken the mindset that I "don't need her", "won't call her", & "won't tell her I love her". I want to show her that I can stand tall/strong, but I don't want her to think that I can easily get over her, or that I'm giving up on us. I'll never give up, and I get the feeling that she's testing me.

Today she stopped by my office to pickup something and we talked for a few minutes. She stared into my eyes with a curious-concerned look and continued to as I walked away. Only yesterday she said it was over(at least for now). I don't know what to think of it.

Any suggestions how I should act around or speak to her?

2007-12-19 08:06:44 · 6 answers · asked by siforek 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so im 20 and just wondering if what a guy does for a living changes the way u feel about em or do u block out certain ppl b/c of their job....im an accountant and im good at my job...would my job matter to u? not that it's a big deal just wondering on the answers to this question

2007-12-19 08:06:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone around me is getting engaged and talking about full term relationships! I'm in 12th grade and I feel like I'm missing out on so much. The guys I date are almost like friends more than lovers and everyone's been telling me to get serious about a relationship. I have plenty of time and I'm not ready to have a serious relationship yet. My question is, will i ever be ready? Or am i training myself now to always be like this? Will i ever find someone i could truly love?

2007-12-19 08:06:30 · 3 answers · asked by MJ B 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been caught watching porn from my girlfriend a few times now and of course would start to complain about it. Wats so bad about it? Its not like im goin to have sex in reallife w/ these porn actresses.

2007-12-19 08:04:20 · 4 answers · asked by JAMES 1 in Singles & Dating

Less than 24 hours later she ran back to him when he was bailed out (by someone else). She had packed a car full of stuff, and the baby to separate from him and than runs right back after he gets out, keeps calling her and giving her the "I'm sorry" sweet talk. I'm so scared for her and don't trust him at all.

2007-12-19 08:03:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends