Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

My husband has been distant from me for a while. He never shows any affection towards me and every time I tried to get closer to him he would just try to get away from me, and I would end up feeling stupid. We've been married for 3 years with 1 child. He never wants to have sex or be around me anymore leaving me feeling very ugly and depressed.

He's been on the laptop downstairs all night long till 2 am at times this month and I was very suspicious. So I went to his myspace profile and say this girl posting in all his pictures saying he was so hot and that he was hers and she wants him so bad. So Iogged into his acct and saw that they send messages back and forth to eachother saying that they love eachother and he posted in her profile comments how sexy she is (he never posts any comments on my page). He even calls her and she sent him nude pics of her and he sent her a pic of him in his boxers!

I'm very hurt, I dont wanna tell him I went in his acct but I wanna confront him. Help!

2007-12-19 08:03:11 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 08:02:08 · 18 answers · asked by Reggie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Am I out of line for scolding people who write questions that are long, meandering, contain no punctuation, and are entirely composed of text-message shorthand? Are some young people honestly not capable of writing with any kind of grammar or punctuation?

These people claim to be married, kids etc.... therefore, I must presume they are not 14. Is this crap for real?

2007-12-19 08:01:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...our sexual histories with each other. Although she wasn't crazy to hear about mine, I answered all of her questions. When I aksed her about her past boyfriends I got extremely aroused hearing about her experiences. Why would this be? Shouldn't I be somewhat self-conscious about it?

2007-12-19 08:01:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yep' I said
I buy you fish and chips
don't I luv
Big argument'
Now what's wrong with that, I ask you

2007-12-19 07:59:37 · 10 answers · asked by denis9705 5 in Singles & Dating

Is this normal for a guy to act this way when he knows you like him??


Okay there is this guy he use to always talk, smile, stare at me alot. it was obvious to everyone that he liked me. He would sometimes just stare at me out of no where and people with catch him doing it. Well...I think this guy knows i like him back. Now he is acting all wierd. LIke he still smiles and look at me alot. He just won't talk to me as much anymore. LIke he will be right behind me or something with all of his other friends and his friends will just look at me. The guy that i like use to always smile and flirt with me alot. Now he just looks at me and smiles and doesnt say anything amymore. Is this unusual?? Or does alot of guys do this when they're shy? I think he might be shy but i really dont know. WHAT ARE SOME OF YOU ADVICE??? Do you think he still likes me but shy?

2007-12-19 07:58:46 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have access to their house all the time and there is some medication missing. They believe I stole it and I didn't, I'm trying to get pregnant, so it doesn't make sense for me to do that. I told them I didn't and they were welcome to my house to look or to my blood work to see I didn't take it. They might get police involved to figure it out. I'm so uncomfortable with the whole situation. How do I get around this and move on if they won't?

2007-12-19 07:58:40 · 14 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is my first time french kissing, he understood that I was inexperienced and didn't know what the hell to do. He told me to just put my tounge in his mouth and play around a little and my mouth got really wet in stuff and it was soooo hot and romantic. I messed up a few times (our teeth clashed together lol) and then one time I was really getting it on and he said I was very good at it. Has anybody ever experienced such a great feeling of first time french kissing? tell me your stories?

I asked this yesterday but only 2 people answered, I want more answers please thanks I'd appreciate it!

2007-12-19 07:58:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have asked questions about jobs before and I've had a couple people answer that they are stay at home wives??? What are they doing other than what the rest of us do after we get out of work? Obviously they don't have kids to take care of because they would say they are a stay at home mom.
One woman said she works 24/7 because she is a stay at home wife, but that's ok cause she loves it...
well of course you love it, who wouldn't?!

2007-12-19 07:56:23 · 14 answers · asked by cz73 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my friend want a tv show but how do we actually like get discoverd i mean we have no clue wat should we do to get our own tv show

2007-12-19 07:49:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay there is this guy he use to always talk, smile, stare at me alot. it was obvious to everyone that he liked me. He would sometimes just stare at me out of no where and people with catch him doing it. Well...I think this guy knows i like him back. Now he is acting all wierd. LIke he still smiles and look at me alot. He just won't talk to me as much anymore. LIke he will be right behind me or something with all of his other friends and his friends will just look at me. The guy that i like use to always smile and flirt with me alot. Now he just looks at me and smiles and doesnt say anything amymore. Is this unusual?? Or does alot of guys do this when they're shy? I think he might be shy but i really dont know. WHAT ARE SOME OF YOU ADVICE??? Do you think he still likes me but shy?

2007-12-19 07:47:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife left me a little over a year ago right after I was diagnosed with cancer. We had been married a long time and have two adult children. The divorce will be final any moment. She has poisoned our children against me. I am facing the holiday season alone. This is destroying me.

2007-12-19 07:47:23 · 16 answers · asked by Terrence B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A bag of sugar cookies our last name will be Sugar...

Or candy bar

Thinking something edilble because I do not 50 leftover candles ya know.

2007-12-19 07:46:05 · 42 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

I right now work two jobs. I got an extra job for the holiday season at Best Buy. Well I work my other job and my job there is taking off. I am getting promoted and am going through exams right now that I must pass before flying out for training. I am also married with a 3 month of infant. I pretty much work every weekend and most everyday after my main job. I am really tired and want my time back.

Best Buy employees get everything at store cost plus 5%. I I want to buy my mom all new kitchen utensils for christmas since they would be dirt cheap. Should I just wait till Friday for payday and buy the stuff and then just never show back up or what would you do? I miss being with my family and having my sanity lol.

2007-12-19 07:45:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am almost 50. I went to therapy for 3 years to get over growing up with a horrible, cold and manipulative mother. She is still cruel and says horrible things about me to the rest of the family and they believe her. I have a wonderful husband and daughter, and my dad is great (they divorced years ago when she left him for someone else). Even though I know it would be better if I never saw her again, I still hurt. She is still just as mean as ever but she has moments when she is really sweet and nice. But then she back-stabs again. I think I might be holding on the good side but it comes with a price....more pain. I want to let it go and not see her anymore. Anyone been able to do this?

2007-12-19 07:45:35 · 5 answers · asked by Blondana 3 in Family

i met this guy about 2 months ago we only hang out on weekends but talk on the phone often he is 22 and im 26 , he also he has a 2 year old son from a previous realtionship i didnt want to caatch feeling but i did, the problem is wen i tell him i wanna be wit him he ignores me and back off tellin me he wants to take things slow, when i show i dont care he calls and text more im lookin for a serious realtionship i dont know know wat to do coz i have feelings for him ..last sat was the first time we had sex and i asked him wat he want from me, his response was ' i have potential to be wit him in the future but he wants to take things slow' wat shoud i do?? im sure he's gonna wanna see me this wekend..

2007-12-19 07:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 07:43:58 · 24 answers · asked by mryungbp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy was in love with me for 4 years. We are from different cultures therefore we hided the feelings insides.

I moved to different states. I found out he was in love with me. I am happy,but I was very busy with my new school, new job, new environment. So I told him--"I was not ready for a relationship". We kept in touch as friends. I never give him my phone number or address, we just e-mail each other. He wrote over 20 poems about how much he miss and want to be with me. I always let him know how I feel. I told him couple times that I love him and miss him. But we never made a plan to be with each other.

He was hurt , but still wait for me. He waited for 2 years. Nothing happens, therefore, he left me.

Am I too selfish? What went wrong here? Please advice. Thank you

2007-12-19 07:42:02 · 37 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Singles & Dating

Men do you secretly loose respect for your wife when she participates in sexual acts?

2007-12-19 07:41:25 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should I give my bf oral? We are in our 20s and have been dating for a year. We never had sex b/c I told him I was waiting until marriage; however, he performed oral on me a couple of times. Even though he’s not forcing me to do it to him, deep down I know he wants me too. The reason why I’m hesitating is b/c I told him I would never do that until marriage. I don’t want to go back on my word and he thinks I’m a liar. Also, he has had a couple of sexual partners and I wouldn’t want to do that unless he’s tested. I know this is a lot, but what should I do? Thanks.

2007-12-19 07:41:22 · 26 answers · asked by bluegirl5 4 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy who really really likes me and I mean we're just friends...
So yesterday we had a fight on aim... and it was seriously stupid and he was being immature...
so anyway. he found my number and kept calling over and over again i'd say about 20 times, non stop. and if my mom hadn't answered he would have continued. At school he follows me around... and ALWAYS asks me to hang out.
Frankly... Hes obsessed and i'm scared. he has a mean temper and I'm afraid he may start something drastic... or even hit me...
and theres NO WAY he would have known my phone number I'm a smith, you do the math.

Please help me!

2007-12-19 07:40:45 · 4 answers · asked by mysty_twilight 2 in Friends

So, I've been with him for over 2 years now, and he's been wanting to try anal sex. I've been hesitant b/c I've never tried it, heard it's not healthy, don't want any physical harm nor am I too into it. However, my biggest fear would be things coming out from my anal area when he withdraws.... if you know what I mean... (sorry for being gross!!!)

So, is it possible for things to come out? Should I do it anally?
Please help me?

2007-12-19 07:39:16 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you make out? What turns you on when you do??

2007-12-19 07:37:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been mates with this lass since nursery we weren't very close for a few years. But 2 years ago we became best friends again, all of a sudden she has become all bitchy and always getting me into trouble. She has got a new BFF ('m her BFF aswell) all she does is ***** about her then when they're together she pretends that nothing's wrong. She does it to all her other mates aswell but I'm really annoyed. Any suggestions on how to get my unbitchy best mate back?

2007-12-19 07:35:24 · 13 answers · asked by ellasabell 2 in Friends

If so, please explain and/or provide examples of couples that successfully worked through their problems

2007-12-19 07:27:58 · 10 answers · asked by kidfree 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We argue constantly but we love eachother very much...its kinda bittersweet and we cant do without eachother...any suggestions? and no we dont want counseling..we cant afford that..

2007-12-19 07:23:25 · 18 answers · asked by Mz.ATL 2 in Weddings

don't worry about hurting my feelings, i want to know the honest truth.

I am 17, 5'5" and 145 pounds. I have medium cut and layered wavy blondish-brown hair and green eyes.

I am built well and proportional, have a 36C bra size and I am white with medium-fair skin.

would you consider me pretty or just average? ugly, etc, please tell me why or why not!

2007-12-19 07:22:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should I take it as a good or bad thing that whenever I look at or catch the eye of my crush he doesn't look at me directly, if he does it's only for about a second, or he immediately looks down ?

2007-12-19 07:22:09 · 7 answers · asked by rockyroad 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my husband came home very angry last night b/c of things at work and when I asked him what was wrong he hit me, but when I started to cry he apologized and held me and said he would make it up to me by taking me anywhere I wanted to go. He said we could go out to eat or he could take me to a store and buy me something. I'm so excited b/c I usually don't have this kind of oppurtunity!! I don't know want to ask for too much or else he might not offer this again, you know? But I do want to do something fun or get something nice!!! What should I choose?

P.S.- My husband wasn't really at fault b/c he is taking these drugs right now that I think make him more aggressive.

2007-12-19 07:22:00 · 53 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 07:20:13 · 10 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Singles & Dating