Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

i heard that my buddy britany has had a baby and she has one coming.. i was hoping to find her on myspace or facebook so i could see how shes doing... any other ideas ? how do i find her?

2007-12-19 06:42:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Please pray that my marriage will survive the hardships we have endured... no cheating, abuse, etc... just have grown apart and things have changed between us. he wants a divorce, I would do anything to heal our marriage. Please pray for us.

2007-12-19 06:42:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & I recently married after 1.5 yr dating & 1.5 yr living together. He's divorced but have a 4 yr old son w/ his ex-wife. His ex-wife is being vindictive, using her son to cause trouble because:
+ she's blaming me for not being able to reconciliate w/ her husband after they were separated. They were separated & he date other women before I entered the picture, but since he was dating me when she filed the divorce - I'm to blame :)
+ for taking her place
+ for being nice to her kid, whom is now my stepson too.
+ encourage my husband to be more involve in his kid's life, and make sure he knows his rights - husband can't read English well so he's intimidated by the law + court stuffs.
+ get along with his parents, etc ...

I read numerous Q&A on ex-wife issues & do understand that it's a normal psychologically for her to be jeolous, mean, ... When I was the gf, I just ignore her and let my bf deal with it but now that we're married, what should I do?

2007-12-19 06:42:10 · 7 answers · asked by kwyenie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

(what?! WHAT?!?! how the hell did THAT HAPPEN?!!??) lol

anyway, im really shy about it all, and we kinda (awkwardly) spoke about it afterwards...we 'kinda' agreed since we got exams coming up we should ''hang out'' more first, before we even think about taking it any further...

But with x-mas holidays coming up, and we prob wont even see eachother for...a few weeks...im kinda ''scared'' that her feelings will change....as i really do like her...and then any hope of something ever happening between us wll be gone forever...

hmm...im ''thinking'' of asking her if she wants to go cinema this friday (when we break up)...as me and a few guys are going...and she could bring a few of her friends too....but ...yes im shy!!! lol

good idea?! or not?!? any other advice about anythng i could do...(we chat loads on MSN...and text like almost everyday?!)

P.S. im scared she may stop[ likin me as when she told me she said...''i dont know what im feelin right now...only recently i felt them..

Ty

2007-12-19 06:39:18 · 16 answers · asked by bass player 4 in Singles & Dating

I made a mistake of posting a question last night on religion.
I make it public now and to let you know I have deleted the question. I have earned the respect of the singles and dating, to which I am greatful. Again I say to you all I am so sorry for this mistake. God Bless you all and always be good to youself.

2007-12-19 06:39:06 · 4 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been back together since August, we split for 2 months after he confessed to having an affair with a work collegue. He moved in briefly with her for this short time but realised his mistake and asked to come back. After some discussion i agreed. At first i was ok dealing with it but now i just can't seem to forget the hurt and anger i feel. We have since he came home discussed his affair in depths and tried to figure out what went wrong and to be honest there was nothing. He thinks that it was purely to see if he could still attract the opposite sex and that he went through some mid life crisis. He has openly and honestly answered my questions i ask and i think maybe this has an effect on how i'm feeling maybe its to much info. He admits he has done wrong and asks nearly everyday for my forgiveness which i feel in time i can give him but right i'm so confused. We have been married for 10 years with 2 children.

2007-12-19 06:32:14 · 50 answers · asked by winner2007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 5 years and I have a chapel reserved to get married in a little over a year from now. I'm finishing up college and applying to graduate school while holding down two jobs, so I don't have much free time to devote to wedding plans and it would really help to start soon, but I feel like I shouldn't start planning until everything is official (i.e. until we're engaged). But I don't want to pressure my boyfriend into proposing or ruin any plans he has with my impatience, but at the same time, it seems dishonest for me to hide the pressures I'm beginning to feel from him.

2007-12-19 06:30:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am looking for a person, all I have is the cell number. I have tried findpeople.com, whitepages, yellowpages, zabasearch, 411 and others. But now good answers. How can I find out the address undfer who's name the cell is under. I don know its with cingular and who the cell phone is under. I have paid intuliss with no results. Can any one please help me out here!!!

2007-12-19 06:26:56 · 1 answers · asked by Kitty 1 in Friends

I invited my boyfriend to dinner at my apt. after a long stressful day at work and then holiday shopping i really wanted to get home and spend some time with him and eat a late dinner and he gets a phone call and is on the phone talking about nonsense stuff with a male friend of his. i kept signaling him to hang up so we could eat together and he did after 30 min he then hangs up and accuses me of being overemotional for wanting dinner time to be only him and me

2007-12-19 06:26:22 · 18 answers · asked by lili 3 in Singles & Dating

:)


Wroof.

2007-12-19 06:26:10 · 17 answers · asked by Bumble Bee 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy were kind of seeing each other, we stoped cause of certain things that kept us apart. We are friends now, but I still really really like him ( he has a new gf) I feel like I need to talk to him everyday and I can't get him out of my mind. He recenly got into a car accident and I was going out of my way to make sure he was okay. I have had things happen in my life and he hasn't really been there for me. It really hurts me that I would do these things for him but he wouldn't for me?? I know that I am not on his priority list, but I at least think he could be a good friend. My question is that should I continue being friends with him or just give it up and let it go. And second why doesn he even want to be freinds with me if he treats me kind of like crap?

2007-12-19 06:23:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a question for both sexes. Ladies, did you became less horny after having kids (also, list how many) and gentlemen, did yours do the same and if so, list the reason exact why.

2007-12-19 06:21:21 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married 6 months ago in greece, but we have a greek certificate and now we dont know what to do with it! me and my husband were also thinking about getting a divorce :c( but we dont know how to go about it, scince we dont even know if we are classed as married here! help! can we just leave it and pretend it didnt happen?

2007-12-19 06:20:44 · 18 answers · asked by Gizmo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever noticed that the older you get, the harder it is to just be happy for no reason at all, but just happy with everything. From what I have noticed, little kids are happy the most, it doens't take much, and they can be happy for no reason at all. Don't you wish it was as easy to be happy as it was when you were a kid?

2007-12-19 06:20:33 · 10 answers · asked by stormdog3269 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 06:19:30 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Still on speaking terms and we have a young child. I still love her, but I think it's heading to divorce.

2007-12-19 06:17:38 · 29 answers · asked by tHEwISE 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my now ex wanted me to get pregnant and im 3 months preg. we recently had a big fight and as soon as i went to work he packed up and moved out. weve been together for a year and some months. first he says he loves me, next he says he's not dealing with me again. im confused. should i try to work it out with him or should i just let him be him?

2007-12-19 06:17:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When it comes to marriage, why most Indian Muslims turn a deaf ear to a girl's choice? Although the Quran clearly states that a girl should be given her freedom of choice to pick her life partner, then why most Indian Muslims don't practice this teaching of Quran?

2007-12-19 06:13:47 · 18 answers · asked by billu_bhai 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy I really liked and we dont talk anymore because i said something that really made him mad. i was questioning about his guy friends to test if he really likes me or not(yes i know its stupid and i learned a lesson from it def.). when that happened, i sent him a lot of emails and i apologized and explained how i felt about him but he was still mad at me and never spoke to me ever again..he's a popular dancer and has a lot of fans. but its been months and i cant find anyone like him. do you think i should send him an email on myspace and see hows he doing or what should i do? hes everything i wanted in a guy and i cant find anyone like him. i just atleast wanted to be friends with him again.

2007-12-19 06:10:53 · 6 answers · asked by NeNe 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so a year ago my husband joined the Navy which I am proud of but he came back a different man... He was mean and cold and lazy before he left but Now it just got Worse... I was so happy that I though this was gonna change him but now I see that I was wrong! I feel crappy about myself all the time because I get blamed for everything like I'm stupid or something but deep down I feel like I shouldn't. We have a two year old son and I don't want him to lose his dad but I don't think I can live so far away from everyone and still take all this crap... I know this is wrong but I want to go back home because I feel like there is someone else there for me ....

2007-12-19 06:10:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

tonite will be my3rd date with this really hot girl. she e-mailled me and said tonite's our 3rd date.hahaha. I showed it to a friend and he said she wants sex tonite becouse it the 3rd date. she's a stripper and has had alot of experience with sex. I've only been with about 36 girls my whole life. I'm afraid I won't be able to measure up and she'll think i'm bad in bed. I'm so nervous right now I don't know what to do. Is there any new tricks I could do, to try to impress her. also is there really a 3 date rule.

2007-12-19 06:10:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend let her son's (15) girlfriend (15) spend the night to save gas on a ski trip they were taking the next day. I say it is not good to open that door. It will lead to so much more. she says her mom let her boyfriend sped the night. my mom let my brother go overnight to a different city with his girlfriend. granted in all situations here they slept seperate. I will never do this. so who is right? If u are ok with it at what age should she let her them spend the night together if not now?

2007-12-19 06:09:24 · 11 answers · asked by bitterroot_brats 1 in Family

Okay so yesterday my boyfriend finally kissed me
it was my 1st kiss but he's wayyyyy more experienced than me and today I'm just really nervous about kissing him, like I've kind of been avoiding it but not on purpose :/..because I don't know what he's expecting.

I don't know, how can I stop being so nervous about it??

2007-12-19 06:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by aquariusvchs 3 in Singles & Dating

cheat on business trips? how many of you dont? should i let these trips bother me or be worried about them?

2007-12-19 06:07:59 · 14 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wanted to know who is getting married on June 7, 2008?

2007-12-19 06:07:38 · 26 answers · asked by butterflyblue1979 3 in Weddings

my boyfriend and i used to have sex about 8 times a day everyday, and that was 3 years ago.... we are still having just as much sex... and it is still exciting and tons of new stuff we have been trying,...... and it has been feeling so good..... (WELL FOR HIM!!!!!!!!!!) For some reason my boyfriend cant seem to keep his penis hard for as long as he used to.... it no longer stays up long enough to get me to ***..... I was just wondering if anyone might know why? Could there be something wrong? And does weed have any affect on that? Cuz he went for like a year where that was all he did! He is only 27 so I am not sure what could be causing this..... if anyone knows... please let me know. lol.... thanks a bunch!!

2007-12-19 06:04:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i was friends w/ this girl, and then she got a boyfriend and i became friends with him, and then he dumped her! im still friends w/ both of them, but its hard cuz neither of them like each other!! i also think i might be starting to like the guy, and i dont know wut to do about it!!

2007-12-19 06:04:12 · 4 answers · asked by Geekyweirdboylovaa 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is my thing. My husband doesnt like doing a whole lot of socializing w/ me if he gets invited to a cookout or something he doesnt invite me then he says I am stuck up b/c when i do see some of his friends at partys or etc that I dont go up and start conversating with them so he just leaves me by myself doesnt introduce me to anyone unless I walk up to him. I am not a model but I look good I take care of myself and wont leave the house w/ out looking presentable. From a mans perspective why is it that he doesnt like showing me off another words inviting me to go w/ him to be sociable. He makes me feel like he is ashamed of me at times I hope thats not the case please tell me its a man thing. He also wont take me to a place where there will be other women b/c he thinks I will get mad or get jealous. I am pretty easy to get along w/ but if another woman was hitting on him i would have to stick my claws into her.

2007-12-19 06:03:57 · 9 answers · asked by hotmoma1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this question is for mature women holding it down, taking care of their children, home etc. being that im a young women starting out i wanted to make sure that im doing all the things that makes my family happy including myself. please feel free to give me any tips of motherhood, being a good wife and taking care of my children. i no longer have a night life but i dont want to go insane sitting at home not knowing what i should do. please help...

2007-12-19 06:02:43 · 12 answers · asked by KAT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this holiday season. Kinda happy about it and then kinda sad. Life seem to be always bitter sweet.

2007-12-19 06:01:21 · 13 answers · asked by emtandfire 2 in Singles & Dating