(what?! WHAT?!?! how the hell did THAT HAPPEN?!!??) lol
anyway, im really shy about it all, and we kinda (awkwardly) spoke about it afterwards...we 'kinda' agreed since we got exams coming up we should ''hang out'' more first, before we even think about taking it any further...
But with x-mas holidays coming up, and we prob wont even see eachother for...a few weeks...im kinda ''scared'' that her feelings will change....as i really do like her...and then any hope of something ever happening between us wll be gone forever...
hmm...im ''thinking'' of asking her if she wants to go cinema this friday (when we break up)...as me and a few guys are going...and she could bring a few of her friends too....but ...yes im shy!!! lol
good idea?! or not?!? any other advice about anythng i could do...(we chat loads on MSN...and text like almost everyday?!)
P.S. im scared she may stop[ likin me as when she told me she said...''i dont know what im feelin right now...only recently i felt them..
Ty
2007-12-19 06:39:18 · 16 answers · asked by bass player 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
agh! sounds a little chaotic. you said u two talk a lot on msn?
and text.
so wht's the problem?
at least u're not a whole grade higher than her even tho practically the same age...and the semester u had a nutrition class with her ended this monday...and u won't see her till january in which she likes somebody else or at least doesn't really like you or is making u mucho confused..
ugh!!
my bad. i have a tendency to talk about my crap a lot..
first of all, i'm guessing ur'e in high school? yeah. same.
anyway.
BEING SHY IS NOT NECESSARILY A BAD THING.
lmao i wish the guy i liked was a little shyer XD
at least around me T.T
-.-
but still. it doesn't really matter if you're shy..and u both know each other prettygood since u talk a lot.
but i don't get it.
'hang out' more? don't u already? i mean, personally, i prefer talking to face to face with anyone rather than on the phone.
it's less awkward. plus it's just more comfortable.
well, i'm hoping the movie thing works out good, and if u think she likes you, she probably does. i'm not speaking for her, NO WAY, but i guess that's what i could say. if i didn't like a guy i would clearly state that (although it may be hard..even for me) i don't share the same feelings.
not that that kind of situation has ever occurred in my life..
but even tho i have ZERO experience in guys and dating,
i'm not dumb.
i can see thru reactions and the way people act in general.
and see how things work out with my friend's boy.
*sigh*
URGHH!!! and GRR!!
i'm getting so off-topic..
-_-'
i'm sre..
but YESS!!! that's a GREAT IDEA!!
i realize i hadn't really answered the question until just now..
i guess i've just been trying to prove that i can/not relate to what goin on with u..
i'm a little insecure like that..
*couch*
wth?
i mean *cough*
yeah, because we all just yell "COUCH!" for absolutely no reason whatsoever..
anyway i really do hope things work out with you and her :D
if it doesn't, PLEASE!
please remember that you can still be friends.
i just realized i don't know the type of person u are,
but right now some of my freshman friends are having pretty big issues on handling attitude..so once that little flame sparks, "EFFING B*TCH!!" just bounces off the walls of the school...
yeah..
they're weird and immature like that..
and they can't even take things lightly or ignore small things on purpose or by accident..
so now i'm torn in the middle..
but not really..
cuz i kinda don't really care anymore..
T.T
however
i realize again i am wasting your time.
i'm not sure if u like random girls taht can't even answer a direct freaking question without explaining her philosophical crap and ideas in her head, also..
sorry!
:O
:D
2007-12-19 06:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by »»Curious¹«« 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to is ask her upfront about you and how she feels. I understand how awkward this might be for you i have gone through the same thing. Just be brave ab=nd make the first move. if she lets you down then whatever. but if she says she has strong feelings for you too then there you go. oh and by the way, i think you should ask her to go to the cinema with you and friends this is so you wont be as nervous but tell her how you feel you will be glad you did.
2007-12-19 06:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say, give it a try.. the worst she can do is say no, and never speak to you again lol, but i doubt that will happen, maybe shes a little shy too, trust me being shy gets you nowhere, yes its difficult to just come out and ask her, but it's worth it, and if she gets upset with you, dont sweat it, there are plenty more out there, im sure she'll accept i mean its not going to be just the two of you alone, should be fine ..good luck (",)
2007-12-19 06:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tarryn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does like you, and its sounds like she does, then her feelings aren't going to change in a matter of weeks.
Plus I wouldn't worry about her saying she doesn't know what she's feeling right now, i've said that to a guy before and it usually just means that I have stuff on my mind, not necessarily anything relating to the guy himself.
Above all, dont worry about it. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't. Worrying about it will just make you crazy!
2007-12-19 06:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kate M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A similar thing is happening to me at the moment, we were gunna wait and go out after we finished school but i really can't wait and wanna ask her now, so i'm asking her out on new years eve. I think the sooner the better mate.
Glad i could be of help.
2007-12-19 06:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Azzamoto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first piece of advice is .... RELAX!! if she likes you now shes gonna like you in a few weeks. i say get in as much time as possible and the movies is a good place to do it. if you want this relationship then you gotta push for it whether your shy or not. SO stop useing shyness as an excuse. Put yourself out there.... you never know unless you try.
2007-12-19 06:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by slakster510 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since its Xmas u could give her a gift. maybe a chain with a ring. and the cinema thing seems cute. and it OK to feel shy.
2007-12-19 06:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're gonna break up but then ask her out?!!!! Sorry bein silly.
Don't let a good opportunity pass especially if you really like her,go on go for it
2007-12-19 06:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lor24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Ask her to the cinema with your friends. If she does stop liking you, then don't worry. There are hundreds of other girls out there, she just wasn't one that you'll date.
2007-12-19 06:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the normal fears of the relationship game.............welcome aboard!!
2007-12-19 06:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋