i was friends w/ this girl, and then she got a boyfriend and i became friends with him, and then he dumped her! im still friends w/ both of them, but its hard cuz neither of them like each other!! i also think i might be starting to like the guy, and i dont know wut to do about it!!
2007-12-19 06:04:12 · 4 answers · asked by Geekyweirdboylovaa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I have and it's never fun. My roomate and best friend from college was dating a guy who I had a huge friendly connection with. When they broke up I didn't see him for awhile, though my roomate was cool enough that she never expected me to choose sides. I am still friends with both him and her and it ended up working out once the awkward, rocky period was over. So, try your best to be friends with both. Hopefully, your friends are as cool as mine were and let it happen.
Good luck to you.
2007-12-19 06:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tried this, and it didn't work out. I started out as friends with the guy. Then I became friends with his girlfriend. They broke up. The girl explained the situation to me rationally, whereas the guy blamed her for everything and said it was all her fault. I told him what I knew about the situation and what my perspective was, and he never spoke to me again because I sided with her.
She and I are still friends, even though we live a thousand miles apart. I haven't spoken to him since.
Try your best. My advice would be not to get involved with the guy unless you want to lose the girl for good. Don't take sides, don't engage in bashing, and just tell them you want to be friends and not have to pick and choose. It may work itself out, as mine did, or you may find yourself with two friends instead of one (or none).
2007-12-19 14:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate that situation. You just have to let them both know that you would still prefer to be friends with both of them.
Just make it clear what your intentions are. One of them might think you are waiting next in line to date the person.
2007-12-19 14:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show loyalty and stick with the person you feel closer to. You don't have to be mean to the other person but you won't be as close as before
2007-12-19 14:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by The Simpson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋