Family & Relationships - 19 December 2007

what was your groom's cake? how do you pick design? who eats it? do you like either of these groom's cakes.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/theladygloom/1774089329/

http://www.flickr.com/photos/varf/196001502/

You like this cake topper?

http://www.flickr.com/photos/gir_interrupted/2081702292/

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2007-12-19 07:18:39 · 22 answers · asked by misscamillabutterfly 3 in Weddings

Ive always been one of those people who loved love... silly i know.

But do guys like it when the girl is romantic? I mean i always get cool ideas for things to do... And i have done a few things like ive gotten my boyfriend flowers lol .... set up a romantic dinner, i decorated his room one valentines with roses and a few balloons and a gift basket i made. Is that too much or do guys appreciate when a girl does things like that for them?

2007-12-19 07:16:52 · 10 answers · asked by MiSS.RANDOMNESS♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

The following item was in a global round-up of silly things that have happened worldwide, in 2007!

A US man who ordered flowers for his mistress sued the florists after they sent a note to his home thanking him for his order -- thereby informing his wife of his infidelity.

2007-12-19 07:15:11 · 22 answers · asked by jet-set 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it the way we smile or playing hard to get or just the way you feel when you are around us...just wondering...

2007-12-19 07:14:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy that i sort of have a thing for, but i think he has a girlfriend. we're kinda friends, and we talk sometimes. now recently i've found that everywhere i go at school, i see him. i feel like he thinks i'm a stalker or something. but i swear it has to be a coincidence because i just follow my regular routine, and i see him in a class we have every other day. i don't go out of my way to look for him or anything.

i don't want him to think i'm weird.
am i overreacting?
or why is he now showing up everywhere? could it be i just never noticed before?

2007-12-19 07:14:52 · 10 answers · asked by me 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 07:11:18 · 40 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2 in Singles & Dating

so I helped her pack her bags, was this nice of me, almost a gentleman like manner?

2007-12-19 07:09:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

With a girl....

2007-12-19 07:07:33 · 8 answers · asked by Moriarti 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 07:07:01 · 25 answers · asked by gapeach 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 07:06:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

tell me about the best christmas you've ever had, wen was it, how u felt , u noe wat u did stuff like that.... happpy holidayyss
and thanks to everyone who answers!!!!!!

:]

2007-12-19 07:05:45 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ 4 in Family

I have known this man since we were kids crushing on one another. We lost contact over the years and both married and had children. He got a hold of me about 11 months ago and things got crazy. I'm not even sure how it got to the point that it is now but here it is: We are having a full blown affair. Both of us have tried to end it but we get pulled right back in. I am leaving my husband very soon and my husband knows this. The affair guy says he wants to leave his wife but hasn't taken any steps out of fear. I want out of my marraige reagradless of what this other man does but I can't be the women on side forever. Every time I tell him this and tell him to leave me alone until he figuers out what he wants to do he calls me a day or two later crying and confessing his undying love, saying he can't live without me. And I get sucked right back in. I want to hear from men who have been this guy. Tell me what you think.

2007-12-19 07:04:56 · 37 answers · asked by I know EVERYTHING! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm really weight conscience and i always worry that guys wont like me if I'm fat... I'm 5ft 7in and weigh 120, does mean im fat?

2007-12-19 07:04:53 · 23 answers · asked by alcohol_my_ANTI-drug 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister has a problem with her ex hsuband stalking her and have already vandalized her car. Sometimes she can call me on her cell phone and then he would call and ask me questions like he heard our whole conversation. Is that possible, please let me know? The things that we discuss are secretive and he basicaaly was upset and repeated the whole conversation. If this is possible, what can be done about the situation. I am really afraid for her life and we do not talk anymore on the phone.

2007-12-19 07:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by Single123 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if i like to play with kids and i am 16.i spent my money in buying toys.my younger sister is 15 and she dosen't like all this.and other my elder sister is 17 and she also dosent like to paly with kids.

2007-12-19 07:00:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im 14 and im taking my GCSE's so i am very stressed.
My mum and dad are lovely but very demanding and always ask me to do things and its not always because i cant be bothered its just i dont reerally want to but sometimes i cant be bothered. they always ask me to do boring things like get the washing and hang it out and then get more down, out it in the washer put it on and then go and get all the things off the airer, pair socks ect. up and then put them all away . . ive got a big house too so it tajes me ages!!

im not stubborn or stuck up i just want to want to be able to do things for my parents with out creatinga fuss and crying which make them feel bad which means i feel bad and i hate it!!
My friends dont do any jobs for their mum and dad and i just feel really like i wish i were them.
please help me on calming down and not getting mad with my parents and making everything pear shaped! and also how to enjoy doing jobs!!

THANK-YOU!!

xxx

2007-12-19 06:59:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anouska 1 in Family

We have been together for 6 years and been married 2. When I married him I didn't know about this. Then I slowly started finding out bits and pieces. He has a huge porn addiction. To the point that I will be in the other rrom waiting for him to come to bed and hes to busy doing other things. Other times he will wake up early to get him self off.... And he knows how much it hurts me. But he still does it all the time. He told me he would stop and promised me that he deleted all of it.... a month later there it was again. Needless to say this is the 7 or 8th time I have found him going at it. And then he will lie about it right to my face. I no longer trust him, I don't look at him in the same way and honestly I don't know why Im still in this marriage. How can I trust that tings will change. He chooses the computer over me just about everyday.

Honestly I don't want a divorce. I married him saying for better or worse, so what would you do if you were me?

2007-12-19 06:59:24 · 35 answers · asked by crazy_cat_lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 06:56:37 · 31 answers · asked by nvsweets2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 06:55:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend is getting married in a month. It's an arranged marriage, but her fiance is really really hot! For some reason, she doesn't want to marry him, because she likes this other dood who I really despise. He's not even that nice or cute. I guess she's just upset because it is an arranged marriage.I just don't understand. I mean, her would be husband is really sweet.

2007-12-19 06:55:26 · 15 answers · asked by Navya 2 in Weddings

my friend is very very down and feels very low at the moment. i really don't know what to do to help her, because she has a few problems that i can do nothing to help her with. i feel its out of my control but i want to make her feel better so much. i always talk to her and tell her i love her, she has so many amazing friends but....what can i do? please help. x

2007-12-19 06:54:36 · 12 answers · asked by bluebird 2 in Friends

I get in divorce i just want to know if i can keep my ex husband last name, because all of my documets have his last name

2007-12-19 06:53:58 · 32 answers · asked by gilda y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

3 weeks after knowing eachother, this girl and I became boyfriend and girlfriend, she wanted to have sex already but I refused to so I won't expose myself to STDs, I wanted to do a check before anything. Now on the 5th week we're not together anymore....I haven't had sex in 4 years and I'm 20 years old, should I had done it with her? I was trying to take it slow.

2007-12-19 06:53:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have friends' parents who have been married for over 30 years. Some of them now sleep in separate bedrooms. Some of them still sleep in the same bedroom, but go to sleep at different hours. Are those things normal, or are they signs that there is no more love in the marriage?

2007-12-19 06:52:46 · 18 answers · asked by introversive_guy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-19 06:51:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 22 years old and im haveng my first baby i been with my wife for about 3 years . heres the thing im scard i m happy that im going to be a dad but i have no money not enouf to suport a baby . and my wife isnt working .she is goin to school for phleobotamy . and wont be done till after the baby comes. im not sure wat to do . i am glad that ill be a dad . and i love my wife but we are having some problems (on the past OUR past) so that is making me even more worried . it seems like me and her will be ok as long as we let the past go. but im just very nerves right now . . so i know i realy didnt ask a Q but does any body have any advise for me . kid and relationship wise . especialy money wise

2007-12-19 06:49:36 · 19 answers · asked by Scott R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok..I am 34 about 5'7 and have a nice figure and get a lot of compliments from guys about the way I look but they don't even ever ask me out or even talk to me.It's always been like that for me.When I first meet a guy,he doesn't know anything about me,so it's not like that the whole virgin thing is turning him off.They won't even give it a chance to know me.I have this good guy friend who knows about me.He says I don't know what the problem is with guys,are they blind or something!Why do I feel like I am always being avoided and people put me down because of my morals and values.Is there anyone anymore that's not going to be mean to me about it?

2007-12-19 06:47:06 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 22 and she 23, for the last 3 days my wife has cut off complete contact from me. She has not let me see my child or even said that she is ok since Monday. She has not returned any phone calls, any text, and when i come to her house nobody answers the door. The last time i went i heard my daughter playing with toys but nobody answered. Even the local police came because somebofy reported that i might be breaking into the house.This all stem from a disagreement we had because i didnt want to pay extra child support for daycare because she lost her job and couldnt make the half payments so she wanted me to pay the whole bill and i couldnt do it. So instead i offered to watch my daughter for the days that i needed to pay extra. She refuses saying that my daughter couldnt spend the night. My daughter is18monthsand is happy to see me. that it wou But her mother says im suspicious like I abused my kid or will abduct her when i have done neithe

2007-12-19 06:47:04 · 24 answers · asked by ace82 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Can I get my money back from the Dancers?

2007-12-19 06:46:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-19 06:45:04 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating