Is this normal for a guy to act this way when he knows you like him??
Okay there is this guy he use to always talk, smile, stare at me alot. it was obvious to everyone that he liked me. He would sometimes just stare at me out of no where and people with catch him doing it. Well...I think this guy knows i like him back. Now he is acting all wierd. LIke he still smiles and look at me alot. He just won't talk to me as much anymore. LIke he will be right behind me or something with all of his other friends and his friends will just look at me. The guy that i like use to always smile and flirt with me alot. Now he just looks at me and smiles and doesnt say anything amymore. Is this unusual?? Or does alot of guys do this when they're shy? I think he might be shy but i really dont know. WHAT ARE SOME OF YOU ADVICE??? Do you think he still likes me but shy?
2007-12-19 07:58:46 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess he liked chasing you better than getting you.
2007-12-19 08:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by The Chosen One 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well let me ask you something... since you found out that he likes you and you like him back.. have you taken him asside away from everyone else and talked to him?
Perhaps now that he and you are both aware. He is worried that it might have messed things up with you... Friendship or otherwise.
If I were you I would take the shy boy by the hand and smile and flirt like usual infront of your friends.... but.. find a time... when you are kinda alone .. and just say "We need to talk.. when's a good time for you?"
Or don't even say that and just make alone time happen and ask him.. yes guys might be shy when they relise it might be more then it first started out to be.
They are scared of many things from being rejected to being made a fool (thats why the alone time is a big factor). Make him know that everything is ok.. and if your feelings are the same as his.. then tell him...
If not... then at least let him know that your friendship is solid and he has nothing to fear when it comes to that.
One last suggestion... some guys may put out that they like you.. some guys like to be the ones that comes to you... but some guys.. especailly the shy ones... will wait for you to come to them... and talk and such.
Well that is all that I have.. I really hope this works out for you.
P.S. Be happy you have smiles comming your way...even that for a girl is .. Good luck :)
2007-12-19 08:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kayami 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like everyone is saying ask him! If you want, ask him out to a movie or get tickets to a concert and see if he wants to go or a bar. How does he make you feel and is it worth all this time being alone wondering if he likes you??? But don't get hung up on a guy for to long sometimes there are weird guys out there who have other things in mind. The one way I was able to find a really good man out of many weird ones is "Do I want to have children with this man?" and always trust yourself.
2007-12-19 08:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This exact thing has happened to me. OK now listen close, this may not be easy to read. He probably liked you for real, then his buddies noticed and teased him about it. They probably talked him out of it, so he still smiles and looks at you bc some of those feelings are still there, but he is telling himself to get over it. First thing i did was go straight to him and talk about it. I called him out on his cowardice, and for letting his friend's opinions run his life. HUGE MISTAKE. The last thing a guy wants or finds attractive is some girl bringing him down, making him feel like less of a man, and taking control. You need to play it cool, go flirt with some other guy in front of him, move on, be happy and playful with everyone (especially his friends hahahahah). Don't be vicious, or slutty, but be yourself and enjoy life. If he doesn't come around then he wasn't worth your time, but if he really does like you, he will come around ;-) . Hope that helps!!! and i Hope you get the guy!
2007-12-19 08:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is probably just a little shy. Try talking to him more often. Don't wait for him to talk to you. You may miss out on a great guy because you waited for him to make a move instead of doing it yourself. Tell him you want to go out sometime. He will respect that. Nothing like a girl that takes charge of a situation like this. Very attractive.
2007-12-19 08:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
as i guy all tell you he was not getting the response from you that he was looking for with the flirts but guys want more somethin more concrete flirting only last awhile but if he feels hes not getting the response like"i like you alot" response he will just give up like its a lost cause. gather your thought and get over the whole guy has to ask me crap and write him a letter about how you feel (or in person)..... maybe one of his friends caught him being a pussy aka "being flirty and girly" so now they give him crap.. so i say put ur self out there and see what happens the worst is he says he over it and sure it will hurt for a moment but if hes agrees with you then u get a relationship that can last for how ever long it works
2007-12-19 08:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Guys always do that. It's so wierd. They get all shy. Try and make conversation. Ask to study with you or something. Do something friend wise. He'll ask you out when he's ready. P.S. Guy's always get shy and mean to the girl he likes when there with there friends.
2007-12-19 08:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're in a sticky situation! Guys can be so confusing sometimes, just gotta learn how to understand them. Which isn't either. To me it sounds like he definitely is the shy type. Not all guys are the type that they will go up to a girl and let her know exactly how he feels. My advice to you is to quit this foolish "I saw you looking at me, you saw me looking at you" game and just go up to him and be the brave one, ask him out!! You only live once and there is no sense in playing games to get something you want, unless that is what you want, lol. Good luck.
2007-12-19 08:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I might be wrong here,but maybe he still likes you,he just ran out of flirty things to say and do?Maybe he wants you to make the next move.It could also be that he is worried about what people(his friends,especially) are saying.I think you should ask him,what's up.Or maybe you could ask him if he would like to go see a movie or something.The ball is in your court,so make a move,but don't worry about what he says,because he is after all just a boy!
2007-12-19 08:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by CC 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, first... don't be so impatient! Good lord. Your question is not at the top of everyone's to do list.
Second... He could be shy... or he could just be playing hard to get. Maybe hes emberrased to flirt infront of his friends? Send him a note with your number on it. If hes interested, he'll call you when hes home and its private. If not, its okay.. there are plenty more out there
2007-12-19 08:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. N™ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people probably won't answer this because it's kind of a childish question. but to answer it, he probably likes you and just feels more shy now that he knows you like him too. or he could like another girl and isn't interested in you anymore. that could be likely. when a guy finds another girl he likes a lot he might not have interest in flirting with someone else.
2007-12-19 08:03:06 · answer #11 · answered by GIRL 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋