I have been mates with this lass since nursery we weren't very close for a few years. But 2 years ago we became best friends again, all of a sudden she has become all bitchy and always getting me into trouble. She has got a new BFF ('m her BFF aswell) all she does is ***** about her then when they're together she pretends that nothing's wrong. She does it to all her other mates aswell but I'm really annoyed. Any suggestions on how to get my unbitchy best mate back?
2007-12-19 07:35:24 · 13 answers · asked by ellasabell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to her about it. or suggest a new topic, like if she strts saying, (insert name here) was sooo cool the other day, say, oh. really. well, did u (insert topic here)
or just wiat, she if she changes. try to make friends with her OTHER BFF,
if non of htis works, she will eventually just be a friend, and u'll move on
2007-12-19 07:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure about the whole story, maybe there's more to it. But I think that there might be something going on. Maybe its a family issue, nerves, stress, or simply just peer pressure by another group of people she's trying to impress.... *shrug* try and get her alone, just the two of you and talk to her about it. Ask her why she's changed and tell her you miss the way you used to hang out. It may work, it may not. Whats the harm right?
2007-12-19 07:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by MJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way is to talk to her. Tell her you miss her and are wondering what's going on. Ask her if there is something happening in her life that she needs to talk about. Lots of people act out when they are stressed, and/or bothered. Just make sure you approach her gently and as a friend instead of tossing accusations.... she may lash if she feels cornered or accused.
2007-12-19 07:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by ☆ Spharoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to here she's like that- and I don't know if anything you can do will change her attitude. You might want to sit down and talk to her to see what's up and causing this. I personally wouldn't feel safe with a friend like that, knowing they could possibly be talking about me behind my back. But I would definitely try to talk to her first and if she doesn't want to change, she's not worth your time.
2007-12-19 07:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would be better off without the BBF but if you want her then you gotta tell her what a B she has been and if she is a true friend she will see she has hurt you if she does not then you need another BF.
2007-12-19 07:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by datsleather 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down and have a talk with her to find out the problem....
2007-12-19 07:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by ♥L@dee Bee♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend SHAPANKWATANK is like that. UGH that girl gets on my nerve!! well this is what i do.... i go tell that mutha ***** biach whats killing ya.! and then SLAP, HIT, KICK, CHOKE her. possibly kill!!!
2007-12-19 07:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor :]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep,....that's happening with my best friend too....u better try and talk with her about it and tell her what is your problem and what is annoying you
2007-12-19 07:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet she talks about you when she is with the other friend, I would dump her,,,,,,,,
2007-12-19 07:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Judy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to cut ties with her. she's talking sh!t about you behind your back to. and you know it.
2007-12-19 07:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by Saly L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋