ok... so i jus got a new bf like on dec 12. i love him sooo.... much and everything but i am moving. he told me that he wasnt going to break up with me. and i said i wont break up with you either. but now that i am thinking about it i wont get to see him anymore and i will barely ever get to talk to him so i dont know wether or not to break up with him..... WAT SHOULD I DO??????
2007-12-19 09:52:37 · 33 answers · asked by Kaitlyn A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i will be living an hour away from him....
2007-12-19 09:59:07 · update #1
Most love affairs take more than six days to grow, from the spark of attraction to the flames of passion to the dull, steady glow when you are both 80 and looking back over 57 years spent sharing life's tribulations and triumphs together.
You seem to be the exception. True love has bloomed, and now it will wither. You can either kill yourself or become a nun. Any man you meet for the rest of your life will be duller by comparison, a cheap bit of glass compared to the diamond you have now, a peanut-butter sandwich compared to the 12-course meal of the BF you love soooo much.
Sorry. Life is like that.
2007-12-19 10:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am having a hard time with how you can love someone so much after 7 days. And if you knew you were going to move why did you bother getting involved with someone. But as for your question it is best to just tell him the truth that you and he will never be able to see each other so why pretend wish him luck and both of you should move on
2007-12-19 09:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by trick1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is better to just say to him you have to see what happens you should break up with him because you won't be able to see him or talk to him to much and it is unfair to leave him hanging, Life deals the cards we just play um the best we can So it is really up to you how you feel about it all but eventually you will see that breaking up might be best and if youe paths cross again and the love is there it will come again
best wishes
2007-12-19 09:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by Hulagirl96734 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been together a week and your "sooooo in love?" Go ahead and move. Make a plan for communicating once or twice a day and see what happens. You don't have to break up before you move. Odds are that things will probably fade away on their own.
2007-12-19 09:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Q-mama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all due respect, you don't seem to have a firm grasp of the concepts of love and time. December 12th was exactly one week ago--hardly long enough to forge any sort of serious relationship.
From your typing, I would guess you're likely too young to get the entire point of what true love is anyway. Give it a few years.
2007-12-19 10:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Danagasta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and let him know that you would love to stay together but you do have to be smart about this and know that it might not work out the way you'd both like, not seeing each other and what not....its really hard! just see how it goes for the first month or so and go from there, just make sure you always talk and share your true feelings!
2007-12-19 09:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by PETEPUMA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are tough!! Unless you are able to travel freely to see one another and have the funds to talk on the phone often then it can be next to impossible. Just leave things as friends - you never know when paths will cross again.
2007-12-19 09:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by PS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far awy are you moving? If it's only a few miles then you could make it work. At a young age, though, long distance relationships are hard. I'd say write and email each other at first, but if you find it hard don't leave him hanging.
2007-12-19 09:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't break up with him because usually long distance relationships just fizzle out on their own. Especially if you guys are young. Just take it day by day. I have a hunch that it will fizzle out. So why create extra turmoil?
2007-12-19 09:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are going to miss him sooo much to keep in touch and u should say that its hard for you to do this but brake up with him. unless u know u can keep a long distance relationship
2007-12-19 09:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by Tati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋