A few weeks ago my mum said she does not know what she is doing for xmas, Usually she goes out to dinner with my nan and grandad But for some unknown reason they have not planned anything and not spoken atall about it, I said If its ok with my hubby maybe they could all come round mine for xmas dinner as long as I speak to him first, Well hubby said no as he would like time with his family Ie me and kids(As he works very hard) So would like time with us, All of a sudden my mother had found somewhere for her to go and could not give two hoots about my nan and grandad even though they have been going out to dinner as long as I can remember, My husband this week then really felt sorry for my grandparents who are 87 years old and have now invited them which I did not no I told my mum she got nasty on phone 3 days ago I told her to F off I know I shouldnt of and we slammed phone down on each other, So now we have not spoken in 3 days, Am I in wrong
2007-12-19 10:11:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
they have never seen eye to eye I do know that much but I love them all the same.
2007-12-19 10:16:20 · update #1
This time I cant apologize as I am always the one to back down, My mum has a way of controlling every one on a guilt trip Like you dont love me very emotinal person in that respect, This is the first time we have had a BIG row like this and I feel guilty and I shouldnt.
2007-12-19 10:21:49 · update #2
I think there's something going on between your mom and your grandparents that you don't know about.
2007-12-19 10:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by goodgirlsweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way, honey. Swearing at your mum is never right, I understand the problem, tough. Has your mum had problems with your nan and grandad that you don't know about ?
As it's Christmas, it would be good if you made the first move towards reconciliation, by getting in touch and apologising. Send flowers? Maybe you can sort out the deal with your nan and grandad. Hope this helps.
2007-12-19 10:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by SKCave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call your mom and apologize, even if you aren't completely in the wrong. Also, you and your hubby did the right thing by inviting your grandparents. You will NEVER regret doing that. Also, don't gossip about your mom or your grandparents to each other. Stay nuetral. That way nothing can come back to haunt you. Good luck with the holidays.
2007-12-19 10:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by annamauria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋