How To Get Her More Involved?

Question

Im 14 and my gurl is 13 and we have a 9 month old son together and throughout the week we each take turns watching him so well for the past 2 and a half weeks i been watching him more than usual i already gave the little speech that hes both of ours but nothings getting through i told her that she needs to start acting like hes both of ours and for maybe about a day or two she was taking care of him more but now shes gone back to leaving him with me most of the week, like now hes at my house and she is at her house im getting real frustrated what else can i tell her so she can be more involved.

Answer 1

LOl deal with it, no offense but your kids having kids what you thought you were grown-up? HAHAHAHAH what you thought just because you can screw makes you a father? MAUHAHHAHA or that just because she can have a kiddo that she can be a mother hahahhahaha o god help me thats just oooo jesus's love a duck this is just to rich. Maybe if you tell her you'll get her parents to ground her? Or watt, I got it, YOU ACT LIKE AN F'IN MAN AND AMIT THAT UNLESS YOU GUYS ACCEPT THAT YOUR IGNORANT KIDDOS AND NEED HELP YOUR SCREWED!!!!!!!! I hate our thugish cultural bs and our f'in punk generation, think just because your mad about something that your represent something then you do stupid stuff like this and pretend the problem is the other person. Dude you don't represent crap, your just a little kid who made the stupidest mistake in that kids life and now you can't even see how to do this right, again you need help, councillors, guidance, and my god to grow-up. This little your turn, my turn bs proves it, like a butch of kids fight over whos turn it is to feed the darn dog, grow-up..... sad part is, your a good reflection of relationships people have 20 years older then you, but some where I thought you were smarter then everyone else, I guess that was just a frist impression, really more ignorant.... but yoru to young to talk honestly with each other, so no way to fix this, you guys need people outside the relationship to direct towards the right path, becuase dumb-butt, your not done growing yet, and diffently neither is she, accept that and act accordinly....