I have two best friends, which I can now see isn't the best thing in the world. My one friend, Let's call her Maggie, and I have been friends for about four years. In fifth grade me and "Maggie" met my other best friend, let's call her Julie. Well ever since last year "Maggie" has been almost obsessed with "Julie" every single day it's, "do you know where julie is? were you talking to her last night?" and on and on. one day me and julie were out sick and i was texting my friend and maggie was with her so she takes the phone and says "is julie ok?" closely followed by "are you with her?" she's constantly thinking i'm with julie instead of her. and recently it's been annoying. she doesn't seem to care about me at all and she makes me feel like crap. she's an airhead so you cant just not talk to her and expect her to know what she did like other people, she needs you to spell it out for her. what should i do?
2007-12-19 10:13:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
HxC, haha, that really is funny and i'd consider it if we weren't 13 and she has a crush on a different guy every week
2007-12-19 10:25:33 · update #1
Obviously you are all fairly young... so to start with honesty. Airhead or not you should tell Maggie that you feel uncomfortable being in the middle, if she wants to know something about Julie she should ask Julie. If she doesn't work on this then don't answer her Julie questions, if you want to continue speaking to her just move on to a new topic. It's never easy being a thrid wheel, I wish you good luck.
2007-12-19 10:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by velvetca1972 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like Maggie is maybe a little bit jealous of Julie. Perhaps Maggie wants only you as a best friend or as another answerer wrote maybe Maggie is jealous because you are also close to Julie and she sees it as a threat to her somehow. At any rate I think I would get with her and ask her point blank what's going on and that you like both of them equally. If she takes offense at this then maybe she isn't the friend you thought she was. Okay that's my two cents on this one. Like I've said before you never ask the easy ones. Keep it up gal.
2007-12-19 11:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't know how you feel and she might not even notice what she's doing, surley if your best friends you can talk to her some how, ask if you can speak alone and tell her exactly how you feel. If that doesn't work speak to your other friend and talk to her about it.
Hope you work things out
Good luck (: x
2007-12-19 10:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl i had the same problem! with one girl would always call my house looking for the other girl and would never want to talk to me! she would ignore me and would never ask me to chill :/ i say you tell her how your feeling without sounding jealous, i didnt and they both ditched me so i had no one. i hope everything works out :) good luck
2007-12-19 10:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is a lesbian and is just afraid to admit it to you guys
2007-12-19 10:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhm.... spell it out for her.
2007-12-19 11:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋