okay so my really good guy friend told me a longg time ago that he liked me i didnt feel the same at first but now i do. and i like him alot. but i dont know how to tell him.. like do i just come out and say it? or do i hint around it? or do i start a random convo and lead up to it? or what?!?! help?!
2007-12-19 09:48:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is also really really shy....?
2007-12-19 09:53:29 · update #1
Well....this can be a weird situation b/c you know that he USED to like you and you don't know if he still feels that way. You need to flirt a little bit and beat around the bush and see how he reacts. If you get the vibe that he like you then you go from there. If he looks like he's weirded out then most probably he's over you. You can maybe invite him over to watch a movie and then slowly put your head on his shoulder. Or maybe ask him out to a movie and sit really close to him. Basically you need to make some kind of physical contact for him to realize that you might be into him. If you see that he's into it then you can gradually say..."how come we never got together?". I know it sounds like you're putting yourself out there, but you turned this guy down initially so you have to be very clear that you like him now. I hope that he still likes you and has only hid his crush to maintain a friendship with you. If that's the case then he's going to be soooooooo happy that you came around. Be honest and brave. Good Luck!
2007-12-19 09:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Good Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he already said he was romantically interested in you, then feel free to invite him on a date some time. Believe me, he'll get the hint..hence the word DATE. That way you don't have to come right out and say it or throw out hints.
2007-12-19 17:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the exact same thing happened to me.
he might still like you. just come right up and say it,
if he doesn't like you that way, he could at least be
a great friend and pretend nothing happened,
so you could still act the way you do now.
if that made sense..
well if you do try that, then good luck. things worked out with me and my friend, we're still great pals even tho he didnt feel the same way about me[=
2007-12-19 17:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Laurenn..</3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u were in the exact same situation as me.. well the best thing is to tell him straight up..dont keep him waiting or he might find someone else or think u dont have any interest.
2007-12-19 17:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by kwconk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with him a little bit. Ask him to go to a movie with you or something like that. Then tell him.
2007-12-19 17:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by C007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he still feels the same and if he doe well then good luck and come right out and say it.
2007-12-19 17:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by emy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know for a fact he still likes you run into him and give him a big kiss, im sure he'll understand whats going on and be happy about it
2007-12-19 17:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by J DUBS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, just go up and say it. and if says no theres alot of other people.
2007-12-19 17:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by §Kool Dude§ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come out and say it? or do i hint around it,
I say tell him.
Good luck.
2007-12-19 17:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him randomly.
2007-12-19 17:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋