Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

Eventhough I have a girlfriend. I won't have sex with her or anything I just want to sneak over there and see what she is doing. She is really fine. What
are some of the ways I could do it without getting
into trouble with my girlfriend?

2007-12-17 06:37:48 · 6 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do. I don't know how to get out. I don't know where to run away. But at the same time I am extremely super scared and very afraid of leaving. I only stay because of my adorable kiddos. I would like to be happy some day! I am so tired of being controlled by someone who won't let me be happy in my life.

2007-12-17 06:35:30 · 22 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 06:34:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is anyone else tired of these commercials?

2007-12-17 06:29:48 · 48 answers · asked by icunurse85 7 in Singles & Dating

I ask this in fashion on a whim. Answers in relationships suck, and my gf is into clothes and style, so maybe somebody here can relate to her

Me and my gf went out for half a year, broke up, and then got back together. we only broke up for two months, and that was cause of a mix up. when we were getting back together she admitted that basically, she'd been the type of girl that had a one nighter hear or there. not excessive. like once every six months. but she said she would get the urge for a make out or more with the wrong type of guy about once a month, usually right before her period, and about every six months she'd cave. i asked her if she ever cheated, and she said not on me.

Compared to me, she is a realy sexual person. sounds unusual that the girl would be more sex driven then a guy, but in this case its true. I’m busy and tired a lot, and just more easily satisfied I guese.

now - i never told her this, and it sounds sick, but the thought of her hook up is intense for me. In fact, the though of her being the wrong type of a girl is intense. Like being with a sexual rockstar. like a turn on. i fantasize about it. what happened. etc.

I’ve breached the topic, and talked about the possibilities, but when we were fooling around - and I act like its dirty talk I’m doing for her benefit - like to make sure we take of her itch before or after she goes out with her freinds.

i realy realy want to give her the go ahead to do it again. call me crazy, and i'll admit it. i want to give her a rubber, and say use at your pleasure. Like, she’s not a ho, so it won’t be like she’ll be doing it every time she goes out, but in the rare time when she really feels it, I want her to feel like she can without ruining our relationship. For me, I think the risk, and not knowing, and the cahcne something is hoppening is HOT!!!!!

I want to tell her but I’m worried about her reaction.

2007-12-17 06:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mum has always been agressive towards me and my 2 sisters, for instance 5 years ago when I was 18, because I wouldn't dump my boyfriend, she beat me to the floor, then she kicked me and spat on me for at least 10 minutes. She is always screaming at my sisters and won't let them have any friends.

Tonight my youngest sister who is 16 rang me and told me that earlier today she punched my other sister (who is 17) in the face and split her lip. Neither me nor my sisters have ever hit her back or ever given her a good enough reason to beat the living s**t out of us.

I'm now living in my own house, and am still with the same boyfriend only now married, I know we can offer my sisters a better life and have offered, but they always go back to her because they don't want to let her down or make her mad.

I really don't want to let them down any further, but what on earth can I do to stop this?

Thanks :'(

2007-12-17 06:29:07 · 21 answers · asked by Loopy Loo 2 in Family

I just went on my fiances computer and under his most viewed sites I saw this, of course i freaked out and called of the engagement but he doesn't consider this cheating? Am I the only person who views this as cheating and if i am was is appropriate for me to call of our engagement?

2007-12-17 06:28:54 · 21 answers · asked by gmd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom says he has no reason to live and she thinks he wakes up every morning surprised he's still alive. he has resperatory problems among a multitude of others. but he promised to stay alive long enough to see me graduate high school (1 more year). he's aways talking about how he should do something "just this one last time before he goes". i want him to be around to see his great grandkids. is he being selfish just wanting to die like this? if i were him i would be doing everything in my power to stay alive.

2007-12-17 06:28:46 · 5 answers · asked by ...... 2 in Family

okay well ive had a extremely year in 2007..and me and my mom have been through hell and back...had a rough childhood ect ect...and now that im going to turn 18 soon next month..i want to talk to my brother and mom over x-mas break and tell them that i want to repent and change my ways and change many things about myself and fix my relationship and a bunch of issues that i have..and i want my mom to do the same because she had/has an acohol problem and i find myself going down that road( im already depending omn alcohol to fix my issues and make them go away even though i know they wont)...i just think we need to fix ourselves up...but see my mom is hard headed she thinks everything is fine and dandy and than she like blames everything on me of course like she goes bipolar on me...but i just want to find myself and my mom and fix our relationship and be with God. I want to invovled..and i want my mom to do the same i know my bro will be okay but my mom im scared to talk to...so?

2007-12-17 06:28:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my g/f have been going out for 8, close to 9, months and she's a really great girl. We have a lot in common and we care about each other alot. However, she has been having thoughts about whether or not we should be together (if i'm her Mr. Right) and its causing her great deals of sadness/guilt to where she cries or becomes stressed out...should i take this as a sign to just end it for her sake or keep trying to explain why she shouldn't worry herself about it?

2007-12-17 06:28:18 · 28 answers · asked by Dillan 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend live together and he is always eating up my snacks after I specifically tell him not to; He has his own snacks, but after he eats all of his, he eats mine! I am so fed up! Is it wrong to kick him out?

2007-12-17 06:27:06 · 22 answers · asked by shalwalk 1 in Singles & Dating

I am dating a woman who just became an officer in the military. She will have to go away to school for a few months. She also has various trainings/exercises where she is away. I guess I just wanted to know from those who have experienced it- how bad is this whole situation. I love and trust her dearly, but also know that she is a very pretty woman and I guess I assume that military men would attempt to proposition her, etc. She does admit that while she was serving in Iraq a few years back (for 13 months) she cheated on her then boyfriend- she claims she learned her lesson about sleeping with "a person she also has to work with" and says there is no way she would ever do it again. She also says that she thinks she did it because the relationship with the then-boyfriend was pretty much dead anyways and being in a war zone and facing death on a daily basis kind of was rough on her. So with all that- can anyone in the military or dealing with a military girlfriend give advice?

2007-12-17 06:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a folow-up.My wife cheated on me before with a good friend of ours, or was.That was about 6 years ago. They used to live next to or home but move shortly after. I also walked in on her kissing another man at a party about 10 years ago. The first man she was seeing for about 5 months.What are the chances that she is still seeing the man or e-mailing the man that lived next to our home with his wife and kids. I know she liek him ALOT, maybe even fell in love, or lust with him. When she was seeing him, she was very sexual with me, that is kind of how i knew. I got the left over FIRE!! I still to this day walk in on her mostly early morning on her work computer but dont get close enough to see what she is reading or typing because she will click to another screen or click off and lock the computer. She says she is working but this has been going on a long long time and I think she is maybe Emailing him at his home too. She is not much sexual with me too this day ither.

?????

2007-12-17 06:18:54 · 13 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1 in Singles & Dating

what can you do when your best friend likes your other best friend?

2007-12-17 06:16:30 · 3 answers · asked by karen s 1 in Friends

Me and my son is not accompanied by any family members in my town so my stepdaughter is recieving a bunch of presents from her family in town but my son is not, so i told my husband that i would only shop for my son because his family never includes him in anything. the only thing is that we share our money for bills and so forth. my husband seemed as if he was okay with it but then he mentioned that i had a spending limit which i dont think is very fair because his daughter (my stepdaughter) then will have all these gifts you cant count on one hand and my son will not have all the things he desired on christmas the way it used to be when it was just the two of us, i somtimes think about just taking all of my hard worked money and going shopping for him, but it's not the right thing to do, i know we have a lot of bills and things but i still dont want my son to be left out of the joy of christmas day to see her happy & not him, what should i do to make this work??

2007-12-17 06:16:02 · 16 answers · asked by KAT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i've been on and off with this boy and hes in a higher grade and he's like the sweetest guy ever and he's all i ever wanted in a boy. but next year he will be in high school and i wont, and im afraid he will forget about me and like other girls and i know i will still have feelings for him. i've talked to him about it a lot and he said he wont forget about me but i dont know.

2007-12-17 06:15:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of six years has a best friend that is ALWAYS around. He even thinks it is funny when people call him my second boyfriend. It's gotten a little better since he recently got a new job and is working out of state, but he still comes in every saturday night. Therefore instead of an evening out with my boyfriend we have to have his friend tag-along every sat. night. And the worse part is that my boyfriend doesn't see any wrong in his annoying friend. I've tried to find him a girlfriend to get him off our backs but no one can tolerate him! Any suggestions?!

2007-12-17 06:13:45 · 10 answers · asked by Spa Consultant PB 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 06:12:41 · 15 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a really light sleeper and a bit of an insomniac. We will have different beds (thank god), but his insane snoring drives me crazy. I've had nights in the past where Ive slept for less than 2 hours because of his snoring. I know it's not his fault, but I some how need to put a stop to this and get some sleep. I can't ask my parents to shove my brother in their room, or get me my own room, now thats just asking too much! Anybody have any ideas?

2007-12-17 06:12:23 · 6 answers · asked by AnaV 2 in Family

I'm finding myself thinking about how many BAD decisions my mom and siblings have made with their children. It is to such an extent that if I could change my daughters DNA, I would, just so she wouldn't have the pre-programed data to be like them! Is it common to feel bitter as we grow?

2007-12-17 06:12:22 · 7 answers · asked by Aloha Dre 3 in Family

About three months ago my wife and I began having problems. For a month straight i tried everything to keep her, but she was undecided on what she wanted to do. Then we had a big fight one night, and she took my kid and left me for three weeks. No talking, no communication, and i wasnt able to see my kid. Then right before our courtdate and divorce papers, she came to me, cried, and said she wanted me back. So now we have been back together for about a month now. I think there was another guy during that time, but not positive what happened. Since we have been back, i have been wanting to be intimate with her, but i dont get that passion in return. Seems like she is always coming up with an excuse, like she is tired, she is sick, she has an "infection". this all happens right around the time i try to be intimate with her. And the times we do do things, its like i almost have to force her. Furthermore, she gets angry a lot, and when i try to bring up what happened, she say forget the...

2007-12-17 06:11:45 · 23 answers · asked by supremyecy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think that it is important to have a certain attraction in bed before you get married but could someone tell me why they think its wrong or why you think its ok. im going to have sex before i get married but i am windering why some people dont

2007-12-17 06:09:43 · 20 answers · asked by justin t 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with him 3 yrs and its getting shaky- too many things I am not happy with- and Im really considering breaking with him- yet I hate to do it right before X-mas.... should I retain the relationship throughout the holidays- yet not be overly fake- and do the deed come January?
This isn't about a present either- because due to finances- we agreed to keep it very simple.

2007-12-17 06:06:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 06:02:24 · 22 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i live with my mom..my mom wants me to live with my dad..does that mean my mom doesnt care about me...i've heard that when parents do that, it shows that they dont care aabout their children

2007-12-17 06:02:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was iceskating with my friends and this one guy that i like kept coming up behind me and either snapping my bra straps or grabbing my shirt and the back of my bra.
it was so annoying i wanted to kick him but i just told him to stop but he kept doing it and i know it was on purpose.
why the heck do guys do that?
and how can you get them to stop.
thanks.

2007-12-17 06:01:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well do you?
Answers please.
x

2007-12-17 05:58:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife married in july and it has been a BIG adjustment for both of us. About 2 weeks ago we had a argument and ever since then the conversation has been minimal. She is currently pregnant (99.9% sure its mine) and I get along great with her parents. She told me last week that we were going to live like roomates for a couple of weeks we both go and do no questions( I didnt like that). I went home this past weekend 4 hours away we talked so so and when away I would text and call her and she was short the entire time. Well I get home around 3 yesterday she comes home at 4 said she had been out shopping and had to go back. Her daughter was at her parents. Well I went to her parents to help her dad and left around 6 everyone asking where she was. I ask her and she responds back no questions remember. Well she got home put her daughter to bed and I asked her about her and ex...she laughed said she has not talked to him in a week and she said mother thought the same thing her+

2007-12-17 05:55:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-husband left me a message saying that "You guys caused the divorce." meaning my parents and I. He was and still is controlling and abusive and blames my parents for interfering in the marriage.

He does not see his own faults and what he did wrong. He thinks that because I was sending my child to MI to visit her grandmother for spring breaks, my parents and I were pushing her out of the house.

I don't want to speak to him, but wonder if he will ever see that his tone and overall demeanor toward me is wrong. He should not be so overbearing, dominating and controlling.....

2007-12-17 05:52:51 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering if anyone had a wedding & reception at Prado in Balboa Park recently. We're going to have it there next year. Please share your experiences /pros and cons if any. Thanks and I really appreciate your inputs.

2007-12-17 05:52:11 · 1 answers · asked by lisamarie 1 in Weddings