Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

i really need to get over this guy!?! but i am still not sure how, i mean he seems so charming and sweet on the outside, but he has hurt me in so many ways, but im so stupid i just want to talk to him more then anything, and just hang with him or something, and that is totally messed up, because i need to get over him! any good suggestions on how to get over losers, i want some subtle stuff if you know what i mean? thanks in advance

2007-12-17 07:13:01 · 29 answers · asked by charlie 2 in Singles & Dating

I WANT to be a kid actually. I hate growing up.
I know in reality I'm not a "child", but logically I am. I know that I'm a "young adult" now. But am I still a kid? Like, can I still act dumb every now & then, without making a fool out of myself? Can I still rely on my parents to help me make some of my desicions?

2007-12-17 07:12:00 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20 years old, I met a girl a looooooong time ago, probably about 5 years ago. We've had an off and on friend relationship.. In highschool we kissed (drunk) and then the next day she told me she wanted nothing to do with me. Then the same thing happened again a year later while I was in a relationship and we talked about getting together - the next day she sobered up and didn't respond to me for about 3 months. Then she contacted me and we acted like the situation never happened and went back to being friends, about a year ago we (drunk again) kissed and well you get the picture rinse and repeat. We didn't stop being friends this time we just never talked about this situation. I asked her out sometime after that and she said she just got out of a relationship... So I got pissed, stopped talking to her, and she somehow got back into my life again.. So were friends again I just feel like I'm addicted to this girl.. What should I do?

2007-12-17 07:06:23 · 10 answers · asked by Jetboy77 1 in Singles & Dating

About four years ago, my drunken ex-girlfriend of six years almost got into a fight with another girl. I prevented the fight from happening. My ex got pissed and stabbed me with a kitchen knife in the arm and in the neck. She was too drunk to take me to the hospital and blocked the door to prevent me from yelling for help. So I called 911 and ended up with an $8,000 medical bill. I lied to the cops and stupidly got back together with her. Two years later, she clawed me ferouciously in a drunken rage and she got convicted of third degree assault, domestic violence. I feel like she deserved a more harsh penalty for what she has done to me in the past, but I never reported it.

She is no longer in my life and I am now happily married to another woman. Should I have put my ex in the slammer?

2007-12-17 07:05:52 · 27 answers · asked by Dr S 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If i like a guy I can't look him in the eye or look at him at all. If you've seen my other questions I've seen this guy stealing glances at me but I'm way too shy to look back.

What can I do to help this, what would guys think if they knew I was this shy?? Any advice thats HELPFUL and please be nice. I'm trying to improve myself for the better.

2007-12-17 07:03:22 · 8 answers · asked by yeahrightlove 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok i found out that his credit card was charged for 600 for someone in Europe. When i talked to him and said i think u are cheating on me he got really pissed off saying "I am not cheating on you" "you know me better then that" and got really upset. The next day he comes up to me and says he is sorry for getting so upset and that everyone here hates us. We had a friend here before we moved and just because my husband did not do something he wanted he is pissed at both of us now. He will not talk to us or get back to our emails.

Should i watch my husband closely incase he is lying to me or believe him since he is getting upset about all this and swears he did not do nothing wrong.

I also told him who ever did this and if i ever find out i will get really ticked off at them. And my husband knows i can mess him up good if he messes with me. I know he can not afford an apartments and his car payments on his salary. He has never paid a bill yet in 5 years. he has me do it? what i do

2007-12-17 07:02:50 · 11 answers · asked by jamieloves31 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do people stay married for so long? Without falling out of love? How do u know that person is the “one” that your suppose to spend the rest of your life with.

2007-12-17 07:02:01 · 19 answers · asked by meg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you make of it? Do you get pissed? Do you think of the guy any less? Or does it make you more intrigued?

I have been building some rapport with this girl in one of my college classes and got her phone number last week. I haven't called her yet and will be seeing her again on Wednesday.

I have been busy with work and other social stuff, but I plan to directly ask her out on Wednesday, by bluntly asking her when we are going out.

Just wanted to hear some female opinions on what they think when a guy doesn't call.

2007-12-17 07:01:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday, I was shopping at a local mall and was carrying a few small packages in both hands, when I meet a female co worker. We stood in the isle talking, and I noticed some girls (teens) were snickering at us. I kept talking to her trying to ignore them. Then I noticed they were looking at my crotch.
I didn't know it but my fly was open, and the end of my johnson was taking a peek. That's when she noticed it too. She smiled and asked for my gifts, which allowed me to put it back and close the door. I was so embarrassed. She hasn't said anything, but smiled at me when I came through the front door of the office. But, could I get in trouble by the police if I go back to the mall?

2007-12-17 07:00:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a teen(female),and i recently found out that masturbating is normal for us because it helps to calm our sexual urges.Right now i just need help,can anyone tell me how to do it and i mean so that i can calm my really bad urges.I mean like expert advice!!!!!!!!(I am still a virgin and i don't intend to have sex for a LONG while)

2007-12-17 06:59:57 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The previous post was an email from him, telling me how he felt. He said "faithfulness & loyalty differ from yours, monogamy has nothing to do with either; & the only reason I haven’t been completely honest in the past is b/c I wanted to keep my family together & be happy at the same time. Now, as far as the unwanted pregnancy thing & std thing; the chances of that happening are slim to none if the people involved are responsible. Further more I hate that this is the focus of are issue, but if you must I will. But this isn’t the real issue(sex) for me, but obviously it is for you so we’ll continue.My heart is with my family; period. You can’t change the way I think, you probably have to open your mind(if possible) or find a partner who thinks the way you do for this to work. Oh & I almost forgot, your love for me has absolutely nothing to do with my actions. I am me, I am strong & I don’t depend on what someone else might do when I make my decisions.I feel that I s/be abel to be me

2007-12-17 06:59:11 · 12 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiancees mother has diowned him as long as he stays with me , and now she has been telling to talk to his ex girlfriend, because she was nice and got her a phone through her work. so my question is should i try and talk to his mother or just sit back and watch her try to destroy our relationship?

2007-12-17 06:57:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay so I have this friend at school who has this HUGE crush of this guy I know. She's terrified to talk to him since she doesn't know him that well and he doesn't go to our school so she doesn't see him often. The guy she likes is a semi-friend of mine. We're not really close but we talk whenever we see each other. I offered to help her out but now I don't know what to do. I got his home phone number but I don't want to just randomly call him up and say, "hey my friend likes you" (especially since we aren't close friends). What can I do? How do I get them together without making either of them uncomfortable?

2007-12-17 06:57:18 · 4 answers · asked by GreenEyedGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

When I see people preach about how Gay Marriage will destroy the "sanctity" of marriage, if I were in a straight relationship, I'd be really offended. For someone to say my marriage, my marriage founded on LOVE, is fragile to outside happenings is not only insulting, but demeaning.

Agree, or disagree?

2007-12-17 06:56:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am going through a devorce and my wife will not let me or any of my family see my SON. The marriage was over before it started. The only reason that I got married was to be in my sons life more. Now that we are going through the devorce she has will not answer my parents calls and when they set up a time to see him, she always cancel. HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-17 06:54:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

wel i been with my bf for 4months. And i want to know if i should be with him ?? he tells me that nothing is going to change between us but i ready dnt know wat should do?? I dnt want to do things wrong n plus is going to be my first time n yup Iam 18 years old

2007-12-17 06:54:24 · 2 answers · asked by Jackie 1 in Singles & Dating

What do I do when my parents hate the father of the baby and don't think he will be there at all and don't want me to talk to him at all except for when I get upsdates on the baby. But the father says he wants to be there for everything, but he has a minimum wage job, could have free college but hasn't done anything yet?

I'm 18, amost 19, and the father just turned 20. I'm gonna be moving soon to a city two hours away from him, I dont' know what's gonna happen. I broke up with him shortly after finding out I was pregnant because I don't think he's my soulmate.

I need advice. I got myself is a crazy mess and this poor baby is coming into it.

2007-12-17 06:52:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband has a horrible temper when he is drunk...some weekends he just drinks through the entire weekend and gets angry at me if I don't give him my $$ for beer. He nitpicks & insults me, orders me around and expects me to do ALL the work, even though I have a f/t job and work more hours than him. Also he is physically abusive like yesterday he pushed me to the floor when I was holding our 1-yr old. Another time I was wrapping Christmas presents and I had scissors in my hands..he started pushing me and put his face in my face threatening me..so I pushed him to get him off of me and sliced his arm with the scissors. Now he tells everyone I tried to stab him. When he sobers up he doesn't remember clearly what happened but spins things in his head so that it's my fault. He is a wonderful father and husband when he is not drunk but it is hard to forget even on the good days, b/c he changes from Dr. Jeckyl to Mr. Hyde.. I am tense and sad all the time. I don't want to get a divorce...

2007-12-17 06:51:45 · 102 answers · asked by kallista 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend, who I really like, has just shown me her sexual urges. Last night, as we were making love, she tried to de?fecate in my mouth. I am not sure what to do. What should I do

2007-12-17 06:49:34 · 10 answers · asked by OUSooner 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm bisexual and I want to admit in love to another bisexual girl. How is better to do it. Suggest me any beautiful words, pliz!

2007-12-17 06:49:10 · 9 answers · asked by sweetaylin532 1 in Singles & Dating

My Shower is 3-30 and I'm sending the invites out 4 wks early--so do you think I'd be safe registering in the middle of January?

Also I'm registering at Bed, Bath & Beyond & Target--opinions??

2007-12-17 06:46:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We are both 17 and next year he will be away at collage. I want to get him something he will always remember this Christmas since we wont be together next Christmas. Something cute and sweet but not expensive, something I make myself might work too. Any Ideas???

2007-12-17 06:46:33 · 4 answers · asked by british505 1 in Friends

do you all think you are gentlemen-
think you have good manners?

2007-12-17 06:45:42 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It doesn't happen very often but every once in a while my boyfriend calls me his ex-wife's name. He always catches himself and swears it's just habit. If we're doing something with the kids that used to always be a family thing; if we start fighting and he gets frustrated; if he's really tired but still trying to take care of me and the boys and make sure we're happy...He swears it's habit and doesn't mean anything. It's just habit and one he really wants to break. But sometimes I wonder if that's really all it is. The divorce is pretty recent so it's not like we're talking about a relationship that was over years ago. It's not like it happens when we're in bed together or anything, and the rest of the time I'd say he does it an average of once every 3 to 4 weeks so it's doesn't really mean anything right?

It's habit. He's comfortable with me "replacing" her at family stuff and is used to fighting with her and not me. Right?

2007-12-17 06:44:31 · 22 answers · asked by QT_Pie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok ive never done it so i wana know... how does it all work out?

do women usually carry condoms on them just in case...?

or should guys have them stored at their place or even on them?

these arrangements aren't addressed in popular culture... like in movies they just do it... kinda kills the moment if u gotta stop and got to 7-11 for condoms... so that leads to my nexy question:

is sex always planed out so u can get the condoms or does it just suddenly happen with no warning?

and do u ejaculate with the condom on or off when your done? girls do u expect to be ejaculated on?

2007-12-17 06:43:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(Even though women think a 180 degrees differently).

Agree??

2007-12-17 06:42:57 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 06:40:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I make a little comment about a woman packing on a little too much weight, and I'm a jerk. All I did was take the twinkie out of her hand and say "anymore and you'll start mooing!" I was being humourous and trying to help her out, for crying out loud! I just don't get it; I tell her I don't find all that flab attractive and she gets insulted---I'm just being honest!

Why do women take every little thing wrong???

2007-12-17 06:39:33 · 32 answers · asked by Jack B, goodbye, Yahoo! 6 in Singles & Dating

My views of faithfulness and loyalty differ from yours, monogamy has nothing to do with either; and the only reason I haven’t been completely honest in the past is because I wanted to keep my family together and be happy at the same time. Now, as far as the unwanted pregnancy thing & std thing; the chances of that happening are slim to none if the people involved are responsible. Further more I hate that this is the focus of are issue, but if you must I will. But this isn’t the real issue(sex) for me, but obviously it is for you so we’ll continue My daughter, no we’re not going to teach our daughter that; we’re going to teach her to think for herself and make her on decisions. My heart is with my family; period. You can’t change the way I think, you probably have to open your mind(if possible) or find a partner who thinks the way you do for this to work.on what someone else might do when I make my decisions. I feel that I s/be able to be me, &if I can’t be that then I’m w/the wrong 1

2007-12-17 06:39:23 · 33 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my family doesnt kno, how is the best way i can tell them, the guy im with really wants to meet my family however my family is "somewhat racist" and if it matters ima white gurl with a black guy.... please help!

2007-12-17 06:38:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating