Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

i was out with the girls and my bf called to say that his mates we not going out so i said you can come out with us (was just to be girls )any way i got really drunk and bf disapeard he was taking to some bird in the pub garden with a few of my mates

it came to the end and we all went outside and waited for my bf but he never came out so i got a cab home with the girls

my bf rang next day at 1pm and said that he was so drunk that he cant remeber getting home what do you think did he go back to the other girls house

its doing my brain in and he swears that he has done nothing

i love this man and have been with him for 2 years

problem he is really para about me cheating is this because hes doing it

no funny answers i feel a bit confused and upset

2007-12-17 23:01:49 · 16 answers · asked by Amanda C 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on a professor, but not in a sexual way, although I do find him physically attractive (sometimes)...

He's the same age as I am, and for some reason that did it for me. Do I still have a "crush" or is it something else? Yes, I do want him to see me a s peer and not a student...but what does that mean? Why do I have such a strong desire for him to notice me in that way?

2007-12-17 23:01:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and my 15 year old girlfriend is pregnant i found out she's a slut and i want to leave her but she's pregnant and doesn't want to get rid of it what should i do

2007-12-17 23:00:34 · 26 answers · asked by The man 335 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of nearly three years cheated on me and I've been feeling the blues ever since. We have two children together twin son and daughter about a year and a half. I found out in the middle of this year and we broke up for two months then i got back with her partly for the sake of the kids. But even after all this time i can't get over what she did. At times if i sit down and think for to long i get on this emotional roller coaster. She's changed a heck of a lot for me and given up most of her freedoms but I'm still lost and confused i just don't know how i feel about her anymore. I thought this would never happen and i don't think there's any excuse for that no matter how much fighting and arguing is going on. At times the sadness is to much to bear it's like my whole world crashed down. I'm young and i don't want to waste my life on a dead end but i have my kids to think about.

2007-12-17 22:59:16 · 20 answers · asked by Angel R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she stole my dads car, like 2 years ago, and i dont know if my dad will make me break up with her. what do you think?

2007-12-17 22:53:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 22:52:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Being blunt just gets me slapped.

2007-12-17 22:49:41 · 12 answers · asked by great_wiccan_god 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 22:48:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im not talking about hollywood film stars or anything coz i dont think they represent the 'average joe'! Im on about men you meet on the street who havent just buzz cut no.1 or no.2 but are actually bald/balding! No 'looks arent important' or 'its personality that counts' stuff, just honest answers! We should all know you have to get your foot in the door before they get the chance to get to know someone! Please also give me your age and a bit about yourself so i have an idea where the opinions are coming from! To get the ball rolling, im balding and dont like flat chested women and prefer blondes to brunettes, the woman has to be under 5'10 tall! Thanks for your help!

2007-12-17 22:48:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 22:46:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are committed to each other and building a life together, but we are not living together or married, because of the feelings of 2 of his children. They are almost out of highschool and we are waiting for that. That's not the problem. Every year I spend Christ. with his family at his parents. No one really talksto me, except for his sister. They all open gifts, he has 5 brother/sisters + grandchildren, etc. while I just sit there like an idiot. Noone ever asks about my son (who spends Christ. with his Dad). It's not really just Christ.. I always make a point to invite his parents over for dinner a few times every summer when they are home, but not once have they invited us over. His ynger brthr got married this year and they have embraced his wife, but I feel as though they look at me as just his "chick", his "lover" his ....I don't know. At the wddng during pictures his mthr said FAMILY only. It was the whole tone you know? Anyway should I go there for Christmas this year?

2007-12-17 22:43:38 · 17 answers · asked by klojkb 2 in Family

2007-12-17 22:43:06 · 14 answers · asked by sm 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 22:42:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wish everyone the best Christmay and ney year I'm soso sorry gays and girls not to replay to you because I was way with my work music thata I lov.e tecnot music but I olasol I play it the one so much Clubs love it is the one huw it is make me going in my life time please do the best you r cand this Christmas and new yraes

2007-12-17 22:39:10 · 9 answers · asked by sajmir 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 22:37:41 · 18 answers · asked by juan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It doesn't really make sense. Wouldn't the people who were prepared for the marriage be better off?

2007-12-17 22:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by Halley 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Recruiter in the Military. Going through a divorce at this time, as expected, the wife is unhappy about it. He has been supporting her for 7 years. She hasn't had to work, or do anything for 7 years. Now that he is getting serious about the divorce, and told her he is going to move out, she gets angry and calls his Commanding Officer and whines and complains to him. There is really nothing the CO can do, other than get extremely frustrated with her, which in turns goes to him. His CO said that he has to keep the peace with her until his Recruiting time is done (10 months) or else his career hurts from it. As in, stay with her or you're fired. Now, what in the world does he do in this situation. He can't stand the woman to stay with her, but if he doesn't then he loses his job. She really has him right where she wants him. Can the CO fire him because of his wife annoying him? Thank you

2007-12-17 22:25:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I am talking about size of a man in terms of height and physical size. I am 5ft9 but I am very slim, 30inch waist. I find that I look really small compared to other guys. Are girls turned off by a guy that looks small?

2007-12-17 22:25:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met at 14.(he was 18) Had a baby at 15. (a boy). Then we had a second son when i turned 18. We were always pretty happy i thought. I found out not long after having my 2nd child he was sleeping with a 16 yr old. ( he says once, but i never found out for sure) He was 22. Then we got over that rough patch. We finally got married in 2000. Our boys stood in our wedding. In 2003 we had our last child (baby girl,Eden). When she was about 2 months he left me and moved in with another woman and her children. Now I know this sounds awful but stay w/ me. I waited for 3 years for him to come back home and to my complete amazment, he finally did. Ok, sooooo we have been back together for like a little over a year and I just feel like he hates me. He seems so angry all the time. He is always yelling and mad at the lott of us. He says he left because I was lazy and did not help him, maybe that is true ( i never agreed but that is how he felt)I am trying so hard. I swear i am. I am 29 now.

2007-12-17 22:21:18 · 8 answers · asked by Samijo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is always depressed when i leave his house or when i can't call or when i'm talking to someone other than him. it's like i can't really live my life without him getting depressed.
what do i do?

2007-12-17 22:18:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We work in the same large office and there is a young girl that works near him who he chats over the internet to all day! They sit literally 4 feet away from each other but when I go over I see that he has a chat window open and he only talks to her. They even chat in the evenings and basically whenever he goes on-line. I told him that I didn't like it but he said he felt sorry for her because she has confided in him about her personal life and problems she has. I think she has just given him a sob story and it probably isn't even true. I have heard that this particular girl has a reputation for being a bit 'free and easy' with herself if you see what I mean. My husband promised he wouldn't do it again but when I went over to his desk yesterday I saw that he was chatting to her again! I don't know why but i pretended I hadn't noticed.

2007-12-17 22:17:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it pure semantics, or does it have lesser bearing than 'dear' or 'darling' or 'baby'? Just a thought.

2007-12-17 22:14:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you like a girl, you like her based on what? How can I make a guy be crazy for me?

2007-12-17 22:13:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why bother asking questions when you are normally going to get a bunch of "amateur physcologist" answers?

2007-12-17 22:12:56 · 4 answers · asked by rockwynd1 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 22:12:08 · 14 answers · asked by gangadhar g 1 in Singles & Dating

I moved to Ohio in July and foolishly signed away about everything because of emotional stress and not getting an attorney. Now after our year of legal separation is up, my husband, who still lives in North Carolina, is filing for divorce. Is it possible to get my agreement voided and file a new agreement?

2007-12-17 22:12:04 · 6 answers · asked by sharon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my bf having affair from past two years and i didn't give him any gift till now so i wanted to do something very special to him on this christmas and wanted to give something precious. Im not so much rich to give something very expensive but im wanted to make him happy. pls give some suggestions.

2007-12-17 22:08:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 days before my birthday, i caught my husband bringing a ***** home in the middle of the night...i thought he went over to his mum's place to sleepover. but my neighbour, who is my friend, told me that someone is in the house, but i don't believe her till i got home and its true...i was so frustrated that i slapped and hit him. it was more frustrating when i couldn't get to hit that *****. when i told his parents about this, they just wouldn't believe it, till i said that i really saw with my two eyes...and they gave him a bashing...his parents begged me to give him another chance...i don't mind that, but does he want to give himself another chance to repent? and after all this had happened, can i still have sex with him? i am in need too...but i find that he don't need me for that anymore now, but i also feel disgusted..

2007-12-17 22:07:20 · 12 answers · asked by sweetiepie_1712 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is 25 & shes 20 they only been together for about 2years now & she absolutly pisses me off shes one of them girls that wants to be ''PERFECT'' she wont eat NO food thats got fat in it she wont eat a touch of suger all because she doesnt want to put on weight & shes already a size 10? she reckons she wants to be a size 8? I think she thinks shes ''all that'' she acts like she knows EVERYTHING i meen she is nice i guess but she can have her moments i HATE girl that want to be soo skinny & i hate girls that are skinny but say their fat they just say it to hear us say ''no your not fat your have a nice slim body'' GRRRR also she is REALLY nosey like for an example iff i go out & then come back she will come up to me & asked where i went & then i would tell her & then she will ask did i go anywhere else or did i do anything else like WTF? Seriously shes just one of them girls she kind of sends it off to us that HER family is better than ours what do you think of her guys & girls?

2007-12-17 21:59:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when i tlak to people i think i come forward as someone really clingy and self-obsessed, i cant help but mension something about myself every 2 seonds...its a total turn off i know..and i think i pay too much attension to someone i may like, how do you give equal attension to everyone and still appear not desperate to get to know them..you know a bit reserved..

thanks!

2007-12-17 21:53:43 · 3 answers · asked by Jessica_Rabbit 3 in Singles & Dating