Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

just a plain affectionate hug.. or a goodnight kiss.. or a good morning kiss.. I miss it so much.

(he doesn't seem to understand how much i yearn for it, i talked to him about it, no effect)


today morning, i requested him for a hug, and he point blank refused. but it was all normal business after then, he was joking and all. he didn't even notice, that i was down, and cried a bit after he had left the room.

2007-12-17 19:07:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this happened a couple of months ago and its been bothering me quite a bit. i am no longer a virgin but in august(i was a virgin) i was very drunk with this guy and we started kissing and made our way into the bedroom. the kissing led to touching and fingering and then he gave me oral. the next thing i remember was him on top of me...and well its kind of a blur. i think we had sex but not sure because i was quite sore the next day but didnt bleed or anything. how do i know if we had sex, i didnt ask or cant ask because i was leaving the next morning and left him asleep :s

2007-12-17 19:06:57 · 12 answers · asked by audrina001 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends ex girlfriend broke up with him broke in May, and we all worked at the same job. As soon as they broke up she quit and a few months later me and tom started going out. She never contacted him after they broke up. In about October, she returned to work and completely ignored him, she looked right passed him, but he was trying 2 give her trouble at work, and was so angry that she was back! He even got in trouble with the managers at work. She wasn't doing anything to him when she came back and lately i've been noticing him staring at her. She is beautiful & 100% italian tho. When i brought this up 2 him he says that i am crazy, and that he hates her and he wishes she never came back to work, and cant stand seeing her, but yet i see him stare at her still, or sneaking in lil glances here n there. I dont know what 2 think. He thinks shesa b****. He says he cares about me, loves me. I know its not a sin to look at someone, but its his ex and its constantly!

2007-12-17 19:02:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whom ive been dating for 2 months? i have a well-paying job but don't want to be too expensive nor inexpensive please help!

2007-12-17 19:00:57 · 7 answers · asked by icecreamgal 1 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the thing. make a very long story as short as possible..... we dated 2 and a half years...we talked abt marriage all the time...one night outta the blue he calls me and says were over...im like wtf u asked me 2 marry u even today (bc he always talks 2 me abt marriage but im 18 so im not ready) he says ok comes to my house picks me up kisses me and says tomarrow were ganna get u an enagement ring. he leaves my house...he doesnt ever call me \back and ignores my phone...2 days later i realise were over...ok...its been 2 weeks i just found out hes engaged...apparently he cheated on me and now is engaged. ok i kno im lucky and all but...hes telling pple lies abt me and also making it seem like weve been broken u longer...hes a very smooth sly talker and pple like him and dnt know the truth abt him...im really tring to be the bigger person and not tell pple he cheated on me and stuff...bc i believe hell get whats coming to him...but in the mean time its very hard...pple prob think

2007-12-17 19:00:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are the five most important things that you "Must Have"
When it comes to committing yourself to a long term relationship like marraige. I am not talking about what attracts you initialy... I am talking about, what are you looking for?
What goes on in the mind and heart of the male specie?

2007-12-17 18:55:28 · 19 answers · asked by commoncents 4 in Marriage & Divorce

guys, if you were drunk and were chatting to your ex (Whom you wanted to impress cuase you both already admitted still bein in love) , if you got so drunk you wound up wacking off on your web cam for her. would u contact her the next day? also if you were smaller than usual?

2007-12-17 18:55:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Where online did you meet? How long have you been together? How long did it take to find each other?

2007-12-17 18:53:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 18:47:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi im 20yrs old n i have my own family my mom comes to see mi every 2 weeks n the times she comes she goes to the bathroom alot i mean lik every 5 mins n i kno what she does n i kno u kno what she does n i hate cuz i feel lik she disrespectt my house not only that i have a kid livin here.

how can i tell my mother without breakin her heart

2007-12-17 18:46:58 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl20 1 in Family

ok on the 16th of december i tried to call my boyfriend he did not answer any of my calls,by the way we were together in the morning,i kept trying then a girl pick ups his phone when i told him who was that answering your call he just said that no one has answered what must i do or think in a situation like this,he then called me after some 45 minites and told me that he is outside he wants to see me and i refused to come out.did i do the right thing or not.please guys i really need your help.i haven't speaked to him til this morning.

2007-12-17 18:44:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband (soon to be ex)
is deployed in Iraq.
He doesnt want me around when he comes back.

We have a daughter together.
We been married for 7 years

Hes trying to toss me to the curb.

Everyone said go to the chaplain.
But the chaplain just told me to go to legal.
He didnt say anything else.

What was the chaplain suppose to tell me that everyone kept repeating?

i told him i wasnt to try therapy, but he still told me to go to legal.

It really was a waste of time talking to that chaplain.
Was he just a bad chapalin or is that what everyone wanted me to hear, when they all said go talk to the chaplain???

what else could he have done?

2007-12-17 18:42:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy I used to like in my old school, and another bunch of girls that I used to hate in my old school. Before, I used to hate these girls, because they were quite mean and they were really two faced. My old BFF was there in that group, and before, after a long fight, we used to hate each other so much, because they treated my BFF really badly. Anyways, now I'm in a new school, and I just heard that the guy I used to like is now with the mean people. I'm starting to have feelings about him again... and I really want to not let him to become 'mean' because he was really nice when I used to like him. What should I do?

2007-12-17 18:38:34 · 1 answers · asked by pingars 2 in Singles & Dating

Two weeks ago, one of my best friends was killed in a car accident. I've known him since we were in elementary school, and I think I've become clinically depressed. I won't use names, but we all had nicknames for each other so I'll use them.
Oso is the one who passed away, and he was one of my three best friends that I've been with forever. We were the Four Muskateers, the four amigos, been more family to each other than any of our biological families have ever been...
Yesterday after holding it through school I came home and collapsed on the floor crying as soon as I got in the door. I've been listening to the 'Apologize remix' on repeat for two hours. The last words I said to him were "Awesome tattoo!"
Awesome ******* tattoo. What a pointless ******* statement. I have been holed up in my apartment with my roomate Q, who has completely seperated himself from the world since... yeah
I can't bring myself to talk to anyone about it face to face, and I'm stuck in my room. help

2007-12-17 18:36:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im due with a lil girl in about 4 weeks. The father and I split up about a month ago he kicked me out. He was running around with underage girls and drinking and blowing all our savings. Saying that I was unfaithfull and that the baby was not his. Now he is wanting to work things out. I want to for the baby sake and I still love him but alot has happend to make me not trust him. What should I do?

2007-12-17 18:34:56 · 4 answers · asked by tazyboo 1 in Family

i am 20 yrs old n i have a 16 yrs old sister she have been a pain in my azz lol she has fights all the time in school she has been cuttin school lately, i talk to her soooo manys times.she was a good student,her bestfriend be gettin in to fights so knowin that my sister is goin to get in 4 her pplz....the school call mi everyday sayin ur sister got to a fight but let mi tell u she is a very pertty girl alot of girls in her school want to be lik her im not makin this up everywhere i go everybody looks at her
any idea that i can do or say cuz really im gettin tired if this help miiiii

2007-12-17 18:31:14 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl20 1 in Family

i'm 23 and my mum still gives me a curfue at night.i have a bf who is not the same religion as me and when i want to see him it can only be during the day. my mum doesnt like him coz of the religion thing. its been 1yr & 5months and i cant enjoy my night life. if i go out at night my curfue is 7pm!people tell her if she meets him then she will loosen up and give me my freedom but she doesnt want to!someone please help!i cant live like this.i cant even move out coz she will die...literally!

2007-12-17 18:28:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My cousin sister was beaten by her husband very harshly before their nine year old son.This happened in oct 2005.FIR(498A) was registered in dec 2005.Protection of Women From Domestic Violence Act 2005 came into force after this date .Can Protection of Women From Domestic Violence Act 2005 be applicable for this ?

2007-12-17 18:28:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone know where, apart from Las Vegas (or anywhere else in America) where there are walk-in weddings available???

2007-12-17 18:28:05 · 5 answers · asked by Andrea C 3 in Weddings

we need to face the fact that teens are having sex at even an earlier age than decades before, and getting pregnant too! So my question is would you be prepared to be a grandparent if god for bid your child got pregnant or got someone pregnant?

2007-12-17 18:23:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why do people say this if you are going to get your GED, go to a communtiy college, and then later transfer to larger university? This is what I am doing and am going to be a teacher. I have no friends, and dont care to go to a graduation, or reuinions etc. Also why do people say that you cant do as much with a GED? if you can get a GED and become a teacher of a highschool isnt anything possible!

2007-12-17 18:22:59 · 11 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family

2007-12-17 18:16:51 · 11 answers · asked by Pink Lantana 3 in Family

i am almost of the age to be on my own and rite now my parents are really gettin on my nerves. they use me for money and never let me hang out with my friends yes i know i have some responsibilities such as insurance and paying for my phone but other than that i shouldnt have to give them anything really. they spend carelessly then look to me. what should i do PLEASE HELP

2007-12-17 18:11:55 · 4 answers · asked by Yup~Yup 1 in Family

alright so, I like this girl a lot and we hung out like all day 2day. I made her laugh a lot and we got along great. We have just really started to get to know eachother. As people say she is..."way out of my league" any tips on how I can get her...in my league?

2007-12-17 18:11:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 18:06:29 · 10 answers · asked by London L 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so i was thinking about puting this thing i wrote for my bf in a card for xmas what do you think tell me the truth cuz this is what it feels like so here it gos..

i love these feeling you give me, anytime i see you i get these butterflys and when you hold me in your arms i sont want to b anywhere else, i swaer its true cuz when you kiss me. i fall inloveall over again and tha way you look at me sends shivers down my spine, the way you make me smile by just one glimps, and anytime im with you i just cant stop smiling what im trying to say is that I LOVE YOU more and more everyday....




so what do you think plzzz tell me

2007-12-17 18:04:12 · 13 answers · asked by CRiPPLE! 1 in Singles & Dating

hi all i need some advise... i think im falling out of love with my partner i dont want to but i cant help it, we were so in love when we met but i think the "honeymoon period" is over, he is different with me too. i dont know what to do with this i have been feeling like this for a while now but ive been trying to block it out.. i dont really look forward to seeing him anymore like i used to (he works away 4 days a week) and he seems blunt towards me i might be over reacting but thats just me when ive told him i love him he gruffly says it back but after we have sex he says it but that hasnt even been happening lately he just cant be bothered or i cant be bothered normally we have a great sex life. im just not that interested anymore and i feel like something is missing in my life i thought it was as fulfilled as it could be but lately i just dont know. any advise would be appreciated. thanks to all

2007-12-17 18:03:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sorry this is so rude, i think it would be reported in a
second,should i go ahead anyway or not?

2007-12-17 17:59:49 · 8 answers · asked by fozz 4 in Singles & Dating

My fiend's daughter a postgraduate..good charactor, beautiful.. whenever i go to my fiend's home, there was quarrel between her father and her. she also having dif. of opinion with her mother..too. They are arranging for marriage to her. she is refusing to marry. she is always seeing TV especially sports.. good charactor, please give suggession to make her to accept marriage.

2007-12-17 17:59:07 · 8 answers · asked by Tamil from Vellore 7 in Marriage & Divorce

wut do i do when im in a situation where my mom doesnt agree im 21 years old and she doesnt want me to leave just even for a vacation im so sad . she told me if i leave that i cant come back? i feel so mirable i dont know what to do? any suggestions my bf payed the ticket though! he told me its my decision?and its true! he gots a point but see i dont want to leave my mom all mad at me?

2007-12-17 17:54:57 · 2 answers · asked by my 3 in Singles & Dating