hi im 20yrs old n i have my own family my mom comes to see mi every 2 weeks n the times she comes she goes to the bathroom alot i mean lik every 5 mins n i kno what she does n i kno u kno what she does n i hate cuz i feel lik she disrespectt my house not only that i have a kid livin here.
how can i tell my mother without breakin her heart
2007-12-17 18:46:58 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think if she didn't go into the bathroom, to do what you know that she does would be far more disrespectful. Unless she is smoking crack?!!!, in which case throw her out immediately. Your child is far to precious to have that crap around him or her. Why put your child's future in jeopardy like that.
2007-12-17 18:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Dusty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother is a drug addict and I tried to help for so long then one day my 5 yr old daughter walked out of the bathroom with a silver foil full of white powder. It had to end there.
She is disrespecting you, your home and your kids and you must do something about it. You are worried about breaking her heart but is she thinking about how much this is breaking your heart?
Also, if you allow this to go on without telling her you know she is using drugs, she may become even worse. I think you should approach her and tell her you know what she is doing and offer her help, tell her you cannot allow her in your house until she is clean as you have to protect your child, but you will be there for her should she need support. that way she will know you arenot abandoning her but you're being firm with her. Good luck x
2007-12-17 21:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by heartshapedglasses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are convinced that your mom is bumping every time she goes into your bathroom, then perhaps you could hang a copy of the Golden Rule up in plain, & unavoidable sight. It simply states that you should do to others as you would have done to you. You should also pray the prayer of serenity. God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, & the wisdom to know the difference between the two. Ask this in the name of Jesus (YASHUA) You may find you will simply half to let her know you love her, & it is her life to live as she pleases, but there are things that become unacceptable in your home. May you all be blessed with love peace, & happiness.
2007-12-17 19:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by starry_skies1969 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-02 01:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know what she is doing in there and its illegal as you are implying, you stand the risk of losing your child for allowing it to happen in your home.
Your mother doesn't have a heart to break if she's choosing drugs over her grandchild's welfare. Tell her she's not welcome until she cleans up.
2007-12-17 20:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not breaking her heart.. but u allow her to break your heart..i know we have love for our parents, but sometimes that role of being the grown up changes.. sometimes we need to be the parents to our own parents.. and that sometimes take dissapointments and heart breaks.. be honest and let her know how u feel..
goodluck
2007-12-17 18:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by liveforu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and tell her you don't like it
and she must respect your wishes
it is your home and if you don't say anything
she is gonna keep doing it
2007-12-17 20:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Yvette E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know .. how you feel.. my mom did drugs for like 8 years and we lost everything b/c of it.. maybe try to get her into rehab... good luck
2007-12-17 18:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by kmd110685 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋