i am 20 yrs old n i have a 16 yrs old sister she have been a pain in my azz lol she has fights all the time in school she has been cuttin school lately, i talk to her soooo manys times.she was a good student,her bestfriend be gettin in to fights so knowin that my sister is goin to get in 4 her pplz....the school call mi everyday sayin ur sister got to a fight but let mi tell u she is a very pertty girl alot of girls in her school want to be lik her im not makin this up everywhere i go everybody looks at her
any idea that i can do or say cuz really im gettin tired if this help miiiii
2007-12-17 18:31:14 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If she is fighting alot, then she must be feeling alot of anger and frustration. It's good that you are talking to her alot. But try to isolate the problems that she is facing. Work with her as a sister, a friend and a mentor to conquer each problem. Tell her the consequences of her actions both short term and long term. Try not to sound judgmental or mad at her. What you're doing already is great and she's lucky to have a sister like you to care for her. Keep it up. Be patient and things will turn around.
2007-12-17 18:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 20 and should be working hard on your own stuff. Your sister is 16, and still the responsibility of your parents. I am the oldest sibling, and it is hard to let them make their own mistakes, but think back: when you were 16, did you take all the advice you were given? And the school should NOT be contacting you unless you are the legal guardian.
If that is the case, all previous comments are retracted :o)
2007-12-18 02:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by alyosha_snow_crash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cool n be honest with her life tell her u love her hope she can relate to u face to face be kind loving ya win her over never give up on her she need hug laughters n tough as life is
help her see her good side in her life it her heart u care about her
rockon
be her friend
2007-12-18 02:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by rockonlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is ready, your sister will talk to you.
She is just going through a rough patch.
2007-12-18 02:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by decemberbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are responsible for your sister's actions, not you.
Leave it to your parents.
2007-12-18 04:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol you can't do nothing about it. She can only fix herself if she wants to try or not.
2007-12-18 02:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin :P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs a school counsellor
2007-12-18 02:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her... ask her what exactly happen and whats behind this attitude of her
2007-12-18 05:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by SomeJunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋