im due with a lil girl in about 4 weeks. The father and I split up about a month ago he kicked me out. He was running around with underage girls and drinking and blowing all our savings. Saying that I was unfaithfull and that the baby was not his. Now he is wanting to work things out. I want to for the baby sake and I still love him but alot has happend to make me not trust him. What should I do?
2007-12-17 18:34:56 · 4 answers · asked by tazyboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i know its hard.... but believe in what you love... cause as long as u got love in your side... i dont think there's any problem... good luck
2007-12-17 21:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by SomeJunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go back with him. Your life will be unpredictable and you and your daughter deserve a more stable life than that. He has proven himself to be a cheat and a liar and he is also not to be trusted with money. Underage girls is a whole other story. Nothing good will come of staying with him. Accusing you of having anothers baby is unforgivable. If I were you I would tell him no thank you.
2007-12-18 03:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go back into the relationship with trust issues, it is nothing other than a disaster waiting to happen. You need to resolve your conflicts BEFORE getting back together. I understand you're pregnant with his baby, but that's all the more reason to ensure your relationship with him is on solid ground. It's better to raise your child alone than it is to raise your child in an unstable or unhappy place. Your decisions affect your child now, not just yourself. Make the right ones. Good luck, and congrats!
2007-12-18 02:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello from England. Please don't trust him: this leopard will never change his spots.
The sooner he is out of your life for ever, the happier you will be.
Good luck. I wish you well.
2007-12-18 02:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by colonel138 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋