Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

okay...heres my problem my boyfriend is getting out of jail on weds...and he has no place to live or anything...now i wanted to get the number for social services and see if they can help him any..does anyone know anything about that???

2007-12-17 16:04:09 · 4 answers · asked by jnazz030185 1 in Family

Ok, so my husband and I have a debate going on here......He thinks that our daughter should address my aunts daughter as aunt and I say cousin. She is my cousin, so wouldn't that make my aunts daughter my daughters second cousin? Please help, we are dying to know the correct way. Thanks

2007-12-17 16:03:56 · 9 answers · asked by ANGELMOM 1 in Family

when my in-laws visit me , we three start having problems. Me n my husband care for eachother but are not very demonstrative which troubles my in-laws as they are very lovey dovey and they feel me n my hubby dont love eachother and whole day I have to listen to their unsolicited advises about our defunt marriage in which btw we are having stress only becoz of their constant scrutiny n criticism. Another problem is they are always praising their daughter n son-in-law and comparing their kid to ours. How can I let them know without showing off that our life may be simple and understated yet we are indeed happy? And why do we have to be exact clones of them or their daugher n son-in-law . We are different but we are content with our ways and we dont want to change. We also dont believe in sitting n holding hands n gazing deep into eachothers eyes in front of them to prove that we love eachother. Finally they always want a lot of love n attention and create needless dramas so that we end

2007-12-17 16:03:12 · 5 answers · asked by smashingdelite 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

M married w/kids. My husband Was unfaithful when I was pregnant w our 3rd child which lasted1 yr. It broke my heart w/I found out. I didn't want to just give up on my fam so I decided to try & work through it. it's been 4 yrs since all this happened.Things have not been the same since & I feel that we are drifting apart. My husband isn't meeting my needs & when I try to talk to him he suggest that we take time out for US but that never really happens. We'll do something once & that's it. Now, I find myself attracted to someone else. I think this person feels the same way but neither of us have done anything about it or said anything to the other. I don't want to follow through on my feelings he's also married. I think about this person all day & I'm afraid that something will happen. I try to stay away but this person is involved with my fam through 1of my kids. He's everything my husband used to be. I don't know what 2 do? I don't want to hurt anyone like my husband did me. SOS

2007-12-17 16:01:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and she is known for being a whore? she was sleeping with her husband but it was proved that the hubby wasn't the father so now she claims that she is 100% sure that her lover is the father but refuses a dna test?

2007-12-17 15:59:36 · 11 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4 in Family

OK here goes...There's this girl I like ALOT. We've gone out twice now and the other day she was in a cranky mood and was like "I really like you as a friend and I don't think that will ever change." At the time she said that we had only gone out once. We went to the Steeler game yesterday and spent the whole day together. Breakfast, the game, and dinner. It was a total blast (she even text me at 12:30 last night to tell me that). Now down to the stuff that all of you have tuned in for. Well walking out of the stadium she grabs my arm (she said it was to pull me through the crowd so she didn't lose me) which them led to her holding my hand (at this point I'm like WTF?! cause of her comment earlier in the week). when i dropped her off I got a huge hug and a kiss on the cheek. What's your professional opinions? Does she like me or not?

2007-12-17 15:59:14 · 20 answers · asked by Rich 1 in Singles & Dating

We are going to a resort and getting a room on the beach. We also will be going to this nice place for dinner. What are some UNEK Ideas that I can do to make the night more special.

Grown up answers only please, I don't need the opinions from "little boys" who just say have sex.....

2007-12-17 15:58:57 · 7 answers · asked by dohm84 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I just had a heated argument. She says she is going to file a police report tomorrow. I did not hurt her or threaten her. We yelled, got close and yelled. She hit me in the face six times. She spit in my face. I spit back. That's when she said she was calling the police.

My spitting back was wrong, and pulling the phone from her hand to try to reason with her was wrong. But in no way did I plan to scare or hurt her. I never have and couldn't imagine doing anything like that.

I am concerned on two parts:
1) Her filing a report - how does this affect my record? Is it public? CAN EMPLOYERS SEE IT?
2) She hit me in the face. That's HER abusing me. I am not worried about being harmed but ****, that's not exactly love.

Any legal advice?

2007-12-17 15:58:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 15:56:51 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to ask her out and I have asked out other girls in the past. I can't even have a normal conversation with her. I just never know what to talk about. What should I do and what are some good conversation topics?

2007-12-17 15:56:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you believe it hurt your chances with the ladies? Do you wish you were more cocky & crude or are you just fine with your gentleman ways?

2007-12-17 15:52:31 · 5 answers · asked by Sirius70 5 in Singles & Dating

:::Note, It IS NOT ME!::: I mean what are the odds this particular marriage will last? The guy is on his 6th wife and he's in his 30's. Why do people marry that much?

2007-12-17 15:51:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy I like and I recently asked him if he'd like to come visit me sometime he said : 3 hours is a long way for someone that does not have a car, but I can see what I can do.

I really like him and have known him for 4 yrs now. A girl that he fell for recently shot him down, so I don't really want to press him too much. I used to be best friends with his sister until she moved. He and I were always close too. He'd stick up for me and always be really kind to me even when he should have been upset. He'd go out of his way to make sure I was happy. I would like for us to have a better relationship, because yrs have passed and it seems as though we are trying to pick up were we left off but we've changed so much that we need to try another route. Lol. I'd really like if nothing else, just to be best friends with him again. If thats what makes him happy. But I know in my heart that I'll always have feelings for him.

I really do care about him and need to know what to do.

2007-12-17 15:50:43 · 1 answers · asked by Queen_Lollipop 2 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the situation my gf's parents dont like the fact that we have feelings 4 eachother so they forbid her from even talking 2 me. Her friends say they can help us date in secret but im thinking about a different approach. They are ignorant of us being together now but what if I can change their minds by showing them that i really am a good kid? Im afraid in a way 2 have a sit down w/ them but if i date behind there backs and they find out it will mean even more trouble. This is a true story one of my friends was talking about killing herself and I told her about how she's not the only person suffering and it had an impact on her. This was on the night i first wanted to get communication with her parents. So if I say that can they really hate me? Also what else can i say?

2007-12-17 15:48:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I've moved back to the town where I grew up (why is irrellevant). I'm in my mid-20's. It's a very small town, and there aren't a lot of single people here in my age range (23-35). The few who stayed around here are the ones who think it's cool to go out, get drunk, and either shoot things or set them on fire. So lately I've been lacking when it comes to social interaction with my peers in a non-work environment. My best friend is married with 2 kids.

Since I've come back, I've run into an old classmate of mine. We chat for a few minutes, but I'm usually working so we can't talk long. Very recently, he asked me if I'd like to go out with him and I agreed. I don't really have any romantic inclinations toward him, but I really want the social interaction with a peer. Is this a bad reason to go out with him?

2007-12-17 15:46:16 · 11 answers · asked by J-Dawn 7 in Singles & Dating

Be honest...Tell the truth!!!!

2007-12-17 15:45:43 · 15 answers · asked by sweetlady1 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

thinking some one was your friend but really cant stand the sight of you

2007-12-17 15:45:37 · 3 answers · asked by saveitok 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 6 years. We have had our ups and downs and everything in between. As of the past year we have really struggled to keep our marriage together. Things look good and then they go bad. Lately he has been staying out either all night or late into the morning. Sometimes he just leave and other he sneaks out. He even went as far as putting clothes in his car b4 i got home. He is a pretty laid back type of guy so that and all the dressing up has been strange. Anyway he is a great guy and provides for me and our family but something isnt right. The staying out and not answering the phone makes me think he is up to something. If he wants to be with someone else it would hurt but its better to get it out than have an affair. I love him but whats the use of all the heartache and pain. Someone please help.....

2007-12-17 15:45:36 · 12 answers · asked by simple 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not afraid to talk to a girl. I'm not afraid to ask them out. I'm not afraid to get rejected. What I'm afraid of is others opinions. Such as family members, friends, and general school students. I am mostly afraid of my friend opinions. I'm afraid they will make fun of me for asking them out and/or going out with them. I am afraid they will make fun of me in the future to when they bring it up after (if ever) I break up with that person. Should I ask this person out or no. Thanks!

2007-12-17 15:42:59 · 6 answers · asked by almostproskater411 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 15:40:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A co-worker set up another co-worker of mine with her best friend. The company I work for gave away four trips to Cancun as a reward for our accomplishments this year. Since three of us are married Lisa felt bad that Doyle was going to be the odd man out. Against my advise he decided to invite Lana ( Lisa's friend). He he told me she is always busy with her kids or school and she doesn't stay on the phone with him long. Well there was really nothing there so I didn't see anything wrong. This past weekend Doyle had called her to go out and she told him she was having dinner with a friend. Lisa called him about matter at the office, then she asked him what he did this weekend. He told her that he had tried to take Lana out but she was having dinner with a friend. Later Lisa called him saying she wanted to set the record straight and that Lana was out of her mind studying for exams and that she was at home. It just so happened that a friend said he saw her out that night.

2007-12-17 15:38:22 · 1 answers · asked by Zeke 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 15:38:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

age 17-18
They don't say anything at all, on AIM.

2007-12-17 15:37:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-17 15:34:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The bathroom lock in my house is old and sometimes the door says unlock even if you put the latch.
I had just gotten out of the shower... i was standing totally naked when the maid opened the door. i was so shooked i just stood there....... she started laughing and even stared at my........ even though she kept apologizing i felt really violated because she didn't leave the room immediately.. she kept staring.. and saying she is really sorry and looking down ... and that is when she started laughing. I honestly think she did it on purpose because she must have heard the water running. its really loud.. We never really got along.. she is mexican and pretty however a little stuck up and has a bit of an attitude. my parents however like her a lot. I think she did on purpose to make me feel stupid. Everything time i see her now she always starts laughing.

2007-12-17 15:33:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im always confused what to call them. Cousins? 2nd cousins? NO IDEA HELP ME OUT

2007-12-17 15:31:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Alright so I am a 19 y/o guy and I would never let a woman control anything about me I do what ever I want. But I have a few friends and see it all the time. I don't get it do they not have balls or something to me guys that are whipped like that arn't men but little boys. Some guys might as well be dogs, cuz it looks just like they r when there whipped like that anyways. I guess I just have lots of pride in myself and am independant, so don't get why any guy or girl would want to get contrtoled like that??? Alright so I have a friend who acts more or less like a ***** now cuz hes whipped. His girlfriend trys to instegate and get him to disrespect his friends. He recently called one of my friends who is also his friend and tried to ***** him out about teasing his girlfriend at work. But my other friend just said it aint his problem and pretty much told him to f**** off. His girlfriend is really a b**** and he needs to break up with her what can I do???

2007-12-17 15:30:50 · 6 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy had a crush on me first then he stopped talking to me for a while, then I started to have a crush on him and I confessed it over a text message. These past days before my confession of feelings to him we have spoken over the phone, but he sounds sort of sad. However, since yesterday he has not replied to me @ all. Did I make a mistake in telling him?

2007-12-17 15:30:36 · 2 answers · asked by Hello K 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean stereotypes like "all men cheat" and "men don't feel affection, only lust" - do you think they encourage women to put up with lousy treatment on the assumption that all men are that way?

2007-12-17 15:30:29 · 23 answers · asked by Mich 4 in Singles & Dating

My hubby and I brought home his nephew to live with us. He's a very good kid. The only problem is that he eats with his mouth open and makes a lot of noise when he eats. I want to talk to him about it. Just don't know how to tell him with out hurting his feelings. ( He's 13 )

2007-12-17 15:29:03 · 5 answers · asked by JustMe! 3 in Family