I'm not afraid to talk to a girl. I'm not afraid to ask them out. I'm not afraid to get rejected. What I'm afraid of is others opinions. Such as family members, friends, and general school students. I am mostly afraid of my friend opinions. I'm afraid they will make fun of me for asking them out and/or going out with them. I am afraid they will make fun of me in the future to when they bring it up after (if ever) I break up with that person. Should I ask this person out or no. Thanks!
2007-12-17 15:42:59 · 6 answers · asked by almostproskater411 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry about what other people thinks. they do that cause they are jealous. they just dont wanna see u happy. just go and be able to make comebacks. dont let them bring u down when u r happy. got for it, and it will be worth it. dont wait when u know u can achieve it. go man!!!
2007-12-17 15:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by viper 004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not afraid for yourself, then don't be afraid on account of others. Hey, everyone is going to have an opinion on anything you do - doesn't mean it is a worthwhile opinion. I always say that opinions are like A**holes - everybody has one, but it is usually considered polite to keep yours to yourself! If you remember this, then you will be much less bothered by other people's opinions. Yeah, let them talk! Just think of it as the rustling of the leaves in the trees - background noise, with no importance! Be strong, and don't worry about everyone else. Good luck!
2007-12-17 15:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me give you a visual and you answer this yourself..my brother has always cared way too much about what his friends and our dad and other brother thinks about his choice in girls..they (especially our dad and brother) always pick and tease him about them,and then when he brings a girl around them they tell her embarrassing stuff about him and piss him off to the point that he has just stopped asking girls out,,and when he does he feels the need to hide it from everyone because of the slack that he will catch..my brother the one who lives his life based on what others think,,is now 26 yrs old and has never had a real relationship with any girl...now,,do you want that kind of life? do want what others think to affect your life so much that you live all of it without someone that YOU like and want to be with.....think about it....
2007-12-17 15:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 words.
you're brave.
except.. one thing. your friends, family members.. people like that.
if they really cared.. they wouldn't make fun of you. they'd be proud that you asked them out.
ask yourself this. do you want to go out with that girl?
or do you want to stick with dreaming about going out with her but you just can't because of other people?
it's between you and her. not anyone else.
try to forget everyone is around you.
try to think that this your moment. your time. and that you'll enjoy it while you have it.
if your family members and friends don't want you dating her.
make them deal with it.
2007-12-17 15:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask them out, who cares what you mates think. If they really are your mates they will accept it and think it's cool that you've got a girlfriend.
2007-12-17 15:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should postpone dating until you're older and more confident about dealing with opinions.
2007-12-17 15:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋