Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

i'm having problems with my boyfriends overbearing grmotherto the point that she invites his ex over almost daily he's addressed this with her but she continues to do it, now i dont visit or call at all. his mother is deceased and i'm tired of this meddling old woman in our life she tells him not to stay overnight at my place and always is telling him negative things this is sickening to the point that he hardly visists her i only want us all to try and get along but it is becoming unbearable to deal with it this lady is 81 yrs old and should be knitting somewhere instead of gambling at the casino every weekend. i love this man very much but some things will try even the most strong any suggestions out there.......

2007-12-17 13:49:47 · 2 answers · asked by m32 1 in Family

I am 14, and a pretty nice guy. I also am basically a serious person. But over the years I have loosened up more and more, I mean, you only live to be a kid once. I know - enjoy it while you can!

I myself have gotten bullied in the past, and has died down over the years as I've loosened up. But I really don't want to loosen up like so much that I'm the pirincibals office all teh time!

Hoe can I continue to increase my reputation in a positive way, without going to far?

2007-12-17 13:49:31 · 2 answers · asked by Labeless 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Also tell me if your a male or female.

2007-12-17 13:49:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A (standing on far left) :


B (standing on far right) :


C :

2007-12-17 13:48:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Nothing country please. Thanks

2007-12-17 13:44:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-12-17 13:43:00 · 6 answers · asked by Dathletez 2 in Family

KAY. IF I WANNA MAKE THE FIRST MOVE ON A GUY. HOW WOULD I DO IT?

2007-12-17 13:42:29 · 1 answers · asked by haley 1 in Singles & Dating

have a crush on my teacher and we r going out i am 16 yo we have a dance/prom comming up and 1 of my friend saw me and him in the car together wat do i do she is out to tell the whole school so my life is fu*ked please help me stop her
-and i love him don't want to get into troble
or lose his job
-don't blame him it is both our fault
-he does not deserves it plus it is out of school -when in school he don't talk 2 me
every 1 knows there is something happning and it is a bit more than a crush

2007-12-17 13:39:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About sex. How should i get positioned and get ready?

2007-12-17 13:36:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out a year ago that my brother has been cheating on his wife since October of 2006. He has even proposed to his mistress and talked of having children with her!

I've talked to him several times about it and he keeps saying that he is going to divorce his wife and that he is going to keep the truth about the affair from her "because it would hurt her too much." He's been saying the same thing since LAST Christmas.

Now he is bringing his clueless wife home for the Holidays. I know he hasn't loved his wife in years and that he apparently loves the mistress very much. I am VERY mad at him for putting me in this situation. I am supposed to smile and look his wife in the face and pretend that they are a happy married couple?

I actually really like and respect his wife. I don't think she is very happy with him though, but her family doesn't believe in divorce. Do I tell her of my idiot brother's affair? He seems to want to but is unable because of guilt at hurting her.

2007-12-17 13:36:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and why?

2007-12-17 13:36:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok I feel like I am not doing a very good job listening to my mom. Me and my mom always get into fights and I feel guilty when she is making a "speech"about how I am not good to her. My brother, ok, he bothers me and i yell at him. then i get into trouble and my mom says i annoy her to and that she doesnt yell at me. I need advice on how to change. I have tried many times but i think im just not getting it. I tried once then my brother got on my nerves like seriously!! then i get in trouble. Im moving and i will try to change my life. But i need advice right now... Could u help me????

2007-12-17 13:33:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-17 13:31:09 · 7 answers · asked by john p 1 in Weddings

I fell for this woman a couple of months ago and last week built up the courage to tell her, she is devorced of 7 years and we get on really well, she says she has feelings for me but doesn't want to feel insecure around me if we went out, due to me being younger. I want to move on but my feelings won't pass as I think her excuse is overcomeable. It hurts so bad and I don't know what to do. All constructive advise welcome

2007-12-17 13:29:48 · 27 answers · asked by r9eds 1 in Singles & Dating

This was the girl who said hi to me every day with so much enthusiasm she even smiled and waved when doing it. But now when no other girl was good enough the one I thought liked me has not done anything else to show for it but this-
At the dance she smiled at me and said Hi and waved at the same time and said my name while doing it. Here is how it went when I asked her out
The story starts out by my friend telling her I wanted to talk to her, she said hold a sec. Then she came over to me and stood very close and looked at me dead in the eyes. I said hey do you go out with anyone and she said no. Then I asked her does she want to go out with me and she smiled. She smiled like she was flattered. Then she tapped me on my left arm twice while saying" I'll have to think about that Cameron". I asked her if she wanted my numbeer and she said okay with enthusiasm. I gave it to her and she asked me did I already save it. The dance was December 14, it's the 16th and she ahs not called

2007-12-17 13:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many of you waitied until marriage to have sex?

How many of you are waiting till marriage to have sex?

How did that work for you? And are u happy with ur choices?

2007-12-17 13:26:16 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 10 almost 11 in two weeks and i want to know if you think i should have a boyfriend,well you know hat i mean not serious relationship, but like.. a crush
that likes me and i like him and just say (we are together) i know this sounds funny in all lol but i came here for answers as friends not as my parents lol
anyway its 5th grade one of the best years till jr.high
lets just call it ,..puppy love?
he is the same age too 10-11 hes older hi b-day is in 4 days and i want to know..
i really feel uncomfortable asking my mom or friends.
well we arnt gonna be derious but u know just to have someone to hang out with.
we skateboard all the time with each other and he said he likes me... he asked me on a date i dont how we are we are only ten but i guess we just skate board and talk but nothing SERIOUS im not one of those girls who want to have sex... eww
ok well plz comment thanx

-czr

2007-12-17 13:17:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met a woman not to long ago and recently found out she had implants. I have always said I would never date a woman who had implants because women who get that procedure done are shallow and she would probably pick apart my imperfections. Women say size doesn't matter but they are the ones getting the enlargements.I think I am going to end this relationship

2007-12-17 13:16:30 · 17 answers · asked by Steel D 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he doesnt know it and i want to tell him but i dont want to feel weird afterwards and what if he doesnt like me? any advice on what to do?

2007-12-17 13:16:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is starting to smoke and when i asked her why she was smoking she said bcuz she wanted to, So it scares me that she'll really hurt herself bcuz she already has trouble breathing and so i dont want her to damage that anymore than it already is. I've told her it will hurt me and our friendship and its bcuz it makes me think that she doesn't mind hurting herself. Do you think that I should tell her parents about it so that way she quits or should i just leave her be bcuz im REALLY scared for her and she doesn't even know how much she matters to me and it would hurt me so bad if i lost her! Please give me advice. I don't know how to say that she needs to quit. =/

2007-12-17 13:15:11 · 8 answers · asked by I <3 you 1 in Friends

to fight her and beat the **** out of her she isnt going to be left standing when i finish with her she will be knocked out and very badly hurt her do you have any tips we are both 14 but she is taller than me im 5ft and she is 5ft 9 she has an advantage over me if i dont know how to defend myself properly she will hurt me very badly and probably break my bones and she wont stop until im knocked out or not able to stand up

2007-12-17 13:14:03 · 8 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Friends

Okay, my parents are divorced and both of them are dating other people. anyway, my dad was coming for Xmas dinner, and he just canceled and said he was coming for desert. my mom is so freaking upset, she was yelling and crying in the phone. she's really mad that he's not coming for Xmas and she called his gf "skanky". she's going all out like "oh i'm so sorry your fathers leaving you..bla bla i know how it feels my dad left me when i was young..." she's really annoying. anyway i'm not that sad but i am kinda upset. what should i do about my mom and about my dad not coming... :*(
zoe

2007-12-17 13:13:56 · 4 answers · asked by Zoe Z 1 in Family

I have no real experiance with this love thing and have limited knowledge on it. My best friend just found out that the guy she loves just moved away. She moved away back in the summer, but still had some contact when she visited with her aunt out there. She never had a chance to tell him how she really feels. I've had that happen to me and my best freind (still waiting for her to write me back on my page), but still have no clue what to tell her. I dont want her to be all depressed and down. If you guys can help with some good words of encouragement, it would be greatly appreciated. blessed be

2007-12-17 13:12:36 · 1 answers · asked by corpsmanlove1! 3 in Singles & Dating

I left him one year ago after 25 years of marriage.He succeded in hiding a perfec t doble life with his secretary for 15 years!!But nothing lasts for ever.He has been calling almost every day since I left.He has been spying on me to know what I´m doing for Xmas holidays.Of course I won´t tell him.I ´ve told him to let me alone as he is living with his secretary.I no longer answer his calls but sometimes I get desperate.Why can´t he accept that I need to be as happy as he is .I never annoy them.I´m 46,our children are over 20 by now.

2007-12-17 13:12:09 · 20 answers · asked by monique 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so here's the deal. I like this person, and I thought that he liked me too. He was always flirting w/ me and i thought I thought that I was reading the signs correctly. But I found that he doesn't like me, but he likes my best friend! She has a boyfriend, so she doesn't like him. I never told anyone that I liked this guy and know I think its a good thing i didn't. I am really upset and confused. i don't know what to do. How can i make him like me? My Best friend rejected him, but I still like him and can't stop! =[

2007-12-17 13:10:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should a person get mad because his friends told him his wife was talking to a guy in the club?

2007-12-17 13:06:53 · 10 answers · asked by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 in Marriage & Divorce

OMG umm well i had sex with this random like 16 year old at a party and Im really upset about it and I dont know what to do!!!! please help???

2007-12-17 13:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this girl from work ..i am 30 shes 24. shes cute i flirt . i bring her donuts or food or help her at everything . I talk to her . i try to smile at her at all the time . i give her high fives .. i really like her but there is a problem i have 3 kids and a girlfriend ..yeah .. suc*ks n ways. she didnt knwo this till a nother girl killed it for me and said aloud oh hows your kids and the girl i liked said .. WOW.she was surprised .. i think she liked me .. but not no more .. i am sad .. she even said how come i didnt go to the x mas party ? what was i doing ?

do you think i should go for it ?

2007-12-17 13:05:51 · 13 answers · asked by oc714dude77 1 in Singles & Dating

Such as she the other women caused the divorce. You can sue her for money? You have to prove that she persued him.Just became a new law in TEXAS.

2007-12-17 13:05:08 · 13 answers · asked by Just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A some people in our families (including my fiance's grandmother) are etiquette nazis. They jump all over us if we do something for our wedding that isn't "by the rules". It really annoys us and makes us feel like we aren't planning our own wedding.. What should we do?

2007-12-17 13:04:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings