About sex. How should i get positioned and get ready?
2007-12-17 13:36:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off you should have condoms.... secondly you should understand female anatomy... have you brought her to orgasm yet? If you haven't done it with your hands or orally I guarntee she won't get any pleasure from the vaginal for some time.... Do you know about the clitoris? If she is a virgin be prepared for her to suffer a lot of pain and bleed. Be sure to have some water based lube on hand and use it. Be sure you have the finacial resources to handle any doctor bills that might result from a UTI, yeast infection, STD, or pregnacy... Do you have the means to get her to a doctor?
2007-12-17 13:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not ready yet. When the time comes that you are, it will happen naturally. I know that there is pressure to be sexually active as young as possible, but the truth is... it takes a REAL MAN to have the guts to resist peer pressure and do something when it is right and not because someone else tells you that you should.
2007-12-17 21:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by busymomkaren 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a natural thing. Remove clothing slowly, kissing as you go. Start with lots of kissing and foreplay. DON'T RUSH. Take your time. The longer the experience lasts, the better for her. If you feel like you are getting 'overwhelmed' tell her & wait a couple of seconds. Tell her you want to make it last. concentrate on her pleasure, not yours. Good Luck.....
2007-12-17 21:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Headley-Le-Mar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres no rush the sex should mean something it shouldnt be just sex. Im 16 and still a virgin and proud of it Im jsut waiting for the right girl as you should be to
2007-12-17 21:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by palmerguy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the other ones you shouldnt have to ask how to get ready but hey if you think you are then go for it but watever you do dont jus pull her pants down let her do it just coz your ready dosnt mean ti say she is and if she knows what shes doing then dont be shy to ask im shure shel rather tell you what she likes then for you to bore her to sleep lol no offence
2007-12-17 21:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...dude come on now...thats a pretty blunt question. I agree with the first person, doesnt seem like your ready. But if you must, I'd just fool around and if it happens it'l just happen. I dont think no one really "prepares" for it like the way your making it sound.
2007-12-17 21:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol its something that should come naturally...it just happens the way it happens i guess..you'll know once you get down to it. definitely start with the making out first...and finding out if she actually wants to have sex with her before taking any of her cloths off. it doesn't matter how the cloths come off but the rest does. you dont want to be bad at bed...so i suggest getting more practice...or watch porn like most guys do
2007-12-17 21:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well thats how it started for me....but if you do have to ask i really think you should wait. i mean come on its okay for a first time to be akward..everyones is. besides, do you really even know if she wants sex too? its a good question to know
2007-12-17 21:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by XñΘ×ØÑΣ×└Ö√ËŠ×╫ë®X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready yet. Wait until a few more years!!
2007-12-17 21:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by Tesco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you wait until you can get somewhere comfortable private and safe then you can spend as much time as you like getting to know each other and your bodies --- then let nature take its course --- it does work out --- and be safe at all times
2007-12-17 21:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋