OMG umm well i had sex with this random like 16 year old at a party and Im really upset about it and I dont know what to do!!!! please help???
2007-12-17 13:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and Im 14 and ummm my period is three weeks late, but i took a pregnancy test and it was negative.... im really scared!!!
2007-12-17 13:13:13 · update #1
also how long do i have to wait because its been nearly a month since we did it and i took a test 2 weeks ago and it was negative, but should i take another one?!?!?
I really dont know what to do. who do i talk to??
2007-12-17 15:24:45 · update #2
Well the first thing is did you use any form of protection? that is very important sweetie.And don't beat up on your self we have all made mistakes and we will make a lot more,the main thing is we learn and forgive ourselves and move on.Always keep self respect for your self make sure that the next time if there is a next time before marriage that it is someone that you love trust and respect and feels the same way about you.You sound like this was your first time, and if you did not use protection there is a chance of being pregnant, but it is to early to tell.You don't say how old you are how long it has been since you had sex with this guy. So keep in contact with us if we can help any further good luck hon. And Happy Holidays
2007-12-17 14:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey well no offence but that is very young to be having sex but it is you decision and I dont want to get into your business but first GO TO A DOCTOR!!!! you need to see if you have and STI because this guy might of had sex w/ someone else that could of had HIV or something you just never know and 1 out of every 4 people have and STI so you should deffently go to an OBGYN and get checked out that would be the safiest!
and best of luck
2007-12-17 21:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help? How? You can't undo it. Hope you didn't get pregant or get an STD, and in the future be more responsible about who you have sex with.
You should probably see your doctor and get checked out to make sure you're okay...then get on a good form of hormonal birth control, carry condoms with you, and use better judgement!
2007-12-17 21:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax a little and quit being so hard on yourself!!! It was a 1 nite stand for the both of you. I hope you used protection, against STD' etc., and pregnacies!! Good luck, and be a little more careful ,, You mite just get lucky this time!!!
2007-12-17 23:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of help are you looking for?
Forgiveness? See a minister
Pregnant? See a doctor
Rationalization? See a shrink
Encouragement to repeat? See the 16 year old
Your question is incomplete.
2007-12-17 21:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
did u use protection!? if you didnt go to a doctor and look for ur period!
2007-12-17 21:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get tested
2007-12-17 21:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sexii Chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋