Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

2007-12-17 12:19:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my girl have been together for a year now but now all of a sudden shes always on the phone with her ex boyfriend....were still together and she even has conversations in front of me with him...nothing personal tho but one night she forgot to call me and two hours later called and lied...come to find out she was talking to him and now she even taunts me sometimes sayin ill be talking to him all night....i mean just to make me mad or is she really trying to break this off with me...i need a ladies opinion

2007-12-17 12:19:12 · 18 answers · asked by slimblack24 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 and i moved back home over the summer to continue college here and save money. I pay $250/month. I have no clue what to do, my parents still treat me like a child. Everyday i come home from work or school and there's a note "clean your room" waiting for me; they should not be snooping through my things. I don't mind them wanting me to call them when i go out or go to school, but calling me every 20mins is just rediculous. I came home to save money and focus on school; i did not come home and pay rent to be treated like a child. My brother messed up alot when i was his age and i feel like i;m getting the reprecussions. I know they love and care about me and dont want me to make the same mistakes he did but they're suffocating me to the point where im gonna just move out. I've talked to them so many times but it just ends in an arguement. How do i get them to listen and compromise with me. or should i just move out?

2007-12-17 12:19:08 · 4 answers · asked by flo 2 in Family

2007-12-17 12:17:45 · 34 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend is sooooooooooo immature if you say something like lets go do it like in a sentence she laughs and now she is like cusing up the wall and sometimes she flips me off for no reason she called me a f*$#ing b@#$% for no reason too she just keeps doing it how do i handle this she is worse than a annoying teenage brother and is being a brat what should i do with out getting into a fight with her

2007-12-17 12:14:28 · 16 answers · asked by me 2 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been exclusive for a year now. We are in love!!!! He is definitely the one for me and I am the love of his life, and marriage is for sure in our future. But not just yet. I just found out this past weekend that he is legally married!!! I came across the papers. About 4 years ago, his mom and her really good friend came to him crying saying that her daughter couldn't go to school in America and they were going to send her back to Mexico. Well my boyfriend has known her for years and she is practically family and he felt bad. So they made an agreement to marry so she can become legal and then divorce. When finding all of this out and having him explain this to me, I wasn't quite sure how to take it or how to feel. He told me that no one knows about it except for them, and he was going to talk to his mom about telling me, because it was important for me to know. So how would you feel about something like this? How would you react? I am really confused.. Help.

2007-12-17 12:13:05 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I drove my boyfriend home - i wasn't expecting to have to leave so quickly - you know just.. drop him off and go with a quick goodbye ((i hate saying goodbye to him but oh well that's besides the point)) I didn't want to drive off right away... I just felt like sitting and chilling so i just sat in my car for a few minutes outside of his house. He calls me like wtf? telling me i'm a creepy stalker girlfriend and he's half considering calling the cops on me...
I mean i could've turned my head lights off but i wasn't thinking about that. ((you couldn't see me from the house anyway, i wasn't parked out front)) I was just relaxing a little before i had to get back on the interstate and go home.
On a scale of 1 to 10, how creepy is that? 10 being the creepiest.

2007-12-17 12:12:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey! I am 23 and my boyfriend is 22 i am about to move in with him and i dont even know his middle name!!! I know it starts with an F but he wont tell me! do you think he is embarrassed or what?????

2007-12-17 12:11:56 · 2 answers · asked by Mychele h 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i fell head over heals for my best friends brother[ex best friend. we fell out in all the drama from this] . ((And if your just going to say its not real and i don't know what love is because I'm too young then leave because I don't want to hear it.)) Hes 16 turning 17 and I'm 14. The only person who have a major problem with it is his mother who's making my life hell. We have a lot of fun and we really do like each other a lot but his mother is doing everything in her power to stop him from seeing me. Shes going to extremes and doing things like hiding his car miles away from home and she recently got a steering wheel lock. I don't see her major problem but then again i do have a somewhat biased opinion. I don't think what we're doing is all that bad but it seems like no matter what i do she hates me more. Any thoughts?

2007-12-17 12:10:03 · 4 answers · asked by Marazh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know of a 16 year old boy who is friends with my son. He lives with 2 sisters and a mother. The father passed way years ago and mother is bed ridden and stays in bed all the time. She is a private person and would get very upset if I called her or showed up at her house. Her son says that his mother stays in bed and passes out and messes her bed but he is worried about her. Last time he called the hospital they came and took her and brought her back 3 days later. I know the boy has some concerns that the house they live in is not willed and that the mother refuses to write a will. I have offered him a place to stay after the mother dies but what can I do meantime to make sure that she is ok. I don't want to interfere but is there an agency that takes over and keeps the children's bwst interest?

2007-12-17 12:09:40 · 5 answers · asked by aim w 3 in Family

is something worth saying even if it might damage your relationship permanantly.

my sister is really selfish, i had a miscarriage early this year and have been pretty sick ever since with ulcers and one thing and another. she sees me as an in-house babysitter and while i love spending time with my nephew i want to go get on with my life. she doesn't arrange any childcare for him just me but some days i'm not up to it, like being sick alot. she has my parents pay for the baby and she spends so much money. i dont wanna bring her down really but it's getting a bit too much. i dont really have time for myself because she organises my time for me. if i'm not babysitting then i'm shopping for her or cooking. my point is if i'm well enough to do that i should be working but she hasn't planned for me to go back to work. there's more but thats a hint at what's up.

If i tell her i'm worried about losing her, but she's taking advantage of me i feel.

2007-12-17 12:05:43 · 5 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Family

So there was this guy I would talk to about a good 2-3 months ago. we would literally text every minute. we got into a big fight cuz this girl came in and started drama and we haven't talked since then. so now today i wanna text him but i dont know what to text him. like i cant just say "hey whats up" or i dont know. HELPPP MEE

or should i just forget about it...?

2007-12-17 12:05:07 · 28 answers · asked by theresa =] 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to know, will it be hard to deal with, will I be looked down on,

2007-12-17 11:59:49 · 49 answers · asked by Audrey 1 in Singles & Dating

How important is sex, money, looks in a marriage? If you have other traits please explain.

2007-12-17 11:55:07 · 17 answers · asked by lifelongskinsfan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We married in August, and had been looking at a home in an old friend's neighborhood. We got a nicer, cheaper one elsewhere. The old friend invited himself and fam to our wedding, we tolerated it, not about to make a scene. They waited til all other gifts were open, and then made sure everyone saw them give us a $2,000 check! Hubby asked later if they were sure, since they have five kids and don't make much money. He scoffed and was insulted. We live debt-free, so we spent it paying for the wedding. Well, christmas is here, and he came over wanting it back, playing the "I have kids' card. we said if they need it, we can repay him as we get the money *we work for Microsoft, we have money, but we are paying what we owe for home, wedding, etc* He yelled, and a neighbor came to see what was up, and he said we owe him 2 G's for writing a check in his name. He has ruined our rep in a new neighborhood, and people think we're ID thieves! *young, nice house, etc* what to do?

2007-12-17 11:53:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok so here's the deal...i LOVE my husband don't get me wrong but i'm seriously getting tired of feeling like i'm just a shadow in his life...i talk to him about my day or even ask him something and he completely ignores me..if something makes him mad..even something small like him having a cold, he takes it out on me...when we run into guys he works with he ignores me, won't introduce me or anything...he acts like a total jerk to people i work with but if i went into his job and treated people the way he does that would be a huge fight...like tonight it's his companies christmas party and where am i at? at home because that means i would have meet people and their families...a mutual friend came into today where i work and noticed i've lost weight and commented about it..i don't even get a compliment from my husband... i swear i feel like myself and my kids are some deep hidden secret he doesn't want anyone to know about...i don't know what to do...

2007-12-17 11:51:39 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ Infantry Wife ♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 15 yrs old and my dad has a friend whom the family has known for yrs. 3 yrs ago, we went to see him (my dad + i) and he made comments about my weight. sure there was room for improvement but he asked me how much i weighed. when i told him he told me i must be lying because i looked much heavier. he hurt my feelings, i now have no respect for him or his opinions. i thought you know he was a friend and i didnt realize he was the enemy. it hurt my self-esteem. i became anorexic for a month. im healthy now and happy but i still fault him for that. i was almost 13 then, i didnt know how to handle being called fat. what was worse was my dad took his side and agreed that i was fat. well i havent seen him for 3 yrs and he and his family are coming for x-mas dinner. how can i hold my peace with him when i dont think i have fully forgiven him? i still have so much anger towards him and its making me sick just thinking he'll be at my house on x-mas. how should i handle myself and actions?

2007-12-17 11:50:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hello, I was just wondering how should I pick my bridesmaids? Some of my best friends have turned out to be people that I don't even know. They have all moved away and changed SO much in the worst of all ways, and now when I talk to them I feel like i'm talking to a complete stranger. Should I have them as my bridesmaids?.. and also, I had one VERY good friend back in high school, we were best friends for about 10 years, and now only talk on occasion. Should I have her as a bridesmaid, or should bridesmaids only be girls who are close to you, and will always be a part of your life?

2007-12-17 11:50:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

im in love with my boyfriend of 6yrs. we have a 5 yr old daughter. he is my world for so many reasons. too many for me to name. but on the surface neither one of us is perfect. he has been in prison(twice), been with numerous women, has at least 6 possible kids from 4 different women, he has cheated repeatedly and barely knew the meaning of being "committed", has a long criminal history(none of it violent, well one was but it was justified). he also has never held a legal job. but he has grown and changed and is now a great man and a loving father. i have also cheated many times (including w/ his cousin), ive been with many guys,had a paternity issue w/ him regarding our daughter. ive also done many questionable things to him and have had issues being faithful. most people dont support us. our parents say "go for it". our friends and other family think we're both crazy. we are in love and want to be married. our pasts are just that and we've changed. what should we do?

2007-12-17 11:49:12 · 16 answers · asked by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 19 and have never really had a true love and have really only had 1 gf....it this normal....all the girls i like go after the scum bags and losers...i am a nice and loving person...i dont get it at all and maby i never will...

2007-12-17 11:48:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy (that i like) probably talk every night on the phone some nights its good and we have fun but sometimes its just dead...so its not like i am shy or he is, we are really good friends but i'm wondering what kind of things i can talk about...and i dont mean like his favortie sport or work or whatever i need interesting things that wont seem too random to just bring up you know? i know this is asking alot but please! help! i dont want him to think im boring even though its just caused we have talked about everything possible to talk about.

2007-12-17 11:47:38 · 11 answers · asked by Jennifer T 1 in Singles & Dating

I want an honest opinion do you find country girls or city girls more attractive and why?

2007-12-17 11:47:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lately i have been having some marrital problems and I think some of them are because I have unrelistic expections of my husband. I have no loving family so I rely a lot on him. I have put all my focus and attention on my husband and my son. I am a great wife and a wonderful mother but other then that I know nothing about myself. I think if I develop a sense of who I am I would be an even better mom and wife and I would feel more whole. How can I begin to search for what makes me .. me.

2007-12-17 11:46:40 · 11 answers · asked by Mommy of 2) 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Because if mean and selfish people knew that they were that way,
then why are they still like that?

2007-12-17 11:44:15 · 1 answers · asked by Kristina <33 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is your feeling about it?

2007-12-17 11:43:45 · 2 answers · asked by william 5 in Singles & Dating

ok if siamese twins are a boy and a girl.... what bathroom do they use.... the mens or womens room?im just wondering.... i know it sounds funny... me and my friends were thinking about it and i couldnt get a straight answer, and i want to know soo bad..

2007-12-17 11:42:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is getting in my nerves he lives with me and my husband and when he comes home from work all he does is go and lays down on the sofa with a blanket and waches tv all day and it bothers me because i can never just sit down on my living room and relax how can i get him to stop going this or how should i tell him??

2007-12-17 11:42:15 · 5 answers · asked by cristina p 2 in Family

i have heards so many rumours abut this all over and i want answers...does doing anal sex really make it hard when ur older or even younger to "hold stuff in" like...i have heard people say u have to wear diapers when ur older and stuff.

what are the facts..
whats ur opninion??

2007-12-17 11:42:07 · 1 answers · asked by kool k 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i are 18, my fiance is finishing his last year in high school. we are currently living with his parents and they keep fighting with us over really stupid stuff and its getting out of hand and my parents wont take me back, but we had a plan on getting a house with fiance's brother and gf and they agreed to paying half of everything but we just got a phone call saying that they just broke up and he's moving back in here. i don't want to be here any longer, plz get me some advise, i moved form or to pa and i feel so bad for doing it and my own family wont take me back, but i do love my fiance and i want to be with him for the rest of my life but how are we suppost to be happy when ppl keep making this very hard for us. but i can talk forever about this but just plz give some advise if you have any and plz dont be rude or nasty thanks. ?

2007-12-17 11:41:42 · 26 answers · asked by Babygiirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

anything will help i have like three days to write 1,500 words

2007-12-17 11:41:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family