Me and my girl have been together for a year now but now all of a sudden shes always on the phone with her ex boyfriend....were still together and she even has conversations in front of me with him...nothing personal tho but one night she forgot to call me and two hours later called and lied...come to find out she was talking to him and now she even taunts me sometimes sayin ill be talking to him all night....i mean just to make me mad or is she really trying to break this off with me...i need a ladies opinion
2007-12-17 12:19:12 · 18 answers · asked by slimblack24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is weird, my advice would be talk to her, tell her it's making you uncomfortable. Exes can be weird, and there really is no telling what type of relationship they may or may not have unless you ask her.
I wish you the best of luck with this situation, but I would say it might be better for you in the long run if you let her go. Exes should stay exes, friends with exes is fine, but not when they jeopardize your relationship with someone new.
2007-12-17 12:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ain't a lady, but I think I have an answer for you.
She doesn't respect you man. There's no excuse for that. You gotta stomp that crap out. She's talking to him for 1 of 2 reasons.
1. Because she's trying to send you a hint that you're doing something wrong. Most likely because you don't do enough for her.
2. She's trying to sabotage the relationship. She's done with you two, and is blatantly trying to destroy what you have.
And what you have is not much if she's so willing to hurt you with taunts and staying on the phone with him. Chances are, you're maybe TOO good to her, and she's exploiting your vulnerable heart.
Respect yourself, stand up, and tell her if she's not ready to take you seriously, it's over. There's other girls out there man, better than her. Don't take anything you don't have to.
2007-12-17 20:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by visual K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i don't know what to tell. but what she is doin is messed up. why would she talk to her ex boyfriend on the phone with u right there? that is just plan out wrong. i mean the only thing that u can do is tell her how u feel bout everything that she is doin ( talkin to her ex on the phone) and after u tell her if she doesn't stop then she doesn't care bout ur feelings or the relationship. so that means that u should break it off with her. and yea it may hurt but look at what she is doin to you. well i hope that i have been of help. and good luck!
2007-12-17 20:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with her for a year, why is she on the phone talking to an ex? It doesn't matter if SHE is trying to break it off with you--she is making a fool out of you. Have some pride and dump her. (despite my avatar, I am a woman. didn't get around to changing that yet)
2007-12-17 20:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by beecher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there may be something going on with her ex. If she "forgets" to call you because she is talking to him, she may be doing something you don't want to know about. I would talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel about it and that you don't think it's reasonable for her to be talking to him all night.
2007-12-17 20:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by trivkc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His conversation is probably better than yours...plus she may be doing this to test you or to make you jealous. As a matter of fact, she may not even be talking to HIM at all. Girls try any number of things to make their boyfriends jealous.
2007-12-17 20:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by rare2findd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her. I'm not gonna lie, she's obviously more interested in her ex and she's trying to hint that she doesn't want a relationship with you anymore.
2007-12-17 20:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummm, I'm trying to imagine myself in her position.
Honestly, I might still have some feelings for my ex.
And I'm in between 2 guys who wants me, and I have no clue which to choose.
Or I'll just be catching up with him for good old time sake.
2007-12-17 20:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is love with her ex now, she is doing that to hot you ,go on your own separate way
2007-12-17 20:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Pretty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should ask her what they talk about since she lied to you that means maybe shes cheating on you or something. id check up on that
2007-12-17 20:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋