is getting in my nerves he lives with me and my husband and when he comes home from work all he does is go and lays down on the sofa with a blanket and waches tv all day and it bothers me because i can never just sit down on my living room and relax how can i get him to stop going this or how should i tell him??
2007-12-17 11:42:15 · 5 answers · asked by cristina p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I used to have this problem myself, luckily enough it was my own brother, so i used to tell him not to do it. You need to discuss this with your husband, and kindly tell him that he has worn out his welcome. You need to be honest. It's your house after all. If you don't want to throw him out he needs to relax in his own space and you or you hubby should be honest with him, its the only way you will get your house back. Good luck. :)
2007-12-17 11:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he gets home be on the couch watching tv eating popcorn. dont let him take over your living room. where is his room? does he sleep on the couch? have the kids watch tv in the living rooom or do thier homework in the living room. make him relocate. do this everyday and I bet he will not be looking forward to coming home because he knows you will hog the couch. goodl uck.
2007-12-17 20:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a conversation with your husband and then you two come up with what you both feel is acceptable for you. Then he needs to talk to his brother. The other option is simply that he must move. It could start to come between your relationship. It caused problems with us and now my bil doesn't talk to us and it's very sad for my husband.
2007-12-17 19:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by oh_my_its_linda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay on the couch before he gets home and when he walks in the door, ask him when is he gonna get his own place?
2007-12-17 19:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a tv for christmas for his room.
2007-12-17 19:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋