Women!! What makes a perfect husband...?

Question

How important is sex, money, looks in a marriage? If you have other traits please explain.

Answer 1

the perfect husband is one who respects his wife, stands up for her and is never afraid to show her off and let everyone know how much he loves her... it doesn't matter about looks or money but the sex has to be reasonable and even if he has a small pepi then he will satisfy his wife in many other waay SB

Answer 2

Sex is important because women have just as much as a sexual drive as a man (however culture will tell you no). It's just that we have more at stake when we have sex. Males don't get pregnant and all the health/money problems with it. So be patient.

Which brings me to my next topic. A patient husband is a perfect husband. No lady wants an irrational abuser on them or children (if there are any in the future). Not all women want children so be prepared.

Money is important. It's apart of nature. The male that can gift the female with the best gift is the winner. That means he's strong, patient, wise, and intellegant enough to know how to get that nice thing to provide.

Women like a healthy male. A male that is symmetrical is a healthy male.

Answer 3

Communication and trust! If you have that, all you need is a mutual attraction. Sex will not mean all that much later on, but communicating WILL. Sense of Humor and a willingness to comprimise, this will be a BIG ISSUE if you have children, comprimise is something we all need. Be willing to miss a football game for a ballet recital if wife is willing to let you watch the games all day on Sunday. Be willing to bend sometimes. Be willing to cook at times, wives don't really like cooking. Finances are important but what means more if you have children is T I M E! You become a coach for the kids football team or softball team, spend good quality time and your A DIAMOND IN THE ROUGH!!!!! Time means the WORLD to a child and a Wife!

Know when to laugh things off, realize material things aren't going with you so don't FREAK OUT if something is ripped or broken, people are worth WAY MORE! Smile, be happy and never give anyone reason to mistrust you. Get beyond being a party animal before getting married. Have your fun FIRST!

Answer 4

Sex is important to both partners, there should no contest or anything to prove.

Money is important, each partner should have their own income and savings. House hold expenses should be divided evenly, depending on children in the home or not. The more responsibilities the nurturing partner has, the less she (or he in a few cases) should be required to put out for the household expenses.

Looks are only important if you are planning o making babies. Nobody wants an ugly kid.

AGE is important. Don't marry somebody who listens to a different decade of music or is in prime baymaking time and your not.

Religion is important. Either you have it or you don't. Your partner should be on the same wave.

Morals. If you don't want a cheater, don't marry one. Check past of intented. That goes with shop lifting, cheating on your taxes, eyeing the oposite sex, hating/loving and respecting your parents. You want somebody who is the same as you. And talk about disaplining children, if you plan on making any. How, when, who and why should all be laid out before marriage an way before SEX.

Station in life. That is different than age, but close. If your in college or might return to college, you would want the same in a partner. If your past mid-life crisis, you would want somebody is the same boat.

Baggage. This can be the same as station in life. How well do you get along with the mother / mothers of your children and how well does that future partner get a long with their? DEBT should be considered too. You will be morally responsible for your partners past and legally responsible for their future spendings.

Please do yourself a favor and do lots of open dating or casual dating.
You do not have to be own by a 'boy / girl friend' in order to go out with them and have a good time. You are allowed to date more than one person at a time. That way you can explore many of the oposite sex and not be wasting time on one person who might not work out.

Exclusive dating and claiming to be 'in love' with one person should be done with a person you are interested in marrying, WHEN you are ready to marry and after you've known them a good long while. Be free and Be smart.
(Spell check is not working, please forgive any errors)

Answer 5

BIG-BIG-BIG ISSUE.... communication!!! Even if it's about the stupidest.... simplest things. Talking WITH each other... instead of AT each other is an absolute necessity. The friendship part of the marriage is essential in keeping honesty and loyalty in a marriage. Don't get me wrong... money and sex play an important role.... but communication is the key to a successful marriage.

Answer 6

Sex is very important, but its not the most important thing. Affection plays a large part in our marriage as well. Money will come and go, but its how you react to the situations. My husband is very very attractive. I even think he may be prettier than me.... but he has put on some weight. I could care less.... he still brings a sparkle to my eye when he holds me.

Answer 7

Sex is very important (especially for the man). I don't think money is very important. I know looks are not important. I think the most important traits are loyalty, commitment and honesty. It also helps if the guy is truly in love with you..

Answer 8

Sex- in my opinion -is very important-perhaps one of the most important aspects.
Money-not so much-I have my own and if he helps me out every once in a while or I help him out then we have nothing to fight about financially.
Looks-are definitely important-no matter what anyone says-you have to be attracted to each other in order for priority #1 to continue to be good.
Most important-as far as I am concerned-is to be yourself-really be yourself and always tell each other what you want and what you are thinking without hesitation. This can be done with respect and compassion always. You sort of need to keep it in the back of your minds that you are 2 separate people and either one of you could go your own way at any time. That helps keep the respect thing in check.

Answer 9

it really depends on the person. it drives me crazy when i meet a guy and within the first couple hours he's tellin me how much money he makes. I guess guys think we care about things like that, but we don't (well at least i don't). sex is definitley important, if your not sexually compatable with someone then you might as well not waste your time. but seriously, i think a good husband is someone who listens, is sweet but also knows how to be the man in a relationship, and someone who loves you unconditionally and had no problem telling you every day.

Answer 10

A lot of people say that sex is not important. For me, sex is important. It helps to form the bond between a woman and her husband. Once the bond has formed, and say he couldn't perform anymore, I would still feel it was my duty out of loyalty to do all I can do for him. Money, or a lot of money isn't as important as trust, fidelity, loyalty, honesty, humor, and most of all love.