My friend is sooooooooooo immature if you say something like lets go do it like in a sentence she laughs and now she is like cusing up the wall and sometimes she flips me off for no reason she called me a f*$#ing b@#$% for no reason too she just keeps doing it how do i handle this she is worse than a annoying teenage brother and is being a brat what should i do with out getting into a fight with her
2007-12-17 12:14:28 · 16 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
must you be friends with her? and why? if you can't figure out a reason other than because you don't want to hurt her feelings, i suggest she isn't a friend worth keeping that closely. but if you want to keep her, the only way is to become more witty/sarcastic to her. she starts lauging at a "lets go do it"... look at her weirdly (but in a nice weird way) and say "nevermind doing it with you laughing like that, i just got turned off"... she flicks you off for no reason, say "yeah you know you want to **** me" and walk off. You will probably be able to think of better comebacks than mine. But that's how you two will be able to joke with each other. if she gets mad at that, then she can't take what she is dishing out. which will then again refer to my first question in this answer.
2007-12-17 12:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by Cwisteeny Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not your friend 1st of all, so get that straight...a friend treats you right! just don't speak to her, end off or if you have a problem with her let her know face2face on her own/different environment where she cant react bad and show off to other people. tell her if she don't change her attitude towards you then your "friendship" is over! it might be hard but who needs a friend like that????? i sure don't! do you?
2016-05-24 10:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel or act really mature around her and she will feel immature. or you could point out other people doing the same thing and say they are acting so immature(maybe get some other friends to act like her in the mall and then walk by them and try this.)
2007-12-17 12:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her and dont hang out with her and when she asks why . let her know that she is being childish and needs to grow up and not only that the things shes doing is disrespecting you and thats not a way friends treat one another .if she doesnt understand and stop doing it then beat her up for flipping you off !
2007-12-17 12:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Taurus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, my friend is kinda like this and I get annoyed. So, you should just go up to her and say, "hey, you got to stop this, I'm getting really tired of it." Hopefully that'll wake her up and give her a reality check.
2007-12-17 12:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by USC Trojan for Life. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm. That's annoying. It sounds to me that she's trying to impress guys, so maybe you could talk to one of your guy friends and have him tell her that the swearing / immaturity isn't attractive???
2007-12-17 12:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by cuteiswhatweallaimfor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
violence never solved anything.
avoid a fight at all cost and instead simply drop her
as a friend and associate with more mature people.
2007-12-17 12:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to avoid people like that, and try not to get to be too friendly with them. My opinion for what it is worth.
2007-12-17 12:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to grow up!!! Her immaturaty is not attractive. If this doesn't work, tell her to F$%K Off and find a new friend.
2007-12-17 12:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by gtstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend like that 2 but what i did i calm her party down i sat w her and told her what i felt she should do she didnt get mad at me but then asfter 2weeks shes like thanx for giving me that talk try it!!!!
2007-12-17 12:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by stephany g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋