Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

I have been married 15 years, but have been separated for 2 months and have a child together. My wife decided that she was no longer happy with herself and decided to move out. This is the second time she has left last year she left for month then came back, but she did not change. She is currently living with a relative and talks about getting her own place. However when I ask her does she want a divorce, she does not give me answer only says she does not know. I know there is no other person involved, because I would know. I just don't understand what she is trying to do or why she can't make decision. I am willing to work on the marriage, but I just don't know what she wants because she won't tell me or make a decision. We tried last year with marriage counseling but she did not like it and did not want to do it again after one session. I just need to understand or know, so I can move on with my life. Why is talking about her own place but yet won't make a decision about divorce?

2007-12-17 01:38:04 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OMG ur dream come true and treated u like a queen how would u return the favor o loving u soooooo much????

2007-12-17 01:37:23 · 21 answers · asked by ஐHis Sexxi Wifeyஐ 2 in Singles & Dating

does he want to be just friends or he just doesn`t like me in that way.

2007-12-17 01:36:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to sneak a baby from this woman. She is really fine. I will have to sneak to have the baby with her because I have a girlfriend and I don't want to get in trouble and lose my girlfriend. How can I sneak the baby from this woman without my girlfriend finding out? The woman has already said that I can sneak a baby with her if I want to.
How should I do it?

2007-12-17 01:34:13 · 19 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

2007-12-17 01:34:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok... so... My ex and I haven't been together since February but we were still friends off and on up until last week when I confronted her about her talking crap about me to everyone... When she said "so" I told her I wanted nothing to do with her and I told her to stay out of my life... She then wrote a blog saying she was gonna call the cops on me and have a restraining order put on me and blah blah blah... let me remind you... I'm the one who told her to stay out of MY life...

Today she writes me an email with something I said a few months ago... it said something along the lines of I'll always love her and I never want her out of my life... and that is true I do love her... but I'm tired of getting hurt by her and then she goes around telling everyone I'm such a bad person...

So I guess the question is: Should I let her back in my life??

2007-12-17 01:33:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love someone very much and they love me too, but we are unhappy. When I'm apart I am even more unhappy but I don't know if it is becuase I am lonely.... I have rearranged my entire life for this person and now I don't know what to do???

2007-12-17 01:32:42 · 12 answers · asked by Katharine A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What are some ways that I could do it without my girlfriend finding out? I won't have sex with the woman or anything, I just want to sneak and date her to see how it would be. How should I do it?

2007-12-17 01:30:45 · 10 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to know about their secure work environment. I have heard that there happens the sexual activities inside the airline industry which are remains as hidden. So some people don't like it. people like this job only due to the higher salary. so what is the fact that is in reality. i want to know the facts. sometimes , the airhostess have to go for night shifts and they have to remain for long time away from home. i have seen many of the girls been changed after being airhostess. and i also find one of the five star hotel in my country that there used to be found air hostess for sexual pleasure by paying high amount. this kind of things are remained always hidden so i want the actual fact in general, so plz can everyone can post the answers how u think about it?

2007-12-17 01:28:45 · 2 answers · asked by unexpressed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 01:27:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not ignorant in things? how can we be not ignorant in things?

2007-12-17 01:25:55 · 8 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how would u use them and why would u wish for that????

2007-12-17 01:24:05 · 42 answers · asked by ஐHis Sexxi Wifeyஐ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 01:23:42 · 7 answers · asked by Curtis c 1 in Singles & Dating

why godown love story some time or marrige?

2007-12-17 01:20:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This has happened to me more than once.

2007-12-17 01:19:25 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive not dated in years, and hes a fireman so hes on call from 7pm so were going out in the daytime, he also has kids so we both have to be home by 3pm.
I know he said dinner , but im outta ideas as to what else we could do.....And NO Sex is a No No ...lol
xxx

2007-12-17 01:18:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My co-worker has this siutation, not me, and they're too embarrrased to post it. Thanks in advance for all answers. Merry Christmas!

2007-12-17 01:14:33 · 24 answers · asked by Katy B 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been stuck on someone for a very long time now, and think its time i learn to move on..BUT i DON"T KNOW how to move on.

it was my 1st love, and it ended rather coldly..and it still hurts me, cause i still have feelings for him..

i once tried to move on before , it was a huge mistake..he was childish,immature, and peverted..i couldnt develop feelings for him.i just felt terrible about the whole thing..since he loves me..bleh

can someone explain how to move on, with details not just the typical "find some1 new ull ferget abot yer self" like answers...

please help!

2007-12-17 01:11:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 47 year old female, will be single soon after 10 years of marriage, Yes I do want to start dating soon after, I don't want to get to serious but just have some opposite sex friends, due to I didn't have any male friends while married.
I haven't been to a club are dancing in years, don't really drink but love music.

Thanks

2007-12-17 01:10:57 · 5 answers · asked by janmarie 1 in Singles & Dating

after a year and a half of marriage and a baby on the way. He has gone as far as to say he wants to live on his own b/c he can't get that space at home. I want desperately for things to work. We have gone to counseling and that has helped some, but he still wants to move. I want to know what I need to be doing to give him that space all the while I want to keep him as my husband.

Ex. I try to be very supportive as he has a new job, but I am scared to tell him how proud I am in fear of getting on his nerves.

Last night I went in the living room after not speaking for 5 hours and went to kiss him and he said, DON'T BOTHER ME RIGHT NOW...so I left the room and started crying.

We're not moving apart until January 15. How can I manage this until then giving him the space he needs and w/out me going crazy?

2007-12-17 01:10:27 · 18 answers · asked by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 01:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

show you how much she loves you? And how could she do it with a kiss also? Thanks.

2007-12-17 01:05:44 · 9 answers · asked by iLOVEJESUS 4 in Singles & Dating

k so the hottest girl in scool asks me out and i just cant believe it but then her ex-boyfriend said he's going 2 bash me. im a black belt in taekwondo so should i back off from her bash him or get bashed and go out with her

2007-12-17 01:05:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 01:01:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Help!! I'm getting married May 17, 2008. When do i need to send out the wedding invations

2007-12-17 01:01:35 · 8 answers · asked by kdrck1 2 in Weddings

Were your partners actions (or inactions) partially to blame? I've read that guys usually cheat for the sex & women cheat for the emotional side. Is that true in your case? So, looking back, is there anything you would have / could have done to change things (so the cheating wouldn't have happened)?

2007-12-17 01:00:53 · 9 answers · asked by Andy K 6 in Marriage & Divorce

What is your opinion of what one would consider "respectable" price for an engagement ring?

2007-12-17 00:59:58 · 12 answers · asked by ilovecokeacole 3 in Weddings

My names Jenna and I have the perfect life
I get married next year - in January actually.
Can't wait,
guess someone as pretty as me is pretty successful, hey?
I know you are all jealous
and i am having a big wedding too and lots of my cousins, etc
are coming to the wedding and we already have our own house too,
so that means I am pretty much perfect - hey!

2007-12-17 00:59:52 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I (male) and my best friend (female) have been best friends for as long as we've known each other (over four years). And during our friendship era, we did date on and off. I am homosexual, however she was not aware of this until about 9 months ago. She found out by snooping into my email. The issue is, when first confronted with my homosexuality, she took it hard because of how she found out, but then we talked about it for a while and she told me she accepted it. However due to her behavior towards my wanting to date other guys, I have found that she is indeed NOT okay with it. The reason she is not okay with it, is because she has strong feelings of love for me. I love her too, but she has passionate "spouse" type of love for me, and I don't return her feelings. She says it's too painful to watch me go out and date other guys. But what am I to do? I am gay, that's what we do. Recently I hooked up with this guy, and she says it's over between me and her. I don't want that.

2007-12-17 00:56:51 · 1 answers · asked by sportznut05 3 in Singles & Dating

Were your actions (or inactions) partially to blame? I've read that guys usually cheat for the sex & women cheat for the emotional side. Is that true in your case? So, looking back, is there anything you would have done to change things (so the cheating wouldn't have happened)?

2007-12-17 00:50:55 · 26 answers · asked by Andy K 6 in Marriage & Divorce